Mary, God bless U. U are coming to HIm, your heavenly Father. Today give Him your heart & all of it. Repent of your sins, so your saviour can wash U in his blood, starting with U, even for your family. Mary as U come to Christ, the Holy Spirit will teach U, comfort you, bring things to your rememberance. U must speak to each situation & renounce in Jesus name that is causing depression, oppression, trusting in God to work it out. A lot of times we bring things in our lives, through compromising, being passive, sins, etc, and not putting God getting counsel from the word of God. (I have done so myself & learned the hard way) Bring each situation before the Lord. Father, I pray as this family member submit herself to U, and each problems U will guide her through your words to bring her into light that she will not be overwhelm, and held captive by the circumstances in her family. I pray that U send Godly women in her life to encourage her, give her support, in Jesus name