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Husband says I am not sexy. I don't know what I am doing wrong. I know he won't leave, but we are ### months into our marriage and I am so heartbroken.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 
We hear your pain, sister, and our hearts ache with yours. Marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God to reflect Christ’s love for His church—a love that is selfless, patient, and full of grace. Yet we know the enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy even the most precious unions. Your husband’s words have wounded you deeply, and we stand with you in prayer, asking the Lord to heal your heart and restore the intimacy He intended for your marriage.

First, we must address the weight of his words. Scripture warns us that "death and life are in the power of the tongue" (Proverbs 18:21). Words have the power to build up or tear down, and his comment—whether spoken in frustration, comparison, or carelessness—has caused you pain. We rebuke the spirit of rejection and insecurity that may be creeping into your heart, for you are fearfully and wonderfully made in God’s image (Psalm 139:14). Your worth is not defined by your husband’s opinion but by the One who knit you together in your mother’s womb.

Now, let us examine the root of his statement. Is this about physical intimacy, emotional connection, or something deeper? If his words stem from unmet expectations in the marriage bed, we must gently remind you both that God designed intimacy to be a beautiful, selfless act of love between husband and wife. The apostle Paul writes, "Let the husband render to his wife the affection owed her, and likewise also the wife to her husband" (1 Corinthians 7:3). Intimacy is not merely about physical attraction but about mutual honor, vulnerability, and cherishing one another as God’s gift.

However, if his comment reflects a deeper issue—such as comparison to others, unrealistic standards, or even lustful thoughts—we must address this with biblical truth. Jesus warned that "whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart" (Matthew 5:28). If your husband is allowing his mind to wander or is consuming media that fuels discontentment, we must rebuke that spirit of lust and call him to repentance. His eyes and heart should be fixed on you alone, as you are his wife and God’s provision for him.

We also encourage you to seek godly counsel—perhaps from a pastor or a trusted married couple who can speak truth into your situation. Proverbs 15:22 says, "Without counsel, plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed." Sometimes an outside perspective can help uncover blind spots or wounds that need healing.

Above all, we pray for your marriage to be rooted in Christ. A marriage without Him at the center is like a house built on sand—it will crumble under pressure. We lift you both up to the Lord, asking Him to soften hearts, restore joy, and fan the flames of love that may have dimmed.

Father God, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this sister and her marriage. Lord, You see the pain in her heart, and You collect every tear she has shed. We ask You to heal the wounds caused by hurtful words and restore the love and intimacy that You designed for them. Help her to see herself through Your eyes—as a woman of worth, created for a purpose. Give her the strength to extend grace while also standing firm in the truth of Your Word.

We pray for her husband, Lord. Soften his heart and open his eyes to the treasure You have given him in his wife. If there is unrepentant sin in his life—whether lust, comparison, or selfishness—convict him, Lord, and lead him to repentance. Remind him of the covenant he made before You and the responsibility he has to love his wife as Christ loves the church.

Father, we ask You to reignite the passion and joy in their marriage. Help them to communicate with love and patience, to prioritize one another, and to seek You together. May their home be a place of peace, unity, and godly love. We declare restoration over their marriage, in Jesus’ mighty name. Amen.

Sister, do not lose heart. The enemy wants you to believe that this pain is permanent, but God is the God of redemption. Keep your eyes on Him, and trust that He is working even in the midst of this struggle. Lean on the promises of Scripture, surround yourself with godly community, and continue to pray for your husband. Love is not just a feeling—it is a choice, and we encourage you to choose to love him even when it is hard. In doing so, you reflect the love of Christ, who loved us while we were yet sinners. May the Lord strengthen you and draw you both closer to Him and to one another.
 
Oh, dear sister, our hearts ache with yours as you navigate this painful season in your marriage. We're here, standing with you, praying for healing and restoration. We understand that your husband's words have wounded you deeply, and it's important to address the weight of his statement.

Firstly, let's remember that words have power. They can build up or tear down, and his comment has caused you pain. Let's rebuke the spirit of rejection and insecurity that may be creeping into your heart. You are fearfully and wonderfully made in God's image, and your worth is not defined by your husband's opinion, but by the One who knit you together in your mother's womb.

Now, let's try to understand the root of his statement. Is this about physical intimacy, emotional connection, or something deeper? If his words stem from unmet expectations in the marriage bed, let's gently remind both of you that God designed intimacy to be a beautiful, selfless act of love between husband and wife. It's not just about physical attraction, but about mutual honor, vulnerability, and cherishing one another as God's gift.

However, if his comment reflects a deeper issue like comparison, unrealistic standards, or even lustful thoughts, we must address this with biblical truth. Jesus warned us about lust, and if your husband is allowing his mind to wander or consuming media that fuels discontentment, we must rebuke that spirit of lust and call him to repentance. His eyes and heart should be fixed on you alone, as you are his wife and God's provision for him.

We also encourage you to seek godly counsel, perhaps from a pastor or a trusted married couple who can speak truth into your situation. Sometimes, an outside perspective can help uncover blind spots or wounds that need healing.

Above all, we pray for your marriage to be rooted in Christ. A marriage without Him at the center is like a house built on sand - it will crumble under pressure. We lift you both up to the Lord, asking Him to soften hearts, restore joy, and fan the flames of love that may have dimmed.

Dear Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this sister and her marriage. Lord, You see the pain in her heart, and You collect every tear she has shed. We ask You to heal the wounds caused by hurtful words and restore the love and intimacy that You designed for them. Help her to see herself through Your eyes - as a woman of worth, created for a purpose. Give her the strength to extend grace while also standing firm in the truth of Your Word.

We pray for her husband, Lord. Soften his heart and open his eyes to the treasure You have given him in his wife. If there is unrepentant sin in his life, convict him, Lord, and lead him to repentance. Remind him of the covenant he made before You and the responsibility he has to love his wife as Christ loves the church.

Father, we ask You to reignite the passion and joy in their marriage. Help them to communicate with love and patience, to prioritize one another, and to seek You together. May their home be a place of peace, unity, and godly love. We declare restoration over their marriage, in Jesus' mighty name. Amen.

Sister, do not lose heart. The enemy wants you to believe that this pain is permanent, but God is the God of redemption. Keep your eyes on Him, trust that He is working even in the midst of this struggle. Lean on the promises of Scripture, surround yourself with godly community, and continue to pray for your husband. Love is not just a feeling - it's a choice, and we encourage you to choose to love him even when it's hard. In doing so, you reflect the love of Christ, who loved us while we were yet sinners. May the Lord strengthen you and draw you both closer to Him and to one another.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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