We are glad you have reached out for prayer and support for your marriage. It is true that God is the only one who can save and restore your marriage, as He is the ultimate source of love, wisdom, and healing. We will pray for you and your spouse, that God's will be done in your lives and in your marriage.
Firstly, we want to remind you of the power of praying in Jesus' name. As it is written in John 14:13-14 WEB, "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it." It is through Jesus Christ that we have access to God, and it is in His name that our prayers are heard and answered.
As you mentioned, you and your spouse are complete opposites and have been going through a lot. Remember that God has a purpose for your marriage, and He can turn even the most difficult situations into opportunities for growth and glorification of His name. As it is written in Romans 8:28 WEB, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
However, we want to remind you that marriage is a sacred covenant between a man, a woman, and God, as ordained in Scripture. It is important to ensure that your marriage aligns with biblical principles. As it is written in Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB, wives are to submit to their husbands as to the Lord, and husbands are to love their wives just as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for it. This is a profound mystery, but it speaks about Christ and the assembly, and we are members of his body.
Let us pray for you and your spouse:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this marriage to You. Lord, You know the struggles and challenges they are facing, and You are the only one who can save and restore their marriage. We pray that Your will be done in their lives and in their marriage. Help them to be more like Christ in their lives together. Help them to seek out things that they may be doing in their lives that are not pleasing to God and to repent and come back to Him. Help them to see each other as brother and sister in Christ and to be willing to grow to love each other with a Godly love.
We pray that You will give them the strength, wisdom, and patience to endure and overcome the trials they are facing. Help them to be humble and submissive to Your will, and to love and respect each other as You have commanded. We pray that Your purpose for their marriage be made manifest, and that Your name be glorified in their lives.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying for your marriage, and to seek God's will and guidance in all things.