Marriage, Job and breakthrough from struggle

[Maheswari_S]

All praise be to our God. Let us pray for the above requests to our God via Jesus! Amen!

Please pray for the following continuously

(1) I am believing that our God will provide permanent government/public sector job positions to our family members according to their educational and professional qualifications. Faith in our God that He will provide our family members the best permanent government/public sector job positions enable them to explain regarding our God's Glory which God has done in their life to their patients. One member is working a temporary/contract job and they have to pay the monthly salary on time, since they are delaying to pay the salary. Also, he tried another temporary govt job in another institution and the screening test/written test on Friday. So continuous prayer is required to get the Interview call for the job and to get the job position and moreover, there should not be any problem or any obstacles from his HOD or anybody and anything to leave the existing job and get the full settlement immediately after getting the new job in another reputed institution.

Another family member to get a temporary govt. job urgently and she will wait for a Permanent Govt. Job. Both are waiting for permanent govt. job positions till God's Time & Will.

(2) Faith in our God who will show us a better spiritually, Godly bridegroom for my family member, who will be a doctor with handsome earnings with GOOD HABITS and No Bad Habit according to the Bible and also the marriage will occur at the earliest possible. Awaiting for God's Order, since We are seeking a Godly doctor with GOOD HABITS and No Bad Habits and good earnings.

(3) We have paid a big amount to a person for a house lease purpose and at that time the owner of the house committed and promised to handover the house to us within fifteen days. But after a month also he has not handed over the house to us and hence, we have asked him to return our full amount. He told that he will pay the amount after getting the amount from another person who is willing to take the lease of the house. He committed and promised that till such time he will pay our house rent to us. We asked him that pay only bank interest as we have taken a gold loan from the bank. But he refused that he will not pay the interest to us. Then we agreed that as your (House owner) commitment and promise by you pay the house rent to us till such period. After his commitment and promises, he has not yet paid the house rent to us for the period. Now it is crossed more than a year (more than 17 months) passed. Till today, he has not paid the house rent. Bank interest is also increasing day by day. Which is a huge amount and we cannot able to arrange to pay the interest to the bank. Please pray for us that the house rent for 8 (eight) months are enough to us or bank full interest with additional amount payable (processing charges, admin charges, inspection charges, conveyance is also enough to us to manage the things smoothly.

Hope and Faith that our God will order the person and By God's Grace the full amount will be paid to us immediately without any loss.

The Liar, Cheater (wicked) is telling "I cannot give your money back immediately or urgently" "He is telling wait wait". Almost 15 Months (one year and three months) and have been passed. It is unjust. Is this justice? God have to punish him as under:

(a) Physical Punishment - (i) to be severe to the wicked person and his wife which is a lifelong (up to death) suffering.
(ii) if the wicked person & his wife are working, then his job should be lost and never he should not get any job up to death.
(iii) the wicked person & his wife's tongue should be decayed or cut-off, then only they cannot able to tell lie, cheating.
(iv) the wicked person & his wife's both hands to be cut-down or paralyzed or never it should be useful up to death. They have counted the money with these hands
(v) the wicked person & his wife's son and daughter's education should be spoiled, because they are using the cheating money for their education.

(f) Material Punishment - (I) the wicked person & his wife's own house should be fall-down in the ground/earth and fully destroyed/demolished.
(II) if the wicked person & his wife's are doing/running business, then heavy financial loss should occur.
(III) if the wicked person & his wife's should be cheated by anybody 10 (Ten) time more that what wicked have cheated us.

Then only he never ever cheat anybody. God have to admit them into His punishment of the above enable them to realize what they have done wrong, cheating, lie, fraud. But he and his wife should not go to die and God have not destroy such kind of wicked people/persons and they have to live with the above sufferings which is justice? After this suffering only they may repent and turn to God.

If physical punishment is not able to give to the wicked, liar, cheater, fraud and his wife, then material punishment may be given to them. In case this is not able to give to the wicked, liar, cheater, fraud, then earthly consequences like sleepless night, mental disturbance, Loss of Peace, financial loss, family problems, Anxiety, Physical strain, sickness, Blockage in Success, Blessing Blockage, Inner emptyness etc., to be given by God to the wicked, liar, cheater, fraud and his wife enable them to repay our house rent with bank interest and after repent and turn to God.

I asked our God that "Why the Honest should suffer? Why the wicked, Liar, fraud, cheater persons are not punished? If there is no punishment from God to the wicked person, then How the repent and turn to God? If punishment is not given by God the Wicked people, then how they fear to God? If no fear to God, then they will do more and more wicked things. God have to give a punishment to them that will Glory to our God.

In some place in the Bible mentioned like this "The Lord watches over all who love him, but all the wicked he will destroy"
Habakkuk 1:13 – “Why do you tolerate the treacherous? Why are you silent while the wicked swallow up those more righteous than themselves?”

I am waiting for the Justice from God. Nobody knows when the punishment or Justice will be happened. God have to give punishment immediately to this wicked person. so that he will not do many more. If God is not giving punishment, then again and again he will do the same wicked things. I am faith with God that He will punish the wicked person in such a manner that he has to fear to God now itself. Otherwise he will do the same thing to others and again and again. If God have given punishment immediately enable him not to do such kind of things in future. Otherwise God will give a big punishment which he cannot able to tackle or solve.

Due to this our family cannot able to sleep daily night. Also misunderstanding within our family. As per his activities, he never ever repent. Due to his behaviour, definitely he will not repent to God. Without big Punishment, it is very very difficult to repent this wicked, fraud, cheater will repent.

Also God have to give punishment to that wicked person, who is believing that God is NOWHERE. If he believe that God is NOW HERE, then he will not tell lies and cheat anybody. Until he is getting punishment, he will again and again do this wicked things to many peoples. As per his activities, he never repent. If God is not giving punishment, then on what ground we will have faith with God. Hence, God have to give severe punishment to that person enable him not to do this kind of things to any other person/s in future.

This person and his wife is telling only Lies and whatever the speaks with us are false or Lies only. We enquired around their residential houses regarding that wicked person, fraud person, cheater and his wife also telling lies and she is also supporting his husband. So both are definitely not repent. Without God's big punishment, they will not realize their mistakes and wickedness, cheating. Awaiting for the God's big punishment from only they will repent. Otherwise there is no use and Satan will involve. They never repent again turn to God. Awaiting response from our God urgently and immediately, since I don't have put faith God further.

1 day of God is equal to 1000 years to Human and 1000 years of Human is equivalent to 1 day for God. That means there is No Grace will be to human from God till their death! There is No Mercy from God. Till human death they have to suffer if anybody is Honest. Wicked will Prosper and they will enjoy like anything and then they will die happily.

It is clearly understood that in that case God cannot do any good thing to the honest, since God is silent. God is only seeing the wickedness not acting the righteousness or justice. God is some count slowness, which means inactive. God is powerless, which means no power with him and Satan have power. Now God cannot able to do Miracles, since Satan is doing miracles in the earth. God can hear the requests of the honest, but will not to do justice and he will wait until the death of the wicked person, Liar, Cheater and fraud. God will do the judgement once the wicked person, liar, cheater and fraud when died.

What Prayer Warriors are saying is that Wait for God's Time and God's Time is Perfect. But live in the earth, it is not at all wait for the God's Time and it will come after death. Because God's Time will be very very very slow at the life is very very very early as per bible, since once upon a time the life was very long like 800 years 600 years and it was now decreased to 75 to 100 years and also the average age will be 50 - 60 years only. Hence, once any human wait for the God's Time, then that will be after their death only. This is point number one. Secondly, wait for God's Will. When the God's Will be means it will also before very near to their death and they cannot able to rejoice. Once the God's Will be given to a human, he will not happy, since they cannot able to enjoy or happy due to their age and they cannot able to avail the enjoyment. Thirdly, God's Grace. This will for the wicked person and liar, cheater, fraud and cheater, since they have to repent from their sin and thats why God will wait up to their death. Fourthly Mercy and which will be also for the liar, cheater, fraud and wicked persons only and not for the honest and Godly or God feared persons. God will punish some count with Honest persons in the way the person cannot able to identify or in such a way they cannot determine or find or unaware ways or can't understandable ways. No wicked, cheater, liar will be punished, since God will wait and slowness. In that why the honest should be suffer and we can also be do the wicked things, and God will not punish and wait for us till we repent and by that time our die will occur and within that period we can enjoy, rejoice, happy and without restless, sleeplessness fearlessness.

Is God is inactive, since there is no justice to me and our families. Is God is alive or not. Is God is dead are what. Is God is a stone which is in the Well? If so, there will not be any action. Is God is faithful. No, He is not faithful. Is God is powerless, since there is no improvement or development spiritually as well as earthly in physical life. Is God is Merciless, since there is no requests are fulfilled. Is God is Graceless, since none of the requests are fruitful. Is God is in Wicked peoples like Liar, Cheater, Fraud or Cheater, since there are no prayer request are fulfilled but wicked persons are prosper each and every day and jouful in their life. Is God can now do any Miracles in the earth. No. the Miracles were happened 2000 years before. Now God cannot able to do any Miracles, since now God is powerless, but Satan is powerful as per Bible.

 

[Articles]

We come before the throne of grace with heavy hearts, lifting up these burdens before our Heavenly Father in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to the Father, and it is by His blood that we are made righteous to stand before Him. We declare that there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12), and we approach God with the confidence that He hears the prayers of His children when we come in faith through Christ.

First, we lift up the matter of employment for your family members. Father, we ask that You open doors of opportunity that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). We pray for permanent government positions that align with their qualifications, Lord, not for their glory but for Yours. May these jobs become platforms where they can testify of Your goodness and share the hope of salvation with those they serve. We declare that the temporary struggles they face now will not define their future, for You have plans to prosper them and not to harm them, plans to give them hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11). For the one awaiting the interview call, we pray for favor in the eyes of those making decisions. May every obstacle be removed, and may the transition to a new position be smooth and without hindrance. We rebuke any delays in salary payments and declare that provision will come in full and on time. For the family member still waiting for a temporary position, we ask for Your divine intervention, Lord. Let her not grow weary in waiting, but let her trust in Your perfect timing.

Father, we also lift up the desire for a godly spouse for your family member. We pray for a man who fears You above all else, one whose life is marked by holiness, integrity, and godly character. May he be a doctor not just in profession but in heart, a man who reflects Christ in his dealings with others. We pray against any ungodly traits or habits, Lord, and ask that You prepare this young woman’s heart to recognize the spouse You have chosen for her. Let their courtship be pure and honorable, with marriage as the ultimate goal, for marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled (Hebrews 13:4). We declare that this union will be blessed and will bring glory to Your name.

Now, we come to the matter of the broken agreement and the financial strain it has caused. Father, we know that You are a God of justice, and we ask that You intervene in this situation. The Word says, "The wicked borrow and do not repay, but the righteous give generously" (Psalm 37:21). We pray that the one who has acted deceitfully will be convicted by Your Holy Spirit and moved to make restitution. We ask for the full amount owed, including the house rent and interest, to be returned without further delay. We declare that the financial burden will be lifted, and that You will provide wisdom to manage the situation with peace and clarity.

However, we must address the spirit of vengeance and unforgiveness that has taken root in this situation. The Word is clear: "Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: ‘It is mine to avenge; I will repay,’ says the Lord" (Romans 12:19). The punishments you have listed are not ours to demand, for vengeance belongs to God alone. We must not allow bitterness to poison our hearts, for it only harms us, not the one who has wronged us. Instead, we pray for this man and his wife, that their hearts would be softened and that they would come to repentance. We declare that You are just, Lord, and that You will deal with them in Your way and in Your time. But we must also examine our own hearts, are we trusting in Your justice, or have we allowed doubt to creep in?

We see the pain and frustration in your words, and we acknowledge the deep hurt this situation has caused. But we must confront the dangerous path of questioning God’s character. To say that God is inactive, powerless, or unfaithful is to deny the very foundation of our faith. The Word declares, "The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance" (2 Peter 3:9). His timing is not our timing, and His ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9). We must not confuse His patience with inaction, nor His mercy with weakness. The fact that the wicked seem to prosper is not evidence of God’s absence, but of His longsuffering. The psalmist Asaph struggled with this same question in Psalm 73, but he found his answer when he entered the sanctuary of God and saw the end of the wicked. Their prosperity is temporary, but the righteous will inherit the earth (Psalm 37:9).

We must also address the misunderstanding of God’s grace and mercy. You have expressed frustration that God’s grace seems to extend only to the wicked, but this is not true. Grace is available to all who repent and turn to Christ. The problem is not that God withholds grace from the righteous, but that the wicked refuse to receive it. The Word says, "God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble" (James 4:6). If this man and his wife remain unrepentant, it is not because God has withheld grace, but because they have rejected it. Our role is not to demand punishment, but to pray for their salvation. We must trust that God’s justice will prevail, whether in this life or the next.

We rebuke the spirit of doubt and unbelief that has crept into your heart. The enemy wants you to question God’s goodness, His power, and His faithfulness. But we declare that God is alive, He is active, and He is working even when we cannot see it. The Word says, "Faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see" (Hebrews 11:1). We must hold fast to our faith, even when circumstances seem impossible. We pray that your trust in God will be restored and that you will see His hand at work in this situation.

Father, we ask that You break the cycle of sleepless nights and anxiety in this family. We pray for peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7) to guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. We declare that the misunderstandings within the family will be resolved, and that unity will be restored. We ask that You heal the wounds caused by this betrayal and replace bitterness with forgiveness. We pray for financial provision, Lord, that You would meet every need according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). We declare that the burden of debt will be lifted, and that You will open doors of opportunity to cover the interest and other expenses.

We also pray for the one who has acted deceitfully. Father, we ask that You would break the hardness of his heart. Let him see the error of his ways and turn from his wickedness. We pray that he would experience the conviction of the Holy Spirit and come to repentance. We declare that his lies will be exposed, and that he will be compelled to make restitution. We pray that his wife would also be convicted, and that both of them would turn to You in humility. We ask that You would remove any spiritual blindness and open their eyes to the truth of Your Word.

Lord, we know that You are a God of justice, but we also know that You are a God of mercy. We pray that this situation would not only bring justice but also redemption. We ask that You would use this trial to draw this family closer to You. Let them see Your faithfulness even in the midst of hardship. We declare that their faith will not be shaken, but strengthened. We pray for a breakthrough in every area, financially, emotionally, and spiritually.

In Jesus’ name, we declare that the chains of debt and deceit will be broken. We declare that the right job opportunities will come at the right time. We declare that the godly spouse will be revealed according to Your perfect will. We declare that justice will be served, but that it will be Your justice, not ours. We declare that this family will walk in forgiveness, peace, and trust in You. We declare that their testimony will be one of Your faithfulness, and that others will be drawn to Christ through their story.

We trust You, Lord, to work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). We wait on You, knowing that those who wait on the Lord will renew their strength (Isaiah 40:31). We believe that You are working, even when we cannot see it, and we choose to trust in Your unfailing love.

Amen.

 

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We have read your requests and we are holding them before the Lord with you. So much weight has been on your family for a long time, waiting for secure work, trusting God for a good marriage for your family member, and carrying this heavy financial burden with the house lease for more than a year. It is understandable that you are exhausted, unable to sleep, and feeling tension at home while the bank interest keeps growing.

We are praying for God's provision for the jobs you mentioned, for the temporary positions and the screening test this week, and for wisdom for each family member as they wait for what is next. We are also praying for God's guidance in the marriage matter and for peace as you trust His timing.

For the house amount, wanting what you are owed returned is right and fair, and seeking a just and lawful return is different from carrying the burden of revenge in your heart, which only deepens the pain you already feel. It may help not to carry this alone. If you have not already, consider showing all receipts and written messages to a trusted pastor or a local legal aid counselor who can advise you calmly on lawful next steps, and speaking with your bank counselor about the loan pressure so you have clear information. Sharing the sleeplessness and family strain with a pastor or counselor and with your doctor can also give you support while you wait.

Father, we bring this family to You in Jesus' name. You see their needs, their waiting, and their hurt. Provide for their jobs and daily needs, guide the future marriage, and make a way for what is owed to be returned fairly. Grant them wisdom, rest at night, unity at home, and a quiet trust in Your care. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your heavy burden has been laid before the Lord and we have heard your cry concerning work, marriage and the sore trial over money lent for a house. We will pray with you and for you, and we desire to do so according to the Word of God and in the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father.

We will bring before the throne your petitions for daily bread. For those in your family who seek permanent labour in the public service according to their training, we ask that the Lord in His wisdom would open doors that no man can shut, and close those which should not be entered. For the one who labours under a temporary contract and waits for wages long delayed, and for the one who has sat for a screening test and looks for an interview, we pray that God would grant favour, honesty in all dealings, and a peaceable release from present obligations if it be His will to transplant him. We pray also that your family member who desires a godly marriage may be kept in purity and patience, seeking not merely earnings or station but a bridegroom who fears God, who walks in good habits and turns from evil, as the Scripture requires, and that such a union, being a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, may be ordered in the Lord's time.

Touching the house lease and the great sum now withheld these many months, with interest increasing and your family brought into sleeplessness and strife, we mark your sorrow and the sense of injustice you feel. It is right to ask God for justice, for He loves righteousness and He will do what is right. It is right also to seek by lawful and honest means the return of what is owed, with reasonable recompense for loss. Yet we cannot join you in asking God to cut off tongues, to paralyze hands, to destroy a house, to take away livelihood till death, or to spoil the schooling of children. Such prayers would ask God to do what He has forbidden us to desire. Our Lord has taught us that vengeance belongs unto Him, not unto us to dictate the manner of it. If God demanded the penalty in justice, He Himself supplied it in love at the cross, and He has forgiven us freely for Christ's sake, not for aught that we have done. That forgiveness which we have received is full and eternal, and after such forgiveness we should be wicked servants indeed if we should take our brother by the throat and say, Pay me that thou owest.

The Scripture says, But there is forgiveness with Thee, that Thou mayest be feared. This is a great truth. There is forgiveness with God, and it is in His very nature. He does not mock men by teaching them to pray when He intends to refuse. He has given His Son to be a Prince and a Saviour to give repentance and forgiveness of sins, and He has promised that whosoever confesses and forsakes sin shall find mercy. To proclaim the acceptable year of the Lord and the day of vengeance of our God belongs to Him. The mystery of the gospel is that Justice and Mercy meet together. The day of vengeance and the year of acceptance are in His hands, and we must leave both in His hands. He will not be slow as men count slowness, nor is He powerless nor as a stone in a well. He watches over all who love Him, He hears the honest cry, and He is able still to work miracles, though His perfect time is not always our hasty time.

When the heart is bitter, the writing of God's law upon the heart preserves us. A heart with God's law written upon it learns to fear Him because He forgives, not because He indulges our wrath. If that law is written there, it will keep you in the expiring moments as well as in the present trial. Do not let the sun go down upon wrath. Halfway to reconciliation is often where Christ meets us. Pray rather thus, Lord, bring this man and his wife to see their wrong, grant them repentance, and move them to restore what is due, with fairness for the loss we have borne. And if they repent not, leave them to Thy righteous judgment, which is both severer and more merciful than any curse we could frame.

We do not say, wait without hope. To wait upon God is not to wait till death without grace. His grace is present now, His mercy is present now, to sustain the honest though they suffer for a season. The wicked may seem to prosper for a moment, but God is not inactive. He will judge with equity, and He will comfort all that mourn. Cast your care upon Him concerning the debt, the interest, the charges of the bank, and ask Him for wisdom to act prudently, for peace within your household, and for deliverance from anxiety.

We will continue to pray that God would provide for your house in honest work, guide toward a godly marriage in His fear, and order a just and speedy settlement of this debt without loss, and above all that He would write His law upon your hearts, give you a new heart, forgive your sins, and keep you holy till He brings you to Himself. May you prove that there is forgiveness with Him, and find that such forgiveness teaches you to fear Him and to forgive as you have been forgiven.