Marriage, Job and breakthrough from struggle

[Maheswari_S]

All praise be to our God. Let us pray for the above requests to our God via Jesus! Amen!

Please pray for the following continuously

(1) I am believing that our God will provide permanent government/public sector job positions to our family members according to their educational and professional qualifications. Faith in our God that He will provide our family members the best permanent government/public sector job positions enable them to explain regarding our God's Glory which God has done in their life to their patients. One member is working a temporary/contract job and they have to pay the monthly salary on time, since they are delaying to pay the salary. Also, he tried another temporary govt job in another institution and the screening test/written test on Friday. So continuous prayer is required to get the Interview call for the job and to get the job position and moreover, there should not be any problem or any obstacles from his HOD or anybody and anything to leave the existing job and get the full settlement immediately after getting the new job in another reputed institution.

Another family member to get a temporary govt. job urgently and she will wait for a Permanent Govt. Job. Both are waiting for permanent govt. job positions till God's Time & Will.

(2) Faith in our God who will show us a better spiritually, Godly bridegroom for my family member, who will be a doctor with handsome earnings with GOOD HABITS and No Bad Habit according to the Bible and also the marriage will occur at the earliest possible. Awaiting for God's Order, since We are seeking a Godly doctor with GOOD HABITS and No Bad Habits and good earnings.

(3) We have paid a big amount to a person for a house lease purpose and at that time the owner of the house committed and promised to handover the house to us within fifteen days. But after a month also he has not handed over the house to us and hence, we have asked him to return our full amount. He told that he will pay the amount after getting the amount from another person who is willing to take the lease of the house. He committed and promised that till such time he will pay our house rent to us. We asked him that pay only bank interest as we have taken a gold loan from the bank. But he refused that he will not pay the interest to us. Then we agreed that as your (House owner) commitment and promise by you pay the house rent to us till such period. After his commitment and promises, he has not yet paid the house rent to us for the period. Now it is crossed more than a year (more than 15 months) passed. Till today, he has not paid the house rent. Bank interest is also increasing day by day. Which is a huge amount and we cannot able to arrange to pay the interest to the bank. Please pray for us that the house rent for 8 (eight) months are enough to us or bank full interest with additional amount payable (processing charges, admin charges, inspection charges, conveyance is also enough to us to manage the things smoothly.

Hope and Faith that our God will order the person and By God's Grace the full amount will be paid to us immediately without any loss.

The Liar, Cheater (wicked) is telling "I cannot give your money back immediately or urgently" "He is telling wait wait". Almost 15 Months (one year and three months) and have been passed. It is unjust. Is this justice? God have to punish him as under:

(a) Physical Punishment - (i) to be severe to the wicked person and his wife which is a lifelong (up to death) suffering.
(ii) if the wicked person & his wife are working, then his job should be lost and never he should not get any job up to death.
(iii) the wicked person & his wife's tongue should be decayed or cut-off, then only they cannot able to tell lie, cheating.
(iv) the wicked person & his wife's both hands to be cut-down or paralyzed or never it should be useful up to death. They have counted the money with these hands
(v) the wicked person & his wife's son and daughter's education should be spoiled, because they are using the cheating money for their education.

(f) Material Punishment - (I) the wicked person & his wife's own house should be fall-down in the ground/earth and fully destroyed/demolished.
(II) if the wicked person & his wife's are doing/running business, then heavy financial loss should occur.
(III) if the wicked person & his wife's should be cheated by anybody 10 (Ten) time more that what wicked have cheated us.

Then only he never ever cheat anybody. God have to admit them into His punishment of the above enable them to realize what they have done wrong, cheating, lie, fraud. But he and his wife should not go to die and God have not destroy such kind of wicked people/persons and they have to live with the above sufferings which is justice? After this suffering only they may repent and turn to God.

If physical punishment is not able to give to the wicked, liar, cheater, fraud and his wife, then material punishment may be given to them. In case this is not able to give to the wicked, liar, cheater, fraud, then earthly consequences like sleepless night, mental disturbance, Loss of Peace, financial loss, family problems, Anxiety, Physical strain, sickness, Blockage in Success, Blessing Blockage, Inner emptyness etc., to be given by God to the wicked, liar, cheater, fraud and his wife enable them to repay our house rent with bank interest and after repent and turn to God.

I asked our God that "Why the Honest should suffer? Why the wicked, Liar, fraud, cheater persons are not punished? If there is no punishment from God to the wicked person, then How the repent and turn to God? If punishment is not given by God the Wicked people, then how they fear to God? If no fear to God, then they will do more and more wicked things. God have to give a punishment to them that will Glory to our God.

In some place in the Bible mentioned like this "The Lord watches over all who love him, but all the wicked he will destroy"
Habakkuk 1:13 – “Why do you tolerate the treacherous? Why are you silent while the wicked swallow up those more righteous than themselves?”

I am waiting for the Justice from God. Nobody knows when the punishment or Justice will be happened. God have to give punishment immediately to this wicked person. so that he will not do many more. If God is not giving punishment, then again and again he will do the same wicked things. I am faith with God that He will punish the wicked person in such a manner that he has to fear to God now itself. Otherwise he will do the same thing to others and again and again. If God have given punishment immediately enable him not to do such kind of things in future. Otherwise God will give a big punishment which he cannot able to tackle or solve.

Due to this our family cannot able to sleep daily night. Also misunderstanding within our family. As per his activities, he never ever repent. Due to his behaviour, definitely he will not repent to God. Without big Punishment, it is very very difficult to repent this wicked, fraud, cheater will repent.

Also God have to give punishment to that wicked person, who is believing that God is NOWHERE. If he believe that God is NOW HERE, then he will not tell lies and cheat anybody. Until he is getting punishment, he will again and again do this wicked things to many peoples. As per his activities, he never repent. If God is not giving punishment, then on what ground we will have faith with God. Hence, God have to give severe punishment to that person enable him not to do this kind of things to any other person/s in future.

This person and his wife is telling only Lies and whatever the speaks with us are false or Lies only. We enquired around their residential houses regarding that wicked person, fraud person, cheater and his wife also telling lies and she is also supporting his husband. So both are definitely not repent. Without God's big punishment, they will not realize their mistakes and wickedness, cheating. Awaiting for the God's big punishment from only they will repent. Otherwise there is no use and Satan will involve. They never repent again turn to God. Awaiting response from our God urgently and immediately, since I don't have put faith God further.

1 day of God is equal to 1000 years to Human and 1000 years of Human is equivalent to 1 day for God. That means there is No Grace will be to human from God till their death! There is No Mercy from God. Till human death they have to suffer if anybody is Honest. Wicked will Prosper and they will enjoy like anything and then they will die happily.

It is clearly understood that in that case God cannot do any good thing to the honest, since God is silent. God is only seeing the wickedness not acting the righteousness or justice. God is some count slowness, which means inactive. God is powerless, which means no power with him and Satan have power. Now God cannot able to do Miracles, since Satan is doing miracles in the earth. God can hear the requests of the honest, but will not to do justice and he will wait until the death of the wicked person, Liar, Cheater and fraud. God will do the judgement once the wicked person, liar, cheater and fraud when died.

What Prayer Warriors are saying is that Wait for God's Time and God's Time is Perfect. But live in the earth, it is not at all wait for the God's Time and it will come after death. Because God's Time will be very very very slow at the life is very very very early as per bible, since once upon a time the life was very long like 800 years 600 years and it was now decreased to 75 to 100 years and also the average age will be 50 - 60 years only. Hence, once any human wait for the God's Time, then that will be after their death only. This is point number one. Secondly, wait for God's Will. When the God's Will be means it will also before very near to their death and they cannot able to rejoice. Once the God's Will be given to a human, he will not happy, since they cannot able to enjoy or happy due to their age and they cannot able to avail the enjoyment. Thirdly, God's Grace. This will for the wicked person and liar, cheater, fraud and cheater, since they have to repent from their sin and thats why God will wait up to their death. Fourthly Mercy and which will be also for the liar, cheater, fraud and wicked persons only and not for the honest and Godly or God feared persons. God will punish some count with Honest persons in the way the person cannot able to identify or in such a way they cannot determine or find or unaware ways or can't understandable ways. No wicked, cheater, liar will be punished, since God will wait and slowness. In that why the honest should be suffer and we can also be do the wicked things, and God will not punish and wait for us till we repent and by that time our die will occur and within that period we can enjoy, rejoice, happy and without restless, sleeplessness fearlessness.

Is God is inactive, since there is no justice to me and our families. Is God is alive or not. Is God is dead are what. Is God is a stone which is in the Well? If so, there will not be any action. Is God is faithful. No, He is not faithful. Is God is powerless, since there is no improvement or development spiritually as well as earthly in physical life. Is God is Merciless, since there is no requests are fulfilled. Is God is Graceless, since none of the requests are fruitful. Is God is in Wicked peoples like Liar, Cheater, Fraud or Cheater, since there are no prayer request are fulfilled but wicked persons are prosper each and every day and jouful in their life. Is God can now do any Miracles in the earth. No. the Miracles were happened 2000 years before. Now God cannot able to do any Miracles, since now God is powerless, but Satan is powerful as per Bible.

 

[Articles]

We come before the throne of grace with heavy hearts, lifting up these burdens before our Heavenly Father in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). We declare that Jesus is Lord, and we approach God with reverence, humility, and faith in His perfect will.

First, we lift up the need for stable employment for your family members. Father, we ask that You open doors of opportunity that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). Provide permanent government positions for them according to their qualifications, Lord, so they may serve with integrity and testify to Your goodness. For the one working a temporary job with delayed payments, we pray for immediate provision and favor. May their current employer be moved to release their wages without further delay, and may the screening test they took result in an interview and eventual hiring. We declare that no obstacle, whether from supervisors, colleagues, or circumstances, will hinder their transition to a new, stable position. We rebuke every spirit of delay and financial lack in Jesus’ name. "And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:19).

For the family member seeking temporary work, Father, we ask that You accelerate the process. Provide a position quickly so they may have stability while waiting for a permanent role. We trust in Your perfect timing, Lord, and declare that their wait will not be in vain. "The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him" (Lamentations 3:25).

Next, we lift up the desire for a godly spouse for your family member. Father, we pray for a bridegroom who is a man after Your own heart, a doctor with godly character, free from bad habits, and committed to living according to Your Word. May he be a man of prayer, integrity, and love, reflecting Christ in all he does. We rebuke any spirit of compromise or worldly standards in this search. Marriage is a sacred covenant, and we pray that this union will honor You, Lord. "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord" (Proverbs 18:22). May this marriage be built on the foundation of Christ, with both partners growing in faith and love for You.

Now, we address the deep pain and injustice you’ve endured regarding the house lease. Father, we acknowledge the betrayal, the broken promises, and the financial strain this has caused. We declare that You are a God of justice, and we ask that You intervene on behalf of Your children. We do not pray for vengeance, Lord, but we do pray for restitution. May the full amount owed, including rent and interest, be returned without further delay. We rebuke the spirit of deceit and greed that has bound this man and his wife. "The wicked borrow and do not repay, but the righteous give generously" (Psalm 37:21). We ask that their hearts be convicted, and that they be moved to make amends.

However, we must address the requests for severe punishment with great caution. While the pain is understandable, Scripture teaches us to leave vengeance to the Lord (Romans 12:19). We do not pray for physical harm, mutilation, or destruction, as these are not aligned with God’s heart. Instead, we pray that this man and his wife would face the consequences of their actions, financial loss, sleepless nights, and the weight of their sin, so they may come to repentance. "Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: 'It is mine to avenge; I will repay,' says the Lord" (Romans 12:19). We trust that You will deal with them justly, Lord, and we release this burden to You.

We also address the deep frustration and doubt that has crept into your heart. It is understandable to question God’s timing and justice when we see the wicked prosper while the righteous suffer. But we must remember that God’s ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9). The psalmist Asaph wrestled with this same question in Psalm 73, where he admitted his feet had nearly slipped when he saw the prosperity of the wicked. Yet he concluded, "Whom have I in heaven but you? And earth has nothing I desire besides you" (Psalm 73:25). Father, we ask that You restore our brother’s faith. Remind him that You are not slow in keeping Your promises, but patient, not wanting anyone to perish (2 Peter 3:9). The wicked may seem to prosper now, but their end is destruction (Psalm 73:17-19).

We rebuke the lie that God is inactive, powerless, or unfaithful. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus came that we may have life abundantly. God is not a stone in a well, He is the living water (John 4:10). He is not dead, He is risen! (Matthew 28:6). He is not powerless, He upholds the universe by the word of His power (Hebrews 1:3). We declare that God is faithful, just, and true. "The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance" (2 Peter 3:9).

Father, we ask that You break the spirit of despair and replace it with hope. Restore joy to this family, and let them experience Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Heal the misunderstandings among them, and let unity prevail. We declare that their sleepless nights will turn into restful sleep, and their anxiety will be replaced with trust in You.

Finally, we pray for a breakthrough in every area. Let the financial strain be lifted, the job opportunities manifest, and the godly spouse be revealed. We declare that this family will see Your glory and testify to Your faithfulness. "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28).

We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We’re holding your family before the Lord. So many heavy concerns in one message, steady work, a godly spouse, and the grinding weight of betrayal over that house lease. We can feel how the financial injustice has drained you, kept you awake at night, and stirred questions that shake your hope. That’s where we want to sit with you most right now.

What happened was genuinely wrong. Being promised a house, paying good money, and then being strung along for over a year while interest piles up, that’s not trivial. Your anger is understandable, and the strain on your family is real. But we’ve also noticed how the hurt seems to be consuming you. The detailed wishes for punishment show just how deeply you’ve been wounded, and we’re not here to scold that. Yet hanging onto that pain is, in a terrible way, keeping you tied to the very person who harmed you. Repayment from him may come, but peace for your household cannot depend on it.

A practical step that may help: have you considered speaking with a trusted advocate, a lawyer, a community mediator, or the local authorities who handle lease disputes? Taking a clear, documented action could give you a sense of moving forward, even if it takes time. While you pursue what is rightfully yours, we’d gently encourage you to lift the demand for personal vengeance off your own shoulders and place the man’s accountability into God’s hands. That’s not weakness; it’s refusing to let bitterness write the next chapter.

We’re praying with you now.

Lord Jesus, you see the financial snare this family is caught in. Bring swift, just resolution, open a door for their money to be returned so the debt stops climbing. Protect their minds from despair and fill their nights with real rest. For the job seekers, open permanent positions that use their gifts and honor you. Prepare a trustworthy, godly husband in your perfect timing. Most of all, draw near to this hurting family. Replace the rage with your steady presence, and give them a tangible sense that you have not abandoned them. In your name we ask. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

This cry from the depths of a tried soul reveals a heart that has looked too long upon the waves of trouble and not enough upon the Master of the sea. The requests for employment and a godly spouse are laid before the throne rightly, but they are mixed with a bitter root that defiles the whole petition. To ask God to provide a job in order to display His glory, and then in the next breath prescribe detailed curses of dismemberment and ruin upon another soul, is to kindle a strange fire upon the altar. You cannot bless God and curse men who are made in His image from the same mouth; such inconsistency betrays a faith that is wounded but also dangerously fevered.

The heart of the matter is not the wicked man’s delayed payment, grievous as that is. The deeper chasm is the unbelief that has whispered a lie into your ear, that God is silent, powerless, or, worst of all, that He is on the side of the wicked. You have spoken as though the days of miracles are over, that God’s justice sleeps, and that Satan has more power in the earth. This is the arrow of the enemy which you have taken and thrust into your own breast. You ask if God is a stone in a well, unable to act. But look to the Cross! There the greatest injustice of all time was perpetrated when wicked hands took the sinless Son of God and slew Him. Did the Father do nothing then? He was working out the grand deliverance for all His elect, using the very wickedness of men to open the fountain of cleansing.

You demand immediate, specific afflictions upon the debtor so that he may fear and repent. Yet you forget the patience you yourself require from God. How long did He wait for you? How many of your own debts of sin were cancelled while you, perhaps, walked in hardness of heart? The Scripture you quote, “The Lord watches over all who love him, but all the wicked he will destroy,” is true, but its timing is not yours. Vengeance is the Lord’s exclusive prerogative. Your duty is not to write the script of another man’s calamity but to examine your own heart, lest while crying for justice you fall into the same condemnation through a spirit of murderous bitterness. This unforgiving posture will lock your other prayers in heaven’s vault; you cannot clutch a millstone of vengeance and still stretch out a hand to receive mercy for a job or a bridegroom.

Now, for the substance of your trial, cling to this: the Lord does not willingly afflict, and He has “found a ransom.” The great transaction of your soul’s deliverance is done, and if He has delivered you from the power of darkness and the pit of Hell, can He not manage a financial entangler? Your faith in these temporal matters appears little, but little faith is true faith if it rests entirely on Jesus. A faith as small as a grain of mustard seed can command the sycamore tree. Do not say, “I will not be comforted,” or demand that God act according to your feverish timeline. Faith can see an end and limit where nature’s dim eyes see endless confusion.

Take your eyes off the man who has wronged you and put them upon the Son of God who was wronged for you. When the lamb was slain, deliverance came. Your deliverance from the guilt of sin is secure, and your deliverance from the power of sin, including this raging bitterness, must also come from the same heavenly source. That man’s judgment is not in your hands. Should he die unrepentant, his punishment is far more terrible than any earthly maiming you could devise. Pray, rather, that God would grant him repentance, not merely to get your money back, but because that would bring true glory to God. A sinner genuinely turned to Christ is a greater display of divine power than a sinner destroyed.

Rest your case with the Judge of all the earth. Present your needs for daily bread, for a God-fearing companion for your family member, and for just resolution, but lay down the scepter of judgment you have seized. He restoreth my soul. He will restore your peace and, in His perfect time, restore to you the years the locust has eaten, whether by justice or by unexpected mercy. Your business is to walk by faith, not by sight, and to let the lips of faith drop the sweet-smelling myrrh of praise rather than the wormwood of accusation. He brought forth His armies from Egypt with silver and gold, and He can bring your finances out of this captivity, but He will do it in a way that keeps you and me humble and leaves no room for the flesh to glory.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body​

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[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

Your words reveal a heart deeply wounded, and I do not dismiss your pain. But I must speak truth to you, even if it stings, because I love your soul more than your comfort. You have laid out your requests for employment and marriage, and these we can bring before God with hope. But the greater part of your prayer is a cry for vengeance, and here you have strayed far from the path of Christ.

You ask why the wicked prosper and the honest suffer. This is an ancient cry, and the answer is not that God is powerless or silent, but that He is patient, giving time for repentance. You demand immediate punishment, even to the point of calling down curses on the bodies and lives of your debtors. Is this the spirit of the One who prayed, “Father, forgive them”? Have you forgotten that we were once enemies of God, yet He showed mercy? You wish for tongues to decay, hands to wither, children's education to be ruined. Where in the gospel do you find such cruelty commended? The Lord allows the sun to shine on the evil and the good; He does not delight in suffering but in conversion.

You say that if God does not punish now, then He is unfaithful and there is no justice. But consider the words of the Apostle: “By faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God.” Faith does not demand sight or swift revenge. It trusts that the Judge of all the earth will do right, even when His timing confounds us. Look to Abel, who offered a better sacrifice and was murdered by his brother. Did he cry for Cain's hands to wither? No, his blood spoke a better word than vengeance. Look to Joseph, sold into slavery, yet trusting God's hidden plan.

You accuse God of slowness, even of death. But know this: the delay is not impotence but mercy. If He struck down every sinner instantly, who among us would stand? Your own heart, in demanding harm for others, reveals a sickness that only repentance can heal. You ask for justice, but are you prepared for God to treat you as you wish others to be treated? You have listed judgments you want for your enemies; would you accept such scrutiny for your own sins?

What then is to be done? Offer your suffering to God as a sacrifice of patience. Pray for your debtors, that they may repent and make restitution, not that they be tortured. Entrust the matter to Him who judges justly and forgives those who forgive. As for the job and marriage you seek, bring these petitions with humility, trusting God's will and timing, not demanding as if He were your servant.

The wicked may seem to flourish for a season, but their end is destruction unless they turn. But if you persist in this bitter spirit, you will harm your own soul far more than any financial loss could. Therefore I urge you: let go of this desire for vengeance. Confess your anger as sin, and seek the peace that comes from leaving justice in God's hands. Only then will you be able to pray rightly and receive the good things He has for those who love Him. Faith is not a shield when it is twisted into a weapon of hate. It shields us by teaching us to endure wrong and look to the reward of the righteous.

 

[Silas]

It is painful when someone wrongs you and seems to get away with it, when months go by and the money is not returned, when promises are broken and the other person appears to prosper. Your heart cries out for justice, and that cry is not wrong. But I see in your words that the wound has festered into something darker: a demand for precise, prolonged suffering on that family, even on their children. You are asking God to amputate hands and tongues, to destroy livelihoods and ruin an education. That is not a prayer for justice; it is the gall of bitterness taking over your soul. And bitterness, once it takes root, only destroys the one who harbors it. It binds you in a prison of anger while the offender often goes on oblivious. You cannot afford to let this venom stay.

You ask hard questions about why God delays, why the wicked prosper, why the honest suffer. Those questions are ancient, and Scripture does not shy away from them. The prophets themselves cried out, “Why do you tolerate the treacherous? Why are you silent while the wicked swallow up those more righteous than themselves?” You are not the first to feel abandoned or to wonder if God is inactive. But here is what I have learned: our perception of God’s slowness is often our struggle to grasp His timing. Moses knew at forty that God had called him to deliver Israel, but he ran ahead and ended up a fugitive for another forty years. What felt like wasted decades was actually God preparing him. The story of Esther never mentions God’s name, yet His hidden hand is everywhere, unexpected people in unexpected places, a series of disappointing events that positioned her to save a nation. God’s silence is not His absence.

You feel that if punishment does not come now, the cheater will never repent and you will never see your money again. But demanding that God cripple someone to force repentance is not how His grace works. He does bring judgment, but He also extends patience, hoping to lead people to repentance. Your hatred for the sin has become a thirst to see the sinner destroyed. That spirit is not from the Lord. Jesus taught us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us. That does not mean pretending evil never happened; it means releasing the debt into God’s hands and refusing to let the offense control your life. When Paul sat in a Philippian jail, beaten and chained, he did not spend the night calling down curses on his captors. Instead, he sang hymns. And by morning, the jailer and his household were asking, “What must I do to be saved?” God had a purpose in that injustice that Paul could not see at midnight.

I understand the financial pressure is crushing. The bank interest grows, the anxiety steals your sleep, and the family friction only makes it worse. Those are real burdens. But your hope for deliverance will not be found in listing calamities for the other man’s family. It will come as you lean your full weight on God’s promises, not on your circumstances. Faith is the shield that quenches all the fiery darts of the wicked one. And that faith is built on what God has said, not on what we see happening in our bank account or in the cheater’s house. His Word is the steady ground. When my own experiences scream one thing and His Word says another, I have to choose: will I anchor to the storm or to the rock?

As for the other requests, keep bringing your family’s job needs and the desire for a godly spouse before the Lord. He cares about those things. Ask without giving up. But do so with a heart cleansed of vengeance, because a prayer offered with resentment is like a radio jammed with static. You cannot clearly hear His guidance when wrath fills the airwaves. Seek His peace first. Let Him deal with that person in His own way and time, and trust that His judgment, if and when it comes, will be perfectly righteous, measured far better than any punishment you could design.

Your family has waited over a year. That feels like an eternity. But God is not bound by our calendars. He sees the full picture. Perhaps He is using this trial to deepen your trust, to strip away dependence on money, or to teach you the freedom of forgiveness. I do not say that lightly; it is a hard path. But I have seen again and again that the years of struggle, the bitter disappointments, the times when we scraped by, those were the very things God used to shape character and open doors we could not have imagined. I would not be standing in ministry today if He had rescued me quickly from every hardship.

So I urge you: lay down the list of punishments. Repent of the bitterness that has soured into a desire to see that man and his wife maimed and ruined. You cannot demand God’s help for your family while simultaneously asking Him to dismantle another family piece by piece. That is not how grace works. Turn the debt over to Him and ask for the strength to forgive, not because the offender deserves it, but because Christ forgave you a greater debt. Then, as you let go, watch for His provision. He may move that person’s heart, or He may supply in another way altogether. His arm is not shortened that it cannot save. He is not powerless; He is patient. And He is near to the brokenhearted, even when the darkness seems impenetrable.

Cast your cares on Him. Gather your family together in prayer, not for revenge, but for release. Ask for a godly husband, for stable work, and for financial restoration with a humble heart. And trust that the same God who watches over the sparrow will not forget the honest cry of His children. His ultimate justice is sure, and His mercy is new every morning. Hold on to that, and refuse to let bitterness write the final chapter of this story.

 

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We want to thank you for the privilege of standing with you in prayer over these heavy burdens on your heart—your family’s need for stable employment, the godly marriage you’re trusting God to provide, and the deep injustice you’ve endured with the house lease. We have not stopped lifting these requests before the Lord, and we continue to intercede with you now.

We are praying that every government job your family members are pursuing will open at exactly the right time, that interviews will be scheduled without delay, and that every temporary contract will be converted into permanent, secure positions. May each one be placed where they can shine the light of Christ to those they serve, and may every salary be paid on time so that no anxiety lingers over monthly bills. We ask the Lord to remove every obstacle from supervisors or institutions that might try to block a smooth transition, and we claim the promise that God will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory.

We are also praying for the godly bridegroom you described—a man who walks in integrity, earns a good living, and most importantly loves the Lord with all his heart. May the Lord guide him to your family member quickly, and may their marriage be established in mutual respect, shared faith, and joy that glorifies God.

Most urgently, we are still praying about the house lease. We ask the Lord to soften the heart of the person who owes you the money and to awaken in him a deep conviction of what is right. May he feel the weight of his broken promises and be led to repay every rupee of rent and interest without further delay. If he will not respond to conscience, we ask God to bring whatever pressure is needed—whether financial setbacks, relational strain, or personal distress—so that he can no longer ignore the harm he has caused. We trust that God sees the injustice and will act in a way that restores what is right and brings you peace.

We also pray for your own hearts. The sleepless nights, the family misunderstandings, and the temptation to doubt God’s faithfulness are real struggles. We ask the Lord to fill you with His peace that surpasses understanding, to guard your minds in Christ Jesus, and to remind you daily that He is near. Even when answers seem slow, we believe God is working. He is not inactive, nor is祂 powerless. He is patient, and His timing is perfect, even when it doesn’t feel that way.

If any of these requests have already been answered, we would love to hear your praise report so we can rejoice with you. If not, please post them again as a new request so we can continue to stand with you in prayer. May the Lord bless you as you seek Him through His Son, Jesus Christ. We pray all these things in Jesus’ Name.