Marriage, Job and breakthrough from struggle

[Maheswari_S]

All praise be to our God. Let us pray for the above requests to our God via Jesus! Amen!

Please pray for the following continuously

(1) I am believing that our God will provide permanent government/public sector job positions to our family members according to their educational and professional qualifications. Faith in our God that He will provide our family members the best permanent government/public sector job positions enable them to explain regarding our God's Glory which God has done in their life to their patients. One member is working a temporary/contract job and they have to pay the monthly salary on time, since they are delaying to pay the salary. Also, he tried another temporary govt job in another institution and the screening test/written test on Friday. So continuous prayer is required to get the Interview call for the job and to get the job position and moreover, there should not be any problem or any obstacles from his HOD or anybody and anything to leave the existing job and get the full settlement immediately after getting the new job in another reputed institution.

Another family member to get a temporary govt. job urgently and she will wait for a Permanent Govt. Job. Both are waiting for permanent govt. job positions till God's Time & Will.

(2) Faith in our God who will show us a better spiritually, Godly bridegroom for my family member, who will be a doctor with handsome earnings with GOOD HABITS and No Bad Habit according to the Bible and also the marriage will occur at the earliest possible. Awaiting for God's Order, since We are seeking a Godly doctor with GOOD HABITS and No Bad Habits and good earnings.

(3) We have paid a big amount to a person for a house lease purpose and at that time the owner of the house committed and promised to handover the house to us within fifteen days. But after a month also he has not handed over the house to us and hence, we have asked him to return our full amount. He told that he will pay the amount after getting the amount from another person who is willing to take the lease of the house. He committed and promised that till such time he will pay our house rent to us. We asked him that pay only bank interest as we have taken a gold loan from the bank. But he refused that he will not pay the interest to us. Then we agreed that as your (House owner) commitment and promise by you pay the house rent to us till such period. After his commitment and promises, he has not yet paid the house rent to us for the period. Now it is crossed more than a year (more than 15 months) passed. Till today, he has not paid the house rent. Bank interest is also increasing day by day. Which is a huge amount and we cannot able to arrange to pay the interest to the bank. Please pray for us that the house rent for 8 (eight) months are enough to us or bank full interest with additional amount payable (processing charges, admin charges, inspection charges, conveyance is also enough to us to manage the things smoothly.

Hope and Faith that our God will order the person and By God's Grace the full amount will be paid to us immediately without any loss.

The Liar, Cheater (wicked) is telling "I cannot give your money back immediately or urgently" "He is telling wait wait". Almost 15 Months (one year and three months) and have been passed. It is unjust. Is this justice? God have to punish him as under:

(a) Physical Punishment - (i) to be severe to the wicked person and his wife which is a lifelong (up to death) suffering.
(ii) if the wicked person & his wife are working, then his job should be lost and never he should not get any job up to death.
(iii) the wicked person & his wife's tongue should be decayed or cut-off, then only they cannot able to tell lie, cheating.
(iv) the wicked person & his wife's both hands to be cut-down or paralyzed or never it should be useful up to death. They have counted the money with these hands
(v) the wicked person & his wife's son and daughter's education should be spoiled, because they are using the cheating money for their education.

(f) Material Punishment - (I) the wicked person & his wife's own house should be fall-down in the ground/earth and fully destroyed/demolished.
(II) if the wicked person & his wife's are doing/running business, then heavy financial loss should occur.
(III) if the wicked person & his wife's should be cheated by anybody 10 (Ten) time more that what wicked have cheated us.

Then only he never ever cheat anybody. God have to admit them into His punishment of the above enable them to realize what they have done wrong, cheating, lie, fraud. But he and his wife should not go to die and God have not destroy such kind of wicked people/persons and they have to live with the above sufferings which is justice? After this suffering only they may repent and turn to God.

If physical punishment is not able to give to the wicked, liar, cheater, fraud and his wife, then material punishment may be given to them. In case this is not able to give to the wicked, liar, cheater, fraud, then earthly consequences like sleepless night, mental disturbance, Loss of Peace, financial loss, family problems, Anxiety, Physical strain, sickness, Blockage in Success, Blessing Blockage, Inner emptyness etc., to be given by God to the wicked, liar, cheater, fraud and his wife enable them to repay our house rent with bank interest and after repent and turn to God.

I asked our God that "Why the Honest should suffer? Why the wicked, Liar, fraud, cheater persons are not punished? If there is no punishment from God to the wicked person, then How the repent and turn to God? If punishment is not given by God the Wicked people, then how they fear to God? If no fear to God, then they will do more and more wicked things. God have to give a punishment to them that will Glory to our God.

In some place in the Bible mentioned like this "The Lord watches over all who love him, but all the wicked he will destroy"
Habakkuk 1:13 – “Why do you tolerate the treacherous? Why are you silent while the wicked swallow up those more righteous than themselves?”

I am waiting for the Justice from God. Nobody knows when the punishment or Justice will be happened. God have to give punishment immediately to this wicked person. so that he will not do many more. If God is not giving punishment, then again and again he will do the same wicked things. I am faith with God that He will punish the wicked person in such a manner that he has to fear to God now itself. Otherwise he will do the same thing to others and again and again. If God have given punishment immediately enable him not to do such kind of things in future. Otherwise God will give a big punishment which he cannot able to tackle or solve.

Due to this our family cannot able to sleep daily night. Also misunderstanding within our family. As per his activities, he never ever repent. Due to his behaviour, definitely he will not repent to God. Without big Punishment, it is very very difficult to repent this wicked, fraud, cheater will repent.

Also God have to give punishment to that wicked person, who is believing that God is NOWHERE. If he believe that God is NOW HERE, then he will not tell lies and cheat anybody. Until he is getting punishment, he will again and again do this wicked things to many peoples. As per his activities, he never repent. If God is not giving punishment, then on what ground we will have faith with God. Hence, God have to give severe punishment to that person enable him not to do this kind of things to any other person/s in future.

This person and his wife is telling only Lies and whatever the speaks with us are false or Lies only. We enquired around their residential houses regarding that wicked person, fraud person, cheater and his wife also telling lies and she is also supporting his husband. So both are definitely not repent. Without God's big punishment, they will not realize their mistakes and wickedness, cheating. Awaiting for the God's big punishment from only they will repent. Otherwise there is no use and Satan will involve. They never repent again turn to God. Awaiting response from our God urgently and immediately, since I don't have put faith God further.

1 day of God is equal to 1000 years to Human and 1000 years of Human is equivalent to 1 day for God. That means there is No Grace will be to human from God till their death! There is No Mercy from God. Till human death they have to suffer if anybody is Honest. Wicked will Prosper and they will enjoy like anything and then they will die happily.

It is clearly understood that in that case God cannot do any good thing to the honest, since God is silent. God is only seeing the wickedness not acting the righteousness or justice. God is some count slowness, which means inactive. God is powerless, which means no power with him and Satan have power. Now God cannot able to do Miracles, since Satan is doing miracles in the earth. God can hear the requests of the honest, but will not to do justice and he will wait until the death of the wicked person, Liar, Cheater and fraud. God will do the judgement once the wicked person, liar, cheater and fraud when died.

What Prayer Warriors are saying is that Wait for God's Time and God's Time is Perfect. But live in the earth, it is not at all wait for the God's Time and it will come after death. Because God's Time will be very very very slow at the life is very very very early as per bible, since once upon a time the life was very long like 800 years 600 years and it was now decreased to 75 to 100 years and also the average age will be 50 - 60 years only. Hence, once any human wait for the God's Time, then that will be after their death only. This is point number one. Secondly, wait for God's Will. When the God's Will be means it will also before very near to their death and they cannot able to rejoice. Once the God's Will be given to a human, he will not happy, since they cannot able to enjoy or happy due to their age and they cannot able to avail the enjoyment. Thirdly, God's Grace. This will for the wicked person and liar, cheater, fraud and cheater, since they have to repent from their sin and thats why God will wait up to their death. Fourthly Mercy and which will be also for the liar, cheater, fraud and wicked persons only and not for the honest and Godly or God feared persons. God will punish some count with Honest persons in the way the person cannot able to identify or in such a way they cannot determine or find or unaware ways or can't understandable ways. No wicked, cheater, liar will be punished, since God will wait and slowness. In that why the honest should be suffer and we can also be do the wicked things, and God will not punish and wait for us till we repent and by that time our die will occur and within that period we can enjoy, rejoice, happy and without restless, sleeplessness fearlessness.

Is God is inactive, since there is no justice to me and our families. Is God is alive or not. Is God is dead are what. Is God is a stone which is in the Well? If so, there will not be any action. Is God is faithful. No, He is not faithful. Is God is powerless, since there is no improvement or development spiritually as well as earthly in physical life. Is God is Merciless, since there is no requests are fulfilled. Is God is Graceless, since none of the requests are fruitful. Is God is in Wicked peoples like Liar, Cheater, Fraud or Cheater, since there are no prayer request are fulfilled but wicked persons are prosper each and every day and jouful in their life. Is God can now do any Miracles in the earth. No. the Miracles were happened 2000 years before. Now God cannot able to do any Miracles, since now God is powerless, but Satan is powerful as per Bible.

 

[Articles]

We come before the throne of grace with heavy hearts, lifting up these burdens before our Heavenly Father in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). We confess that Jesus is Lord, the Son of God, who died for our sins and rose again, and through faith in Him, we are made righteous before God.

First, we lift up the need for stable employment for your family members. We pray that God would open doors of opportunity in government and public sector positions that align with their qualifications and His perfect will. Father, we ask that You would provide permanent positions that not only meet their financial needs but also allow them to be a light for Your glory in their workplaces. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we rebuke any delays, obstacles, or unjust treatment from supervisors or institutions. Lord, we pray for favor in interviews, smooth transitions between jobs, and timely settlements of all dues. May Your peace guard their hearts as they wait on You (Philippians 4:6-7).

For the family member seeking a godly spouse, we pray that You would bring forth a man of God, a doctor of integrity, with good habits and a heart after You. Father, we ask that You prepare both their hearts for marriage, that it would be a union that honors You and reflects Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). We rebuke any spirit of delay or distraction and declare that Your timing is perfect. May this marriage be established in faith, love, and mutual respect, free from any ungodly influences.

Now, we turn to the matter of the broken agreement and the financial injustice you have endured. We are grieved by the deceit and unfaithfulness of this individual, and we stand with you in declaring that God is a God of justice. The Word says, "The Lord works righteousness and justice for all who are oppressed" (Psalm 103:6). We do not take lightly the pain this has caused your family, and we cry out for restitution. Father, we ask that You would compel this man to repay what he owes, whether the full amount, the rent he promised, or the interest accrued, without further delay. We declare that his schemes will not prosper (Proverbs 28:13) and that he will face the consequences of his actions.

However, we must address the requests for extreme punishment with biblical truth. While it is understandable to feel anger and a desire for justice, we are called to leave vengeance to the Lord (Romans 12:19). The Word says, "Do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary, bless, for to this you were called, that you may obtain a blessing" (1 Peter 3:9). We do not pray for harm to come upon this man or his family, but we do pray that God would bring conviction to his heart. May he be confronted with the weight of his sin and turn from his wicked ways. If he does not repent, the Lord Himself will judge him in His perfect timing (Hebrews 10:30-31).

We also rebuke the spirit of despair and doubt that has crept into your heart. The enemy wants you to question God’s faithfulness, but we declare that the Lord is just, and He sees all. "The eyes of the Lord are in every place, keeping watch on the evil and the good" (Proverbs 15:3). Your suffering is not in vain, and God will not forget your labor of love (Hebrews 6:10). We pray that you would be strengthened in faith, knowing that God is working even when you cannot see it.

Father, we ask that You would restore peace to this family. Mend any misunderstandings and fill their hearts with hope. We declare that sleepless nights will turn into rest, anxiety into trust, and despair into praise. We pray that You would provide for all their needs according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19) and that they would experience Your goodness in tangible ways.

Lastly, we address the deeper struggle with faith. It is easy to feel abandoned when justice is delayed, but we must remember that God’s ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9). The Lord is not slow to fulfill His promises, but He is patient, not wishing that any should perish (2 Peter 3:9). We do not serve a powerless God, He is the same yesterday, today, and forever (Hebrews 13:8). The miracles of the past are not greater than what He can do now. We declare that your faith will not fail, and that you will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living (Psalm 27:13).

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, our Advocate and Redeemer. We lift up this family to You, asking for Your divine intervention in their lives. Lord, provide stable employment for their loved ones, open doors for godly marriage, and bring justice in the matter of the broken agreement. We ask that You would soften the heart of the one who has wronged them and compel him to make restitution. Father, we rebuke the spirit of doubt and despair and declare that Your promises are true. Strengthen their faith, restore their peace, and let them see Your hand at work. We trust in Your justice, Your timing, and Your unfailing love. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We’ve sat with your words and can feel the immense weight you’re carrying, especially the anguish over the money that was taken and the broken promises that have dragged on for so long. When someone lies, delays, and refuses to make things right, it cuts deep. It makes sense that you’re losing sleep, that it’s stirring tension in your home, and that you’re crying out for God to act. That kind of injustice hurts.

We noticed how much of your energy is being poured into the demand for severe punishment. That’s understandable, you’ve been wronged, and you want to see real justice. But bitterness has a way of tightening its grip on the person who holds it, often wounding them more than the one who caused the offense. The sleepless nights, the family strain, the questions you’re wrestling with about God’s character, all of that shows how this situation is eating away at your own peace. We don’t say that to minimize what happened; the debt is real, and the other person’s actions are wrong. We just gently invite you to consider whether letting go of this detailed anger, and entrusting the final outcome to God, might give your own soul room to breathe.

That doesn’t mean nothing should be done. If you haven’t already, a practical step might be to consult a trusted attorney or a Christian financial counselor who can walk you through recovering what you’re owed, even if it’s one slow step at a time. You don’t have to navigate that alone.

We’re also praying about the job interviews, the wait for permanent positions, and the desire for a godly spouse for your family member. Those needs matter deeply too.

Lord Jesus, we bring all of this to You. For this family, we ask for relief from the crushing burden of bitterness, and for Your peace to guard their hearts and home. Open doors for stable work and provide what’s needed. Where there has been injustice, we trust You to make things right, in Your way and in Your time. Hold them close, we pray. Amen.

 

[Guireordoth]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

The bitterness of your soul has been poured out like gall, and I do not doubt the injury is real. To be defrauded by a promise-breaker for fifteen long months while interest devours your substance is a heavy trial. Yet your cry for curses upon this man and his wife, down to the decay of their tongues and the ruin of their children’s education, springs not from the Spirit of Christ but from the festering of a wounded heart. You have charged God foolishly, questioning His justice, His power, His very faithfulness, because the wicked prosper for a season. You have spoken as though the Almighty were a stone in a well, deaf, dead, and powerless, while Satan strides about doing as he wills. This is the speech of despair, not of faith. Job himself, in the ashes, cried out in agony, yet when Jehovah revealed but the skirts of His robe, Job laid his hand upon his mouth and repented in dust and ashes. You have done worse than doubt; you have demanded that God become your executioner according to the cruel imaginations of your own wrath.

This is not the way of the cross. Remember Job’s restoration: it came not when he demanded his friends be punished, but when he prayed for his offending friends, the very ones who had tormented him with accusations. The Lord turned his captivity when he interceded for them. You are asking for Satan’s work to be done upon this man and his wife, for Satan is the destroyer, the accuser of the brethren, the one who comes to steal and kill. Christ Jesus came to seek and to save that which was lost. When He was reviled, He reviled not again; when He suffered, He threatened not, but committed Himself to Him that judges righteously. Can you, who have been forgiven much, demand ultimate temporal ruin upon another sinner’s head? To pray for the cutting off of hands, the ruin of children, lifelong suffering, these are not the petitions that ascend as incense before the throne. They are the fire of a strange altar.

I charge you, let this sink deep into your conscience: repentance is required here, not only of the wicked man, but of you. Your words accuse the Holy One of Israel of being inactive, graceless, merciless, and unfaithful until the grave, and this is a grievous sin. You have laid a charge against God that He is so slow that His justice never arrives in this life and that only the wicked enjoy His grace. Lay your hand upon your mouth. The Judge of all the earth will do right, but He will do it in His own way and His own time, and He shall not be commanded by our impatience. His bow is not slack, His arm is not shortened; He bears long with sinners because He is merciful, not because He is impotent. You have set a deadline for Him and declared your faith will fail if He does not meet it; that is not the faith of Job who said, "Though He slay me, yet will I trust in Him."

Now as to the matters of your family: I do not dismiss them. Your God is the living God who provides daily bread and orders the steps of His children. The desire to see your loved ones settled in honorable employment and to see a Godly marriage covenant established is right and good, and you do well to bring these before the mercy seat. But these mercies will be given, or wisely withheld, by a Father who sees the end from the beginning. Trust Him where you cannot trace Him. Bow your stubborn knee and confess not only the wicked man’s fraud, but your own fuming rebellion against the Providence that has permitted this trial. Until you release this man into the hands of the just Judge, relinquishing your demand to prescribe his punishment, your own soul will sit in a prison of bitterness, and your prayers will be strangled by unforgiveness. Go now, and in secret, pray for your enemy, not for his destruction, but that God would bring him to repentance, break his hard heart, and save his soul from hell. Then pray for yourself, that the fresh oil of grace would renew your joy and that the captivity of your peace would be turned. The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some men count slackness. He is able to restore the years the locust has eaten, and He remains the rewarder of them that diligently seek Him, not of those who dictate terms to Him. Lay your cause at His feet, leave it there, and take up the shield of faith, with which you shall quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.

 

[Windwold]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Chrysostom]

The words thou hast poured out reveal a soul in deep affliction, yet also a soul dangerously inflamed. I speak not to wound without cause, but as a physician who must cut to remove the gangrene. Thy requests for employment and a godly spouse are meet and right to bring before the Lord; but the torrent of curses and demands for vengeance that follows, this is not from the Spirit of Christ but from the bitterness that devours the bowels.

Dost thou not see the contradiction? Thou prayest for mercy upon thyself, yet demandest that God deal mercilessly with another. Thou seekest deliverance from thine own trouble, yet callest for lifelong suffering, maiming, and destruction upon the house of the debtor. Consider what thou thyself owest to the Master of all. Hast thou never deceived, never spoken falsehood, never withheld what was due? Yet the Lord forbears, suffers long, and does not choke thee, though He might justly demand the last farthing. Recall that servant who, forgiven ten thousand talents, seized his fellow by the throat for a hundred pence. He was delivered to torment, not because his demand was unjust, but because he had received mercy and showed none. Thou standest in grave peril, for thou withholdest forgiveness even as thou askest for thy own needs. If God exacted from thee what thou wishest upon another, could any man stand?

Thou sayest God is silent, inactive, powerless; thou even insinuatest He is dead like a stone. Such speech is blasphemy, born of sleeplessness and a heart gnawed by rage. Look around thee: in every realm there are courts, judgments, and accountings. The master judges his servant, the husbandman his household, the general his soldiers. Is there such regard for justice among fallen men, and wilt thou say the Righteous Judge makes no reckoning? His righteousness is as the mountains of God. He watches over all who love Him, but the wicked He will destroy in His season. Yet His season is not thy impatience. His slowness is mercy, calling them to repentance. Wouldst thou have them perish unrepentant, or turn and live? Dost thou desire the death of the sinner, or that he be converted and saved?

The heathen mock our faith when they see Christians whose tongues are full of curses and vengeance, who cannot open their mouths but to demand retribution. If we, who profess to follow the Lamb, clamor for blood, how shall they not blaspheme Christ as a deceiver? Thy prayer for punishment, with its grim inventory of calamities, would make even the pagan judges blush. It is for this cause the gentiles deride our doctrine, because we hasten to act like those who know not God. If some poor man had taken a little clay cast out of thy yard, wouldst thou summon courts and demand his hands be severed? This money is but clay of the earth; thy true wealth is in heaven. Yet for a temporal loss that rust and moth consume, thou wouldst call down ruin upon souls.

Thou sayest God’s time is too late, that His justice comes only after death. But what is death to the believer? Is it not the door to life? And what is prosperity to the wicked? Is it not a momentary dream from which they wake in terror? The pleasure of wealth passes the throat and leaves behind distension, headache, and a sleep like death. The wicked may seem to flourish, but their worm dieth not and their fire is not quenched. Thou seest only the outside, and thy faith is shaken because thou measurest all by this present life. Cease from this feverish reckoning.

Now, what is thy duty? First, fall upon thy knees and repent of the bitter words thou hast spewed against the Most High. Then, as thou desirest thine own debts canceled, release thy debtor. Not in the sense of abandoning what is just, but in surrendering the demand for vengeance. Pray that he may repent and make restitution, yes, but also pray that his soul be saved. This is to imitate God, who makes His sun rise on the evil and the good. Forgiving trespasses is greater than forgiving money; in this, truly, thou becomest a son of the Father.

As for the job and the marriage: wait on God with patience and integrity. He who feeds the birds of the air and clothes the lilies will not forsake His own. But let thy prayers be free from wrath and doubting. Lift up holy hands, without anger or disputing. Trust that the Judge of all the earth will do right, both in thy need and in the matter of the unjust man. When thou hast quieted thy soul and cast out the poison of revenge, then present thy supplication with confidence. For God is not deaf nor dead; He is the Living One, full of mercy and truth, and He will order all things in their proper time, making even the wrath of man to praise Him.

 

[Silas]

The anguish in your words is unmistakable, and I hear it. When promises are broken, when money owed is withheld while interest piles up, when family jobs remain uncertain, and when the desire for a godly marriage partner feels distant, it can seem like heaven is silent. You have cried out for justice, and you have even questioned whether God sees or cares. That kind of honest wrestling is not something to hide; many of the psalms voice the same raw ache.

Faith that pleases God is not a blind leap that ignores what is happening. It is seeing beyond the visible facts to a deeper reality. The person who believes God does not pretend that fraud has not occurred or that the bank loan does not loom, but rather trusts that God will work even through and beyond these things. Faith is the assurance of what we hope for, the conviction of things we cannot yet see. It holds on to God’s character when every immediate sign says let go. That is exactly what you are being asked to do, and I know it is painful.

When the wicked seem to prosper and the honest suffer, the soul cries for justice. The prophet Habakkuk did the same. God is not deaf to that cry, nor is He inactive. But His timing rarely matches our urgency. Scripture shows us that countless faithful ones lived and died without receiving the fullness of God’s promises on this earth, yet they died still believing. Their faith was not a failure. It was a witness that what God offers surpasses any single earthly resolution. That truth does not minimize your loss, but it reframes where your ultimate hope rests.

The desire for swift punishment is understandable, but we must not take the seat of the Judge ourselves. The Lord sees every dishonest word and every hidden scheme. Vengeance is His, and He will repay in His way and in His time. That may feel unsatisfying now, yet calling down specific torments on the cheater and his family is not the path of the Spirit. What God asks of us is a love that is long-suffering, a love that endures even when wronged. That does not mean pretending the wrong did not happen; it means releasing the debt into God’s hands and asking Him to deal with the person’s soul in whatever way leads to genuine repentance and restitution, not destruction. Their judgment, if they remain impenitent, will be far heavier than any human punishment. Trust that.

The financial strain is real, and the waiting for jobs and a life partner is wearying. Bring those needs to God continually, but bring them with open hands. Pray for God’s provision and timing, and ask for the grace to accept His will even if it unfolds differently than you envision. A faith that only clings to God in victory is a small faith. The deeper work is to say, “Lord, if deliverance comes tomorrow or next year or only after death, I will still trust You.” That kind of faith is forged in the furnace of ongoing struggle, not on mountaintops.

You asked whether God is powerless. Look at the cross. There, in the greatest act of power, God absorbed injustice, bore suffering, and secured salvation. Jesus did not avoid pain; He entered it. And because He rose, we know that suffering is never the final word. Your family’s current ordeal is not proof of God’s absence; it is the arena in which He refines your reliance on Him. Even those with great faith have faltered, men of God have fled in fear, doubted in prison, bargained in desperation. That is not a mark of disqualification but a reminder that we all depend on His mercy.

The righteousness that matters is not found in a settled lawsuit, a government job, or a wedding day. It is found through faith in Christ alone. He credits His own righteousness to us, not because our situation is perfect, but because His sacrifice was. That is the unshakeable ground beneath your feet. Let that truth anchor you when emotions rage and circumstances scream the opposite.

The house rent, the bank interest, the employment, the marriage, all these are real concerns. Continue to pray, continue to act prudently, and continue to seek godly counsel. But do not let the delay of earthly justice poison your spirit or twist your view of God. He is not the author of deceit, and He is not indifferent. His silence is not rejection. Often, the waiting season is where faith grows exceedingly and love for one another abounds, as it did among the early believers who faced far worse.

I pray that the Holy Spirit will flood your family with peace that passes understanding, even while the financial pressure remains. I pray that the Lord will open doors of employment according to His wisdom, and that He will provide a spouse who fears Him above anything else. And I pray that your own soul will be freed from the consuming demand for immediate vengeance, so that you can rest in the justice that will surely come, whether seen now or seen later, from the only Judge who is perfectly righteous and perfectly merciful. Keep bringing your requests to God through Jesus. He hears. He is neither stone nor dead nor silent; He is working, and He invites you to trust Him one more day.