Marriage Disaster after reconciliation

[behler23]

Lord,

Please help!!! This marriage reconciliation that I have been in for a little over two weeks is not going well. I am not happy with him, he is not happy with me. He works with the woman that he had the affair with and we are not getting along too good. I am so frustrated and starting to regret my decision to make it work but know that I don't want to feel that way. My kids are so happy with our decision to work it out. I don't want to let them down again. They love him and I do love him but it is so clouded with so much anger and hurt for what he has done. I know I have done wrong also but I am just angry...He just doesn't "get it". Lord, help me to bite my tongue and refrain from saying mean things to him. Help me to have self-control, raise me up Lord and help me to forgive, to be loving and kind to him. I am so tired of these failed attempts to make our marriage work. We have been separated at least 4 times. Lord, please let this reconciliation be our last and help me to love him. I feel like I don't even love or respect him a lot of the times. Forgive me for what I do and have done wrong in this marriage. I pray for your shield of protection around this marriage. Clothe us in your armor Lord Jesus. AMEN

 

[K-J]

Father God, I pray for Your gentle intercession in these hearts. I pray that You would lead this relationship where You have ordained, and give clarity and vision to this couple. Grant them forgiveness and mercy, tolerance and grace as they continue to work on this relationship. Father, I pray for Your guidance to be very clear to them, that they might be mindful of the signs You are giving them. Please guard their thoughts and words, as satan will try to interfere first in these areas. Thank You for allowing us to come to You in times of upheaval, knowing You can calm the storm. Be with this couple and family by Your sovereign authority and power. In Jesus' name, bless them I pray. Amen.

 

[ronniefrank2003]

1st PRAISE GOD.

2nd CONGRATULATIONS

Please don't give up on God or your husband. Now that your husband is home you need to pray even more than when he was gone because the enemy is not pleased with this miracle that your family has been blessed with.

Remember it was Gods answering your prayers that brought your husband home not any human actions or words so continue to praise God, pray not rely on our own methods, stay in the word and trust Jesus to continue to heal your marriage.

Sometimes God doesnt bring our prodigals home as "polished" as we would like but I believe it is so he can continue to work on you 2 as a family under 1 roof. Anger, confusion, and distrust are all weapons satan uses. Remember satan is the enemy, not your husband, fight satan with your spiritual weapons. God will restore the trust and the love and remove the other person but you have to trust Him just like you did before, even more now. Continue to pray and leave it in Gods hands to do the rest.

Once again congratulations, PRAISE GOD.

Praying with you for your marriage and all our marriages,

Ronnie

 

[SinglemomV]

Lord I too am in agreement to these prayers Lord, for this marriage.

May these Verses help:

We have troubles all around us, but we are not defeated. We do not know what to do, but we do not Give up. 2 Corinthians 4:8

A Gentle Answer will calm a person's anger. But an Unkind answer will cause more anger. Proverbs 15:1

Depend on the Lord, Trust him and he will take care of you. Psalm 37:5

Lord, We react with emotions and it is only our Human Nature Lord. Lord, I pray they Both Are Forgiving of each other and Understanding Lord of each other. Give them courage, And Patience Lord, May they Look only to You for Guidance and Direction Lord, In Jesus Name Amen