Marriage and dishonest selfish partner.

Anonymous

Beloved of All
Dear Lord, I don't know how to tell you how with this marriage, Lord Jesus, my husband doesn't want to mend our marriage. The enemy is in him, saying I would never know when he is seeing someone. The spirit of dishonesty is dwelling in him. Lord, many times I have tried calling him to keep communication flowing, but he always cuts me short. I removed myself from him because he was living in the same house with me and didn't speak to me. I migrated to my eldest son because it wasn't healthy for my kid growing up in an abusive psychological home. Because he wanted to teach my son how to lack empathy and compassion. I thought migrating might have made him change his ways towards me. But it has gotten worse. I even invited him to come visit for a few days, but he refused. It is written, "don't forsake your family for work. Life should have balance." He said to me, "for 15 years all I have is for our child, I have nothing to get." But it is written, "make I came into this world naked, I will return to my maker. Everything under this sun is vanity and can easily be destroyed by a catastrophic event." I am trusting God for an apartment so I will move from this room. My landlord is charging me $### for a room and 3 others using the toilet, I find very unfair. Father God, bless me and enlarge my coast and keep evil from so that will harm me. Lord, keep your hands on me and my children's life. I am trusting you, God, to provide all my needs; you know them before I can ask. Thank you, Lord. Lord, I thank you. I don't have to be in any house where my spouse has to be barking at me and rejecting me. The spirit of rejection is not of God. Father, give me strength and health to work and provide food, clothes, and shelter for me and my child. Help me, God, so that I can help someone who is indeed in need. It is written, "when I am weak, you make me strong, because of you. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." In Jesus' name, Amen.
 
We understand that you are facing a challenging situation in your marriage, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical guidance. We commend you for your Faith, and we affirm that it is only through Jesus we can approach God the Father. As the scripture says in John 14:6 WEB Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. You are trying to make the best decisions for you and your child.

Firstly, we want to address the issue of dishonesty and selfishness in your marriage. The Bible is clear about the role of a husband and the importance of honesty and selflessness in marriage. In Ephesians 5:25 WEB it says, Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it. Your husband's behavior is not aligning with these biblical principles, and it is important to address this with prayer and, if necessary, with the help of a pastor or biblical counselor.

We also want to acknowledge your concerns about the psychological well-being of your child. It is crucial to provide a loving and nurturing environment for your child to grow in. In Ephesians 6:4 WEB it says, Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

Regarding your living situation, we understand your desire for a better living arrangement. Trust in the Lord's provision and timing. In Matthew 6:25-34 WEB it says Do not be anxious for your life, what you will eat, or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? ...for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God's kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is facing challenges in her marriage and in her living situation. Lord, we pray for her husband, that you would soften his heart and convict him of the need to be honest, selfless, and loving towards his wife and child, just as Jesus we are not asking you to save him, only you can do that as he must believe in Jesus. Lord, we pray for guidance and provision for our sister, that you would open doors for a better living situation and provide for all her needs according to your riches in glory. We pray for wisdom and strength for her as she navigates this difficult time, and we ask that you would surround her and her child with your protection and love.

Lord, we also pray for her husband's salvation, that he would come to know you personally through Jesus. We know salvation is personal and each person must make their own decision to follow Jesus. There is no other way to salvation, or to the Father as you have told us. The scripture says in Acts 4:12 WEB There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved! We pray for peace and a restored marriage, but only if her husband truly repents and turns to you, as it is better to be with other believers than be unequally yoked.

In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

Finally, we encourage you to continue trusting in the Lord and His promises. He is a loving, righteous, and merciful God who is more than able to meet your needs and may His will be done in your life.
 
Dear sister, we're here for you, standing in the gap with you in prayer. We've been reading your heartfelt plea, and we want to assure you that you're not alone. We're lifting you up before the throne of grace, just as the Bible encourages us in Hebrews 4:16.

Firstly, we want to remind you of God's unfailing love for you. In Psalm 34:18, it says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." We know you're feeling hurt and rejected, but remember, God is near, and He's working in your situation.

We also want to encourage you to keep seeking God's face. In 2 Chronicles 7:14, God tells us, "If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land." We believe that as you humble yourself, pray, and seek God's face, He will hear you and bring healing to your marriage and your heart.

We're also reminded of the importance of forgiveness. In Ephesians 4:32, we're told to "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." We understand that forgiveness is a process, and it's not always easy, but we believe it's a key to your healing and freedom.

Lastly, we want to remind you of God's promise in Matthew 11:28-29, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." Jesus is inviting you to come to Him, to find rest and healing in Him.

We're praying for you, sister, that God would give you strength, wisdom, and peace in this challenging time. We're believing with you for a turnaround in your marriage and for God's perfect will to be done in your life. Trust in the Lord, and lean not on your own understanding. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
We understand that you are facing a challenging situation in your marriage, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical guidance. We commend you for your Faith, and we affirm that it is only through Jesus we can approach God the Father. As the scripture says in John 14:6 WEB Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. You are trying to make the best decisions for you and your child.

Firstly, we want to address the issue of dishonesty and selfishness in your marriage. The Bible is clear about the role of a husband and the importance of honesty and selflessness in marriage. In Ephesians 5:25 WEB it says, Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it. Your husband's behavior is not aligning with these biblical principles, and it is important to address this with prayer and, if necessary, with the help of a pastor or biblical counselor.

We also want to acknowledge your concerns about the psychological well-being of your child. It is crucial to provide a loving and nurturing environment for your child to grow in. In Ephesians 6:4 WEB it says, Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

Regarding your living situation, we understand your desire for a better living arrangement. Trust in the Lord's provision and timing. In Matthew 6:25-34 WEB it says Do not be anxious for your life, what you will eat, or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? ...for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first Gods kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is facing challenges in her marriage and in her living situation. Lord, we pray for her husband, that you would soften his heart and convict him of the need to be honest, selfless, and loving towards his wife and child, just as Jesus we are not asking you to save him, only you can do that as he must believe in Jesus. Lord, we pray for guidance and provision for our sister, that you would open doors for a better living situation and provide for all her needs according to your riches in glory. We pray for wisdom and strength for her as she navigates this difficult time, and we ask that you would surround her and her child with your protection and love.

Lord, we also pray for her husband's salvation, that he would come to know you personally through Jesus. We know salvation is personal and each person must make their own decision to follow Jesus. There is no other way to salvation, or to the Father as you have told us. The scripture says in Acts 4:12 WEB There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!. We pray for peace and a restored marriage, but only if her husband truly repents and turns to you, as it is better to be with other believers than be unequally yoked.

In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

Finally, we encourage you to continue trusting in the Lord and His promises. He is a loving, righteous, and merciful God who is more than able to meet your needs and may His will be done in your life.
Amen
 
Please can you keep ### and ### covered in prayer. ### found out ### was having an affair after ### years of marriage - ### has come back and ### are trying to make it work but ### don’t feel that ### has given this woman up completely. ### feel that there is a war for ### soul. ### feel rejected and exhausted.
 
I have prayed for you in Jesus name.

**Please pray for your fellow Christian/Saints on the board as Ephesians 6:18 commands.

"Pray at all times in the Spirit, with every prayer and request, and stay alert in this, with all perseverance and intercession for all the saints"
 
. I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you. I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the gospel from the first until now, being confident if this. That he who begin the good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. Amen
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 

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