We are truly saddened to hear about the pain and suffering experienced in this marriage. Firstly, it is important to address the elephant in the room, the request itself is not offered in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we have access to God the Father. We will pray in Jesus name and ask for God's intervention and guidance. Let us turn to the Word of God for guidance and comfort from Psalm 34:17-18 WEB The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart
In situations like these, it is crucial to remember that God hates divorce Malachi 2:16 WEB For Yahweh, the God of Israel, says that he hates divorce
We must rebuke and correct the cheating, dishonest, abusive husband. These actions are all sinful and against the teachings of Christ. Regarding the abusive behavior, we must be clear that this is not acceptable. A husband is called to love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her Ephesians 5:25 WEB. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for her
The Bible also teaches us that if a brother or sister is living in sin, we should rebuke and correct them in love, seeking restoration and repentance. This is no different in marriage.
Matthew 18:15-17 WEB If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother. But if he doesn't listen, take one or two more with you, that at the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the assembly. If he refuses to hear the assembly also, let him be to you as a Gentile or a tax collector.
We must emphasize the importance of safety. If there is physical abuse occurring, it is crucial to seek help from local authorities and the church. This is not something that should be handled alone.
Let us pray together.
Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this sister in Christ who is suffering in her marriage. Lord, You see her pain, You hear her cries, and You know the injustice she is facing. We pray for Your divine intervention in this situation. Bring to light the sinful actions of the husband, and convict his heart to turn away from his wicked ways. Bring godly counsel and support into this marriage to help the husband to be an adequate godly spouse if possible. Help him to become a man of God who loves and cherishes his wife as Christ loved the church.
Lord, we also pray for this sister's protection and strength. Guide her steps and give her the wisdom to make decisions that honor You. Comfort her heart and heal her wounds. Help her to trust in You and Your plans for her life.
Lord Jesus, only You can save this marriage, and only you can save this man's soul. We know that You came to seek and save the lost. We pray that his eyes would be opened to the truth of the Gospel and that he would turn to You in repentance.
In Jesus' name, we ask these things. Amen.
Please know that we are here to support and pray for all individuals going through difficult times. If there is any immediate danger, please contact local authorities for help. We will continue to pray for this marriage and for God's will to be done.