Make ### open my diary, read, feel how much I love ###, & find his way back to ###

Shivani India

Disciple of Prayer
Today I am missing him a little extra … it’s been 4 days since he decided he doesn’t want me anymore in his life. I have been praying, just praying… I don’t know what else I can do. We both hurt each other but if he has taken decision & blocked me everywhere means I have hurt him more.

Before this happened… I kept one diary where I expressed how much I love him. He already read it.

While parting our ways, I still remember he said someday I would read that diary again.

Please you all … pray for me, let him read that diary tonight and frequently.

Pray that let one word, one sentence, one experience which I mentioned in that diary change his heart and find his way back to me.

Pray to Lord to change his heart and let him see me through Lord’s eyes.

This pain is unbearable…. Also while returning not knowing when I would see him again, crying in front of him with deepest pain in my heart and soul…. He said he is also thinking about leaving this city as he is looking for a job opportunity in a new company.

Please pray for ### to get a job in this city only.

Please… deliver me from his absence, his decision not to see me again, not to be with me again, not to contact me again …..

Please pray, encourage Lord to make him miss me & open that diary…

Make him feel how much I love him and no one has put those many efforts for him.

Create forgiveness and compassion in his heart.

Let him reach out, ask for forgiveness, restoration, change his heart, change my heart so that we can put God first …

I want Jesus to show up in my life and make me experience His glory.

I miss him, I miss him so much ….. I have hurt someone’s son, Lord please forgive me, please
 
We hear the deep ache in your heart, and we lift it before the Lord with compassion. The pain of separation, especially when love has been shared, is a heavy burden to carry. But we must first address some critical truths from Scripture, for our prayers must align with God’s will, not just our own desires.

You speak of love, longing, and a diary filled with your feelings—but we must ask: Was this relationship honoring to God? The Bible is clear that intimacy, emotional or physical, outside of marriage is not part of His design. If this was a romantic relationship without the commitment of marriage, we must rebuke the sin of fornication and the emotional entanglement that led to this heartbreak. "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body" (1 Corinthians 6:18). If this was not a marriage, then this separation may be God’s mercy, redirecting both of you toward His perfect will.

You mention Jesus and ask for His glory to manifest in your life—that is the right starting point. But we must be honest: If you are not in a right relationship with God through repentance and faith in Christ, then your prayers lack the foundation they need. Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me" (John 14:6). Salvation is not about feelings or good works—it is about surrendering to Christ as Lord. Have you confessed your sins, turned from them, and placed your trust fully in Him? If not, that is the first step before any other prayer can be answered.

Now, let us pray—not just for reunion, but for God’s will to be done, for hearts to be transformed, and for true healing to begin.

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, acknowledging that You alone know the depths of this pain. Lord, we ask first for forgiveness—where sin has entered this relationship, where boundaries were crossed, where hearts were given without the protection of marriage. Cleanse and restore, Father. We pray for [###]—that You would reveal Yourself to her in a fresh and powerful way. Let her experience Your glory, not as a distant hope, but as a present reality. Show her Your love, which is greater than any human love, and let her find her identity and worth in You alone.

Father, we lift up [###]. If it is Your will for them to be reconciled, soften his heart. But if this separation is Your protection, give him the strength to walk in Your purpose for his life. Let him seek You above all else, and if he does not know You, draw him to salvation. Remove bitterness, pride, and unforgiveness from both of their hearts. Replace it with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding.

Lord, we rebuke the spirit of longing that is rooted in human desire rather than Your will. We ask that You break any unhealthy attachments and redirect their hearts toward You. If this relationship was not built on Your foundation, we pray for the strength to let go and trust You with the future. Give them both the courage to seek godly counsel, to repent where needed, and to walk in obedience to Your Word.

Father, we also pray for wisdom regarding the job situation. If it is Your will for him to stay in this city, open the right doors. But if You have a different plan, give him the faith to follow You, even when it is hard. Let Your will be done in both of their lives, not their own.

Above all, Lord, we ask that You be glorified in this situation. Whether together or apart, let their lives reflect Your love, Your grace, and Your truth. Heal their hearts, restore their souls, and lead them into the fullness of life that can only be found in You. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

Now, dear sister, we must encourage you with truth. The pain you feel is real, but it cannot compare to the joy of walking in God’s perfect will. If this relationship was not honoring to Him, then this separation is an opportunity for redemption. Do not cling to what *was*—surrender it to God and ask Him to show you what *could be* in His perfect timing. Seek Him first, and all these things will be added unto you (Matthew 6:33).

Consider this: If this man is not your husband, then your prayers should not be focused on forcing a reunion, but on trusting God’s plan for both of your lives. If he is not a believer, your longing should be for his salvation, not just his return. And if this relationship was built on sin, then this is a chance to rebuild on the solid rock of Christ.

You mentioned hurting "someone’s son"—yes, you did, but more importantly, you may have hurt God’s daughter (or son) by not honoring His design for relationships. Repentance is the first step toward healing. Then, seek godly counsel—find a pastor or mature Christian who can walk with you through this season. Do not isolate yourself in this pain. The enemy wants you to dwell in despair, but God offers hope.

Finally, remember this: Your worth is not found in this man’s love, but in Christ’s love for you. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and God has a plan for your life that is good, even when it doesn’t feel like it. Trust Him. Wait on Him. And let Him rewrite your story according to His perfect will.
 
Dear friend, we're here with you, feeling the weight of your heartache. We've been where you are, missing someone we love dearly. It's hard, isn't it? The days feel long, and the nights even longer. But we want you to know, you're not alone. We're here, praying with you, for you.

We understand your longing to have him read your diary, to feel the depth of your love for him. It's a beautiful sentiment, expressing your heart in that way. But remember, love isn't just about feelings, it's about actions too. It's about respecting each other's boundaries, honoring God in our relationships. If this relationship wasn't built on that foundation, it's okay to acknowledge that and ask God to help you both move forward.

We've been praying, asking God to soften his heart if it's His will for you to be together. But if this separation is His mercy, guiding you both towards His perfect will, we pray for strength and courage to accept that, to trust Him. We're asking God to remove bitterness, pride, and unforgiveness from both of your hearts, to fill you with His peace instead.

We're also praying for wisdom regarding the job situation. If it's God's will for him to stay in this city, we ask Him to open the right doors. But if He has a different plan, we pray for faith to follow Him, even when it's hard.

Most importantly, we're praying that God would be glorified in this situation. Whether together or apart, we ask that your lives would reflect His love, His grace, and His truth. We're praying for healing, for restoration, for both of you.

We encourage you to keep seeking God, to keep trusting Him. It's hard, we know, but He's got you. He loves you. He's got a plan for you, a good plan. Trust Him. Wait on Him. And let Him rewrite your story according to His perfect will.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
"So do not fear, for I am with you;
do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you;
I will uphold you with My righteous right Hand" (Isaiah 41:10)

I prayed with you for this, in Jesus' powerful Name, Amen.

Proverbs 3:5-6: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight".
 
Today I am missing him a little extra … it’s been 4 days since he decided he doesn’t want me anymore in his life. I have been praying, just praying… I don’t know what else I can do. We both hurt each other but if he has taken decision & blocked me everywhere means I have hurt him more.

Before this happened… I kept one diary where I expressed how much I love him. He already read it.

While parting our ways, I still remember he said someday I would read that diary again.

Please you all … pray for me, let him read that diary tonight and frequently.

Pray that let one word, one sentence, one experience which I mentioned in that diary change his heart and find his way back to me.

Pray to Lord to change his heart and let him see me through Lord’s eyes.

This pain is unbearable…. Also while returning not knowing when I would see him again, crying in front of him with deepest pain in my heart and soul…. He said he is also thinking about leaving this city as he is looking for a job opportunity in a new company.

Please pray for ### to get a job in this city only.

Please… deliver me from his absence, his decision not to see me again, not to be with me again, not to contact me again …..

Please pray, encourage Lord to make him miss me & open that diary…

Make him feel how much I love him and no one has put those many efforts for him.

Create forgiveness and compassion in his heart.

Let him reach out, ask for forgiveness, restoration, change his heart, change my heart so that we can put God first …

I want Jesus to show up in my life and make me experience His glory.

I miss him, I miss him so much ….. I have hurt someone’s son, Lord please forgive me, please
I am praying for you both to reunite and be together as a holy family for the glory of King Jesus. I am praying for your pain to leave and he to change his mind and to seek you and make you smile. I am praying for you both to be saved and happy. In Jesus Name I pray. Amen
 

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