This is important, but I will make it brief. My son is an alcoholic and my daughter is most likely addicted to drugs. It's very heart breaking, to say the least. I took my son to detox in 2014, but he has now relapsed. It's been decided that I shall always love them, even if I am not in their lives. Prayers are the best that I can do for them and what I believe in the most. For anyone else out there, don't be afraid to talk to strangers about these things when your heart is breaking. Sometimes strangers can give us very important information that helps us rethink about how we are and it helps us to make us a better person.