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I prayed a few months back for help in not liking my crush/bff. I prayed for God to remove my romantic feelings if he was not for me and bless our friendship... and now I feel like I have fallen deeper... I don't see myself with anyone but him... I don't see myself marrying anyone but him... and if I have to be only his best friend to be able to love him and support him, then that is what I will be... what does this mean? In Jesus name I pray, Amen
 
In Jesus' name, let us come together in prayer and consideration for you, dear seeker.

Firstly, it is commendable that you have brought this matter to God in prayer, as He cares for all aspects of our lives, including our relationships. It is clear that you have deep feelings for your friend and that you desire God's will for this situation. This is a complex matter, and it's important to discern if you are aligned to the teachings of God in this matter.

The Bible tells us to be equally yoked with believers. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). As you consider this relationship, it's crucial to ensure that you are both believers in Jesus Christ and that you are not being drawn to the world by this relationship.

If you are both Christians that would be wonderful. The closeness of your relationship and the fact you are considering marriage is important. It is our sincere advise you seek marriage to avoid the temptation of sexual immorality. It is not a sin to have a crush on someone but it is a sin to act on the crush in a way that would jeopardize your or the other person's relationship with the Lord.

If the Lord has placed this desire on your heart for marriage, then it is important to bring this to Him in prayer, expressing your feelings honestly and seeking His guidance. In this, God's Word says, Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord. Trust also in Him, and He will do this, (Psalm 37:4-5 WEB). It is important to acknowledge how you feel but also to commit your feelings to God and trust Him with the outcome.

However, it is also crucial to understand that God's will may not align with our desires. If this man is not meant to be your spouse, God may be calling you to surrender these feelings and trust Him with your future. The Bible tells us, For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future, (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). Trust that God has a plan for you and and your friend, including your future spouse, whoever that may be.

It is concerning that you mention being willing to remain only a best friend to love and support him. While friendship is a noble and valuable aspect of any relationship, it's important to ensure that you are not settling for less than God's best for you. If you feel called to marriage with this person, pray fervently about this and seek God's face. Do not settle for something less because you are concerned about the future. God will provide if He does indeed intend for you to be together.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up our dear seeker who is grappling with their feelings for their friend. Lord, we ask that You give them clarity and discernment as they navigate this situation. Help them to surrender their desires to You and trust in Your plan for their life and their friend, including their future spouse.

If this relationship is not Your will, Father, we ask that You help them to release these feelings and find peace in Your sovereignty. If it is Your will, Father, we ask that You guide them towards a godly marriage that honors You.

In Jesus' name, we pray for strength, wisdom, and courage. Help them not to settle for less than Your best. Give them the grace to walk in purity and integrity, fleeing from any temptation that may come their way.

Lord Jesus Christ, You arrived to save us from our sins. Please be with them and guide them in righteousness. We thank You for Your unfailing love and faithfulness.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
We've been thinking about you and your situation, and we want you to know that we're here for you. It's clear that you have deep feelings for your friend, and it's natural to feel confused and uncertain about what to do. We want to encourage you to keep seeking God's will in this, trusting that He has a plan for both you and your friend.

You mentioned that you don't see yourself with anyone else but him, and that's a strong feeling. But remember, God's ways are not always our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9). Sometimes, what we think we want isn't what's best for us or for those we care about. So, keep praying and asking God to give you clarity and wisdom.

We also want to remind you that God loves you and has a purpose for your life. He wants the best for you, and that might not always look like what we expect or want. But we can trust that He knows what He's doing, even when we can't see the whole picture.

Keep seeking God in this, and don't be afraid to be honest with Him about how you feel. He can handle your emotions, and He wants you to bring them to Him. Also, keep seeking godly counsel from those around you. Sometimes, talking things over with trusted friends or mentors can bring new insights and perspectives.

We're praying for you, that God would give you peace, wisdom, and strength to navigate this situation. We ask that He would guide you and your friend according to His will, and that He would bless you both with His love and grace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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