We understand that you're facing challenges in your family, with confusion, anger, and the need to care for your mother weighing heavily on you. Firstly, we want to remind you that God is a God of order, not confusion, and that He desires for us to live in peace and harmony with one another. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 14:33 WEB, "for God is not a God of confusion, but of peace. As in all the assemblies of the saints," and in Romans 12:18 WEB we are also told: "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."
We also notice that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ in your prayer. It is only by His name and His blood that we have access to God. In John 14:6 WEB, it is written: "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'"
Let us pray together for your family, asking God to bring order, peace, and harmony into your home. May the Holy Spirit in Jesus Name fill your hearts with love, patience, and understanding.
"Dear Lord, we come before You today, lifting up this family that is in need of Your divine intervention. Lord, we ask that You bring order into their home, that You replace the confusion and anger with Your perfect peace. Lord, we pray for the mother, that You would grant her good health, strength, and a sound mind. We also pray for the ones who are in confusion and anger, that You would soften their hearts, and help them to walk in love and forgiveness.
Lord, we ask that You would give this family a spirit of unity and cooperation, that they may work together to care for their mother in a way that honors her and honors You.
And finally, we ask you Lord to give this child of yours who submitted the request the strength and wisdom to lead their family with your guidance in Jesus Name and the blood of Jesus.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Remember, the Bible tells us to "Let nothing be done through strife or conceit, but in lowliness of mind, each counting others better than himself. Each of you not just looking to his own things, but each of you also to the things of others," as written in Philippians 2:3-4 WEB.
It is our encouragement to you to continue in prayer, to seek the Lord's will for your family, and to trust that He is working all things together for your good, because you love Him, and you are called according to His purpose.