Lord let ### ask ### out
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We understand your heart in seeking God’s will for these two individuals, and we commend you for bringing this before the Lord in prayer. However, we must first address something vital: the name of Jesus is not just a formality to tag onto prayers—it is the very foundation of our access to God. As Scripture declares, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). It is only through faith in Him that we can boldly approach the throne of grace (Hebrews 4:16). We also rejoice that you acknowledged His name in your prayer, for *"there is no other name under heaven... by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). This is a truth we must never take for granted.
Now, regarding your request, we must ask: Are these two individuals believers in Christ, walking in obedience to His Word? The Bible is clear that believers are not to be *"unequally yoked"* with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If either of them is not a follower of Jesus, we strongly urge you to pray first for their salvation, for *"what fellowship has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). A relationship built on anything less than a shared faith in Christ is built on shifting sand.
If both are believers, we must then consider the *purpose* of this potential courtship. Scripture does not endorse dating for the sake of companionship, emotional fulfillment, or worldly desires. Instead, courtship should be intentional, with marriage as its godly goal—*"Let marriage be held in honor among all"* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). If this is not the heart behind the request, we must realign our desires with God’s design. Fleeting attractions or fear of missing out are poor foundations for a Christ-centered union.
We also caution against praying for "courage to ask someone out" if the motivation is rooted in lust, infatuation, or a fear of loneliness. *"The Lord sees not as man sees; man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart"* (1 Samuel 16:7, WEB). Before seeking a relationship, both individuals should be actively pursuing holiness, serving the Lord, and seeking His kingdom first (Matthew 6:33). A godly marriage is not about finding "the one" but about *becoming* the one—someone who reflects Christ in character, purity, and devotion.
If there is any hint of sexual immorality—whether in thought, word, or deed—we must repent and flee from it. *"Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body"* (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB). Courtship should be marked by purity, accountability, and a deep reverence for God’s design.
With these truths in mind, let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we lift up these two individuals before You, acknowledging that You alone know the depths of their hearts. Lord, if they do not yet know You as Savior, we pray for their salvation—open their eyes to the truth of the Gospel, that they may repent and place their faith in Jesus Christ alone. If they are Your children, we ask that You prepare their hearts for Your will, not theirs. Strip away any selfish desires, fear, or worldly influences that do not align with Your Word.
If it is Your perfect will for these two to pursue a godly courtship leading to marriage, grant wisdom, discernment, and *Your* timing—not theirs. Give them the courage to honor You in every step, keeping their interactions pure, their motives holy, and their eyes fixed on You. Guard their hearts from idolatry, for no human relationship should ever replace their devotion to You.
But if this is not Your will, we pray You close the door firmly and redirect their steps. Teach them to trust You even in disappointment, knowing that Your plans are far greater than their own. Remind them that singleness is not a curse but a gift—a season to serve You wholeheartedly (1 Corinthians 7:32-35).
Above all, Father, may Your name be glorified. May these two seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that You will provide all they need. Bind any spirit of fear, impatience, or fleshly desire that would lead them astray. Let their lives reflect the beauty of Christ, whether single or married.
We ask this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to examine your own heart in this matter. Are you praying out of genuine concern for their spiritual growth, or are you being swayed by emotional attachment or worldly ideals of romance? *"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Let us all submit our desires to His lordship, for His ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:9).
Now, regarding your request, we must ask: Are these two individuals believers in Christ, walking in obedience to His Word? The Bible is clear that believers are not to be *"unequally yoked"* with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If either of them is not a follower of Jesus, we strongly urge you to pray first for their salvation, for *"what fellowship has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). A relationship built on anything less than a shared faith in Christ is built on shifting sand.
If both are believers, we must then consider the *purpose* of this potential courtship. Scripture does not endorse dating for the sake of companionship, emotional fulfillment, or worldly desires. Instead, courtship should be intentional, with marriage as its godly goal—*"Let marriage be held in honor among all"* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). If this is not the heart behind the request, we must realign our desires with God’s design. Fleeting attractions or fear of missing out are poor foundations for a Christ-centered union.
We also caution against praying for "courage to ask someone out" if the motivation is rooted in lust, infatuation, or a fear of loneliness. *"The Lord sees not as man sees; man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart"* (1 Samuel 16:7, WEB). Before seeking a relationship, both individuals should be actively pursuing holiness, serving the Lord, and seeking His kingdom first (Matthew 6:33). A godly marriage is not about finding "the one" but about *becoming* the one—someone who reflects Christ in character, purity, and devotion.
If there is any hint of sexual immorality—whether in thought, word, or deed—we must repent and flee from it. *"Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body"* (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB). Courtship should be marked by purity, accountability, and a deep reverence for God’s design.
With these truths in mind, let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we lift up these two individuals before You, acknowledging that You alone know the depths of their hearts. Lord, if they do not yet know You as Savior, we pray for their salvation—open their eyes to the truth of the Gospel, that they may repent and place their faith in Jesus Christ alone. If they are Your children, we ask that You prepare their hearts for Your will, not theirs. Strip away any selfish desires, fear, or worldly influences that do not align with Your Word.
If it is Your perfect will for these two to pursue a godly courtship leading to marriage, grant wisdom, discernment, and *Your* timing—not theirs. Give them the courage to honor You in every step, keeping their interactions pure, their motives holy, and their eyes fixed on You. Guard their hearts from idolatry, for no human relationship should ever replace their devotion to You.
But if this is not Your will, we pray You close the door firmly and redirect their steps. Teach them to trust You even in disappointment, knowing that Your plans are far greater than their own. Remind them that singleness is not a curse but a gift—a season to serve You wholeheartedly (1 Corinthians 7:32-35).
Above all, Father, may Your name be glorified. May these two seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that You will provide all they need. Bind any spirit of fear, impatience, or fleshly desire that would lead them astray. Let their lives reflect the beauty of Christ, whether single or married.
We ask this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to examine your own heart in this matter. Are you praying out of genuine concern for their spiritual growth, or are you being swayed by emotional attachment or worldly ideals of romance? *"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Let us all submit our desires to His lordship, for His ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:9).
We've been thinking about you and these two individuals, and we want to add our voices to your prayer. We believe that God is listening and that He cares deeply about the desires of their hearts. We join you in asking that if they don't already know Jesus as their Savior, that they would come to know Him personally. We pray that they would both be saved and transformed by the power of the Gospel.
If they are both believers, we pray that they would seek God's will above their own in this matter. We ask that God would give them wisdom, discernment, and courage to pursue a godly relationship, if that's His will. We pray that they would keep their eyes fixed on Jesus, not on each other, and that their relationship would be marked by purity, accountability, and a deep reverence for God's design for relationships.
We also pray for protection over their hearts. We ask that God would guard them from idolatry and help them to keep their priorities straight. We pray that they would trust God with the outcome, whatever that may be, and that they would be content in whatever state they find themselves, whether single or married.
We join you in praying all of this in Jesus' name, amen.
If they are both believers, we pray that they would seek God's will above their own in this matter. We ask that God would give them wisdom, discernment, and courage to pursue a godly relationship, if that's His will. We pray that they would keep their eyes fixed on Jesus, not on each other, and that their relationship would be marked by purity, accountability, and a deep reverence for God's design for relationships.
We also pray for protection over their hearts. We ask that God would guard them from idolatry and help them to keep their priorities straight. We pray that they would trust God with the outcome, whatever that may be, and that they would be content in whatever state they find themselves, whether single or married.
We join you in praying all of this in Jesus' name, amen.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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