Your prayer has been heard, and thank you for bringing it so openly before the Lord with so much Scripture and honesty. The pain, the attacks, the long waiting, and the many burdens you carry for your family are not hidden from Him. He sees what has been difficult and what still is, and He invites you to trust Him rather than leaning on your own understanding.
You asked for protection, for a wall around you and your family and for His angels to surround you. The Scriptures you mentioned do teach that the Lord is our refuge and shelter, that His angels encamp around those who fear Him, that no weapon formed against His people will finally stand, and that He is a shield around us. It is right to ask for that covering in Jesus name, and to plead the blood of Christ, for our safety is not in our own strength but in Him.
At the center of all you asked is salvation, deliverance, healing, reconciliation and unity. The greatest of these is salvation. The grace of God that brings salvation has appeared, and Scripture says now is the accepted time, now is the day of salvation. That salvation is not something we can earn or achieve on our own. It has been placed outside our own ability and is given on the basis of God's grace through what Jesus Christ has done, and even the faith to believe it is a gift from Him. The Bible says if we confess with our mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in our heart that God raised Him from the dead, we will be saved. There will come a day when every knee will bow and every tongue will confess that Jesus is Lord, but that confession then will not be unto salvation, it will be the acknowledgment of the truth by those who rejected Him. To confess Him now, to submit to Him now as Lord, is salvation and eternal life. His very name means the Lord is salvation, for He came to save His people from their sins. This great salvation is open to whoever will come, for Jesus said whoever comes to Him He will not cast out. It is great not only because it forgives sin, but because it brings us into the family of God and gives us hope of eternal glory with Him. Jesus is the captain and originator of that salvation, and we follow Him.
Because salvation is a gift, the call to work out your own salvation with fear and trembling does not mean to work for your salvation. It means to live out with reverence and diligence what God has already worked within you. Give no offense where you can avoid it, keep a clear walk, and let the life God has given you be seen in obedience.
You also prayed for healing, and you cited the promise that by His wounds we are healed and that God restores health. The prophet Isaiah spoke of the Messiah bearing our sicknesses and pains, and that is applied both to our spiritual healing from sin and also to physical healing. When we come to the table we remember His body broken for us. At the same time, Scripture shows that God does not will physical healing in the same way in every case. Paul prayed three times for the thorn in his flesh and the answer was not removal but sustaining grace. There is much about healing we do not fully understand, whether it comes instantly, gradually, through touch or word or through the natural processes God Himself created in our bodies. Believe for healing and keep asking, but remember the greatest miracle in any life is the forgiveness of sins. That is the healing that matters most and that no one can take away.
You prayed for reconciliation, unity, new hearts, love poured into your hearts, the fruit of the Spirit, and the restoring of your souls. God promises to give a new heart and to put His Spirit within, to pour His love into our hearts, and to restore the soul like a shepherd restores his sheep. He is able to redeem us from the curse, for Christ became a curse for us, and to restore the years that seem hopelessly lost. Reconciliation with God comes as we deny the self centered life, take up the cross and walk in the Spirit, and that same Spirit then works reconciliation and unity among us. Keep asking for that outpouring and for hearts full of love, peace and joy.
You lifted many specific concerns for family members, for school and teachers and understanding of work, for sleep, for work responsibilities, for deep wounds of trauma and rejection, and for several relationships. For every relationship, God's will is clear and good. He designed marriage to be a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and He designed sexual intimacy and living together to belong within that covenant. We cannot ask Him to bless what falls outside that design. Instead we can pray that every relationship in your family be brought into alignment with His holiness, that where there is impurity, manipulation or dysfunction it be revealed and turned from, that wounds be healed, that purity and wisdom be given, and that if marriage is His will it be entered into in His way and timing. Where a relationship is harmful or not of Him, pray that He will lovingly stop it and bring deliverance. For school and work and all the practical needs, ask for favor, clarity, confidence rooted in Him, and for His guidance and success as you walk faithfully.
You also confessed speaking badly about others behind their backs and anger in your heart, and asked for forgiveness and help to do better. That confession is precious to God. When we confess our sins He is faithful to forgive us through Jesus Christ and to cleanse us. Ask Him to set a guard over your mouth, to give you grace to speak truth in love, and to replace explosive anger with His peace. This too is part of working out what He has worked in.
Thank you for remembering with thanksgiving all He has already done and answered. Hold fast to that memory while you wait for complete deliverance, healing and salvation for all your loved ones. Do not lose sight of His past faithfulness. Ask Him to pour supernatural trust and faith into you, for love and faith are His gifts.
May the Lord keep you and your family in His care, give you new hearts and minds, manifest His fruit in you, break every chain and turn what was meant for harm into blessing, and guide every step. May He anoint your times of prayer together, your devotions, your worship and your sharing of the Word, that Christ would be lifted up and many would be drawn to salvation through Him alone. May He give you encouragement and strength day by day as you trust Him.
Father, in the name of Jesus, we bring this dear one and the whole family before You. Cover them with Your protection, let Your presence be their shield, and let Your angels surround them. Save those who are not yet saved, heal what is wounded in body, mind and spirit according to Your perfect will, deliver from every oppression, pour Your love into their hearts, give new hearts and restore their souls. Bring every relationship under Your Lordship and into conformity with Your holy design for marriage and purity. Forgive sins confessed and give grace to walk in love and self control. Restore what has been broken, empower them to live out the salvation You have given, and let Your name be glorified in all their lives. Amen.