Chrysostom
Beloved of All
Your anxious cries reach heaven, but let your soul find rest not in the length of your pleas but in the depth of your repentance and the simplicity of faith. You invoke the blood of the Lamb, and rightly so, for that blood alone cleanses from every sin. But do not merely claim it; be cleansed. Lay aside every worldly anxiety and cling to the cross. The cross seems a stumbling block to those who seek signs and wisdom, yet it is the very power of God for salvation. Why then do you tremble at human opinions and earthly conflicts? He who delivered Israel from the bondage of Egypt will deliver you from the far heavier bondage of sin, if you let Him.
You pray against a relationship that is not according to God's ordinance. Pray rather for that soul's conversion. Do not merely ask for the relationship to end, but for the heart to be opened to the truth that set the bounds of marriage as a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman. Do not bless what God calls sin, nor ask Him to bless a union that defies His order. Instead, cry out for repentance and deliverance from every passion. Remember, the bondage of sin is the most grievous of all, and Christ alone can break it. He came to set the captives free, not from human masters, but from the tyranny of lust and pride.
You confess that you have vented behind your brother’s back. This is a wound you have inflicted on your own soul and on the body of Christ. Go and be reconciled. Do not let the sun go down on your anger. Spiritual profit comes not from many words, but from a contrite heart that seeks forgiveness and amends. Surround yourself with godly companions who will rebuke you when you sin, not flatter you. Let the poor and the righteous be the guests at your table, and they will help you in the care of your household and the salvation of your children more than any worldly friend.
Now is the acceptable time, now is the day of salvation. Do not postpone a thorough turning to God while you multiply petitions for temporal relief. Your child needs friends, your body healing, your work success, all these the Father knows. But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness. Be not soft and unmanly in the face of trials. The root of the word is that we must not only be freed from the love of riches but cultivate every virtue: fortitude, attentive hearing of the word, and a continual remembrance of His promises. The enemy seeks to choke the seed with cares and distractions. Do not let the thorns of this life choke out the word.
Stand on the promises, yes, Psalm 91, Isaiah 54, but stand in faith working through love. That shield of fire is not a charm to be invoked but the very presence of the Holy Spirit in a soul that walks in obedience. The angels of the Lord encamp around those who fear Him, not those who merely demand their protection while clinging to unrepented sin. Let your first cry be, “Lord, be merciful to me a sinner,” and then all these things will be added.
Cease from scheming how God must act, and fall on your face. Thank Him for the signs of encouragement, but do not make them the foundation of your hope. The only foundation is Jesus Christ and Him crucified. That sacred table, the mystery of His body broken for many, is your true strength. There, if you approach with a pure heart, you will find power to endure every hardship and to see the chains of addiction and dysfunction fall away. There, in the communion of the Church, is the great gathering of warrior spirits, not in isolation, but in the unity of the body.
Do not say, “I fail so often,” as if that excuses lingering in failure. Arise. The night is far spent, the day is at hand. Cast off the works of darkness. That spasm, that relational wound, that work struggle, lay them before the Lord with thanksgiving, not with a torrent of anxiety. The Lord is at hand. In everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known. Have you thanked Him more than you have begged? The prayer of a righteous man avails much, but it must be the prayer of a righteous life, not merely a desperate list.
I do not dismiss your pains. The trials you name are real and heavy. But I charge you: bring forth fruits worthy of repentance. In the family, be the first to show mercy, to speak gently, to forgive. Let your children see in you a quiet trust, not a frantic grasping. Pray for their salvation with tears, but also with the confidence that the One who began a good work in you will complete it. Do not dictate to God the means. He may allow a storm to teach the sailor steadfastness.
Go now, and make your life a living sacrifice. Let your home be a church where the word dwells richly. And when you pray, say often, “Not my will but Thine be done.” Then you will see the mighty warrior angels indeed, not as a spectacle, but in the peace that passes understanding, which guards your heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
You pray against a relationship that is not according to God's ordinance. Pray rather for that soul's conversion. Do not merely ask for the relationship to end, but for the heart to be opened to the truth that set the bounds of marriage as a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman. Do not bless what God calls sin, nor ask Him to bless a union that defies His order. Instead, cry out for repentance and deliverance from every passion. Remember, the bondage of sin is the most grievous of all, and Christ alone can break it. He came to set the captives free, not from human masters, but from the tyranny of lust and pride.
You confess that you have vented behind your brother’s back. This is a wound you have inflicted on your own soul and on the body of Christ. Go and be reconciled. Do not let the sun go down on your anger. Spiritual profit comes not from many words, but from a contrite heart that seeks forgiveness and amends. Surround yourself with godly companions who will rebuke you when you sin, not flatter you. Let the poor and the righteous be the guests at your table, and they will help you in the care of your household and the salvation of your children more than any worldly friend.
Now is the acceptable time, now is the day of salvation. Do not postpone a thorough turning to God while you multiply petitions for temporal relief. Your child needs friends, your body healing, your work success, all these the Father knows. But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness. Be not soft and unmanly in the face of trials. The root of the word is that we must not only be freed from the love of riches but cultivate every virtue: fortitude, attentive hearing of the word, and a continual remembrance of His promises. The enemy seeks to choke the seed with cares and distractions. Do not let the thorns of this life choke out the word.
Stand on the promises, yes, Psalm 91, Isaiah 54, but stand in faith working through love. That shield of fire is not a charm to be invoked but the very presence of the Holy Spirit in a soul that walks in obedience. The angels of the Lord encamp around those who fear Him, not those who merely demand their protection while clinging to unrepented sin. Let your first cry be, “Lord, be merciful to me a sinner,” and then all these things will be added.
Cease from scheming how God must act, and fall on your face. Thank Him for the signs of encouragement, but do not make them the foundation of your hope. The only foundation is Jesus Christ and Him crucified. That sacred table, the mystery of His body broken for many, is your true strength. There, if you approach with a pure heart, you will find power to endure every hardship and to see the chains of addiction and dysfunction fall away. There, in the communion of the Church, is the great gathering of warrior spirits, not in isolation, but in the unity of the body.
Do not say, “I fail so often,” as if that excuses lingering in failure. Arise. The night is far spent, the day is at hand. Cast off the works of darkness. That spasm, that relational wound, that work struggle, lay them before the Lord with thanksgiving, not with a torrent of anxiety. The Lord is at hand. In everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known. Have you thanked Him more than you have begged? The prayer of a righteous man avails much, but it must be the prayer of a righteous life, not merely a desperate list.
I do not dismiss your pains. The trials you name are real and heavy. But I charge you: bring forth fruits worthy of repentance. In the family, be the first to show mercy, to speak gently, to forgive. Let your children see in you a quiet trust, not a frantic grasping. Pray for their salvation with tears, but also with the confidence that the One who began a good work in you will complete it. Do not dictate to God the means. He may allow a storm to teach the sailor steadfastness.
Go now, and make your life a living sacrifice. Let your home be a church where the word dwells richly. And when you pray, say often, “Not my will but Thine be done.” Then you will see the mighty warrior angels indeed, not as a spectacle, but in the peace that passes understanding, which guards your heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
