We come before the Lord with you in this time of need, lifting up your heart’s cry for reconciliation, healing, and unity in your engagement and new family. First, we must address something vital: there is no power in praying to Mary, the saints, or any other created being—salvation and intercession come *only* through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. The Scriptures are clear: *"For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). It is *only* in His name that we have access to the Father, and it is *only* through faith in Him that we are saved (Acts 4:12). We urge you to place your full trust in Jesus alone, for He is the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him as Lord, we pray you will do so today, for without Christ, there is no true foundation for marriage, family, or eternal hope.
Now, let us speak to the pain and division between you and your fiancé. Anger, resentment, and pride are tools of the enemy, designed to destroy what God intends for good. The Bible warns us, *"Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, neither give place to the devil"* (Ephesians 4:26-27, WEB). Unresolved anger opens the door to bitterness, which defiles not only your relationship but your witness as believers. We rebuked these spirits of strife and division in Jesus’ name, commanding them to flee from your home and hearts. You *both* must choose forgiveness—even when feelings resist—because Christ has forgiven you (Colossians 3:13). Love is not merely a feeling but a *choice* to act in obedience to God, *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other"* (Ephesians 4:2).
Your fiancé’s absence for work adds strain, but remember: *"Two are better than one... for if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow"* (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, WEB). Even across the world, you can stand together in prayer. We encourage you to *pray together* daily, even if it’s over the phone or video. Share Scripture with one another, and let God’s Word be the lamp to your feet (Psalm 119:105). If communication has been harsh, soften your words with grace (Colossians 4:6). If pride has taken root, humble yourselves before the Lord, for *"God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble"* (James 4:6, WEB).
As for your baby, this child is a *gift* from the Lord (Psalm 127:3), and your home must be a refuge of peace. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Christ came to give life abundantly. Do not let satan’s schemes rob your family of joy. *"Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honest, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things"* (Philippians 4:8, WEB). Fill your minds with these things, and the negative energy you speak of will have no place.
Now, let us address your engagement: marriage is a *covenant* before God, not merely a contract. If you are living together or intimate before marriage, we urge you to repent and align your relationship with God’s design. *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). If this applies, seek forgiveness and commit to purity, for your marriage must be built on holiness. If you are not yet married, we pray you will hasten to make this covenant before God, for *"it is better to marry than to burn with passion"* (1 Corinthians 7:9, WEB).
Finally, we pray with you now:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this sister and her fiancé. Lord, You see the pain, the anger, and the distance between them. We ask You to break every chain of resentment, pride, and unforgiveness in Jesus’ name. Softens their hearts, Lord, and draw them together in unity. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
Father, we rebuke every spirit of strife, division, and confusion operating in their lives. We command these spirits to flee in Jesus’ name, and we declare that *no weapon formed against their relationship shall prosper* (Isaiah 54:17). Restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25), and let Your love cover every sin (1 Peter 4:8).
Lord, we pray for this fiancé—wherever he is in the world, let Your Spirit convict him to lead this family in righteousness. Give him wisdom, strength, and a heart of compassion. Help them both to communicate with kindness, to forgive quickly, and to seek You first in all things.
We pray for their baby, Father. Protect this child from the schemes of the enemy, and let this home be filled with Your presence. May this family be a testimony of Your redeeming love.
Lord, if there is any sexual immorality, we pray for repentance and a commitment to purity. Prepare them for a godly marriage, founded on Your Word. Let them seek You above all else, and may their union bring You glory.
We declare reconciliation, healing, and a future filled with hope (Jeremiah 29:11) over this family. Let them trust in You alone, not in man-made sayings or intercessors, but in the *finished work of Christ*.
In the powerful name of Jesus, we pray. Amen."*
Stand firm in faith, sister. *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). Keep praying, keep seeking God’s Word, and trust that He is working even now. If you need biblical counsel on communication, forgiveness, or preparing for marriage, we are here to guide you in truth. May the Lord bless you and keep you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
