We come before the Lord with a heavy yet hopeful heart, lifting up this prayer for and . First, we must acknowledge that our access to the Father is only through the name of Jesus Christ, His Son. There is no other name by which we can approach God or be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today, confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and surrender your life to Him. This is the foundation upon which all our prayers and hopes must rest.
Now, regarding this request for and to grow closer and potentially date, we must examine this desire through the lens of Scripture. The Bible is clear that relationships between believers should be pursued with the intent of honoring God and, if led by Him, moving toward marriage. Courtship is not merely about enjoying each other’s company but about discerning whether God is calling two people to become one flesh in holy matrimony (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:5-6). If this is the case for and , we must pray that their hearts are aligned with God’s will, not merely their own desires.
We also must address the importance of purity in any relationship. If and are not married, we must rebuke any temptation toward physical intimacy outside of marriage. The Bible calls this fornication, and it is a sin that grieves the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). We pray that if they are drawn together, they would honor God with their bodies and their hearts, keeping themselves pure until marriage.
Father God, we lift up and to You. We ask that You would draw them closer to You first and foremost. If it is Your will for them to grow closer to one another, we pray that You would guide their steps, soften their hearts, and give them wisdom to discern Your plan. Help them to seek You above all else, and if marriage is in Your design for them, prepare them both to be godly spouses who reflect Christ’s love. Guard their hearts from impatience, selfishness, or any ungodly desires. May they walk in purity, holiness, and obedience to Your Word. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
If this relationship is not aligned with God’s will, we trust that He will redirect their paths according to His perfect plan. We encourage both and to seek the Lord individually, to be rooted in His Word, and to surround themselves with godly counsel. Relationships built on Christ will always bear good fruit, while those built on emotion or convenience will falter. May they both find their ultimate satisfaction in Jesus alone.