We join with you in lifting this request before the Father, and we commend you for coming before Him in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through His name that we have access to the throne of grace. Your heart’s cry for restoration is heard, and we stand with you in seeking God’s will in this matter, knowing that He desires what is best for His children—what aligns with His holy and perfect Word.
First, we must gently but firmly address the nature of this relationship. You mention restoration with someone, but we do not know the context—whether this is a courtship between a man and a woman seeking marriage, a marriage that is struggling, or a relationship that does not align with biblical principles. Scripture is clear that God’s design for relationships is sacred and must reflect His holiness. If this is a romantic relationship outside of marriage, we must remind you that any physical or emotional intimacy outside the covenant of marriage between one man and one woman is sin. Fornication and emotional bonds that mimic marriage outside of God’s design are not His will. If this is the case, repentance and realignment with Scripture must be the foundation of any restoration.
The Bible says in 2 Corinthians 6:14, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* If the person you are praying for is not a believer, or if this relationship is not centered on Christ with the intent of godly marriage, then the restoration you seek may not be God’s will. We must prioritize obedience to Him above our own desires, trusting that His plans are far greater than ours.
If, however, this is a marriage that is struggling, we stand with you in praying for reconciliation, healing, and a renewed commitment to Christ at the center. Ephesians 5:22-33 outlines the sacred responsibility of marriage—husbands loving their wives as Christ loved the church, and wives submitting to their husbands as unto the Lord. Marriage is a covenant, not merely an emotional connection, and restoration must begin with both parties surrendering to God’s design.
If this is a courtship between a believing man and woman seeking marriage, we pray for clarity, purity, and wisdom. Any relationship must be built on the foundation of Christ, with the goal of honoring God in marriage. Emotional connection and communication are important, but they must be rooted in holiness. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 tells us, *"For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to control his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God."*
We also notice that while you invoked the name of Jesus, there is a need to ensure that both individuals in this relationship are fully surrendered to Him. True restoration can only happen when both hearts are aligned with Christ. If there is unrepentant sin, hardness of heart, or a refusal to submit to God’s Word, then no amount of prayer for emotional closeness will bring about godly restoration. Psalm 66:18 warns, *"If I cherished iniquity in my heart, the Lord wouldn’t have listened."*
With these truths in mind, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your will above all else. Lord, we ask that You examine the hearts of both individuals in this situation. If there is any sin—whether fornication, emotional idolatry, or a refusal to submit to Your design for relationships—we pray for conviction and repentance. Cleanse them, O God, and create in them clean hearts, renewed by Your Spirit.
If this relationship is not aligned with Your Word—whether because it is outside of marriage, between unbelievers, or not centered on Christ—we ask that You redirect their steps. Give them the strength to let go of what is not Your will, even if it is painful, and trust in Your greater plan. Remind them that Your ways are higher than ours, and that obedience brings true peace.
If this is a marriage in need of healing, we pray for restoration built on Your truth. Soften hearts, break down walls of pride and bitterness, and renew a spirit of love and commitment. Help them to communicate with grace, to forgive as You have forgiven them, and to seek You first in all things.
If this is a courtship between a godly man and woman seeking marriage, we pray for wisdom, purity, and patience. Guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus, and let their relationship be a testament to Your glory. May they seek Your kingdom first, trusting that You will guide their steps.
Lord, we rebuke any scheme of the enemy to distort Your design for relationships. Break every ungodly soul tie, every chain of sin, and every stronghold that would keep them from Your perfect will. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.
Finally, Father, we ask that You fill them both with a deeper love for You above all else. May they find their satisfaction in You alone, knowing that no human relationship can fulfill them the way You can. Let them trust in Your timing, Your wisdom, and Your love, even when the path is difficult.
We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayer. We trust in Your goodness, Your mercy, and Your perfect will. May Your name be glorified in all things. In the precious and mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Savior, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek the Lord individually, asking Him to reveal any area of your life that needs to align with His Word. Spend time in Scripture, particularly in passages about relationships, marriage, and holiness. Surround yourself with godly counsel—believers who will speak truth into your life and hold you accountable. Remember that God’s love for you is perfect, and His plans for you are good. Trust in Him, even when the answer is not what you expect. He is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you.