We join you in lifting up your heart’s cry to the Father, for He alone is the source of true restoration, joy, and healing. We praise God that you have come before Him in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to the throne of grace and receive mercy in our time of need. Your prayer is a beautiful outpouring of faith, and we stand with you in agreement, seeking God’s perfect will in every area you’ve mentioned.
First, we want to gently address the foundation of your relationship with this person. You mention a desire for restoration in your relationship with someone whose name you’ve withheld, and while we do not know the specifics, we must always measure our relationships against the truth of Scripture. The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect Christ’s love for His Church. If you are not married to this individual, we urge you to examine whether this relationship honors God’s design. Courtship between believers should be purposeful, with marriage as the goal, and it should be rooted in purity, mutual faith, and a shared commitment to Christ. If there is any sexual intimacy outside of marriage, we must lovingly but firmly rebuke this as fornication, which is a sin against God and your own body (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Repentance and turning away from such sin is essential, for "the body is ... for the Lord, and the Lord for the body" (1 Corinthians 6:13, WEB). Flee from sexual immorality and pursue holiness, for without it, no one will see the Lord (Hebrews 12:14).
If you are married, we encourage you to cling to the vow you made before God. Marriage is not merely an emotional or physical union but a spiritual one, and it requires selflessness, forgiveness, and a daily choice to love as Christ loves the Church. Ephesians 5:22-33 reminds us that wives are to submit to their husbands as to the Lord, and husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the Church—sacrificially and unconditionally. If this relationship is not a marriage, we pray that you would seek God’s will for a godly spouse, one who is committed to Christ and to the covenant of marriage as He designed it. Do not settle for less than God’s best, for His plans for you are good, to give you hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11).
We also notice your prayer covers many areas—physical health, emotional connection, children, and even your pet. While it is good to bring all our concerns to God, we encourage you to focus first on seeking His kingdom and righteousness, trusting that He will provide all you need (Matthew 6:33). Your desire for a "happier life" is understandable, but true joy is not found in circumstances or even in relationships; it is found in Christ alone. Psalm 16:11 says, "You will make known to me the path of life. In your presence is fullness of joy. In your right hand there are pleasures forevermore." If your happiness is dependent on this relationship or on the behavior of others, it will always be unstable. But if your joy is rooted in Christ, no storm can shake it.
Regarding the physical healing you’ve requested, we know that God is able to restore and heal. Your prayer for this person’s lungs and neuropathy, as well as your own mental clarity, is a plea we join you in. James 5:14-15 tells us, "Is any among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the assembly, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord, and the prayer of faith will heal him who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up." We pray for God’s healing touch upon this person’s body, that every cell, nerve, and organ would be restored according to His will. We also pray for your mind, that God would grant you wisdom, focus, and peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7). If there is anxiety or distraction weighing on you, cast it upon the Lord, for He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7).
For your children, we pray that they would walk in obedience, not just in behavior or academics, but in their hearts toward God. Proverbs 22:6 instructs us to "train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." We pray that you would be equipped to lead them in godliness, that they would develop friendships that honor the Lord, and that their health would be protected. Teach them to love Scripture and to seek Christ above all else, for that is the greatest inheritance you can give them.
Even your dog is under God’s care, for He is sovereign over all creation. While we may smile at the mention of fleas and ticks, we know that God cares about every detail of your life, great and small. He who feeds the birds and clothes the lilies will certainly attend to your needs (Matthew 6:26-30).
Finally, we want to address the emotional ups and downs you described. Relationships built on emotion alone will always be unstable, but those grounded in Christ and His Word will stand firm. Colossians 3:14 says, "Above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfection." Love is not a feeling; it is a choice to serve, to forgive, and to persevere. We pray that both of you would be filled with the Spirit, speaking to one another in psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs, submitting to one another in the fear of Christ (Ephesians 5:21). If there is bitterness, resentment, or unconfessed sin between you, we urge you to address it biblically. Confess your sins to one another and pray for each other, that you may be healed (James 5:16).
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We thank You that You are a God who hears, who sees, and who acts on behalf of Your children. Lord, we lift up this precious sister to You, asking that You would draw her closer to Yourself above all else. May her joy be found in You alone, and may her life reflect the peace that comes from trusting in Your sovereignty.
Father, we pray for this relationship she has mentioned. If it is not a marriage, we ask that You would make Your will clear. If it is not aligned with Your Word, give her the strength to walk away and the faith to trust You for a godly spouse if that is Your plan. If it is a marriage, we pray for restoration, for unity, and for a love that mirrors Your love for the Church. Break every chain of the enemy that seeks to divide or distort what You have designed. Create in them clean hearts, O God, and renew steadfast spirits within them. May their words be seasoned with grace, and may their actions reflect Christ’s love.
Lord, we ask for physical healing where it is needed. Touch this person’s lungs and neuropathy, Lord, and grant complete restoration according to Your will. Sharpen her mind, Father, and grant her clarity, focus, and wisdom. We pray for her children, that they would walk in obedience to You, excel in their studies, and form godly friendships. Protect their health and their hearts, and may they come to know You deeply.
Father, we even lift up the smallest details—her pet, her concerns about the winter, the behavior of her children. You are a God who cares about it all. We ask that You would provide, protect, and give peace in every area.
Most of all, Lord, we pray that Your will would be done in her life and in this relationship. If there is sin that needs to be addressed, convict and restore. If there is doubt, replace it with faith. If there is fear, replace it with trust. May she seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, knowing that all these things will be added to her as You see fit.
We rebuke the enemy’s attempts to bring confusion, division, or despair. No weapon formed against her will prosper, for You, Lord, are her shield and her exceeding great reward. Fill her with Your Spirit, equip her with Your Word, and surround her with Your peace.
In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord daily through His Word and prayer. Read Scripture aloud in your home, worship Him in spirit and truth, and surround yourself with believers who will spur you on toward love and good deeds (Hebrews 10:24). If this relationship is not a marriage, we urge you to seek godly counsel and to pursue purity. If it is a marriage, we encourage you to invest in resources that strengthen Christian marriages, such as biblical teaching on love, forgiveness, and communication.
Stand firm in your faith, sister. The Lord is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Trust in Him with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
Wisdom is the principal thing; thing therefore get wisdom. And in all your getting, get understanding. Exalt her and she will promote you. She will bring you honor when you embrace her. She will place on your head an ornament of grace; A crown of glory she will deliver to you (Proverbs 4: 7-9)
