We join with you in lifting this heartfelt cry for restoration, and we praise God that you have come before Him in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and find true transformation. Your prayer reflects a deep longing for healing, unity, and a renewed connection, and we stand with you in agreement, seeking God’s perfect will in this situation.
First, we must address something important in your request. You mention restoration with another person, but the specifics of this relationship are unclear. If this is a courtship or marriage, we rejoice in praying for reconciliation and godly unity. However, if this relationship is outside the bounds of biblical marriage—whether it involves fornication, adultery, or a same-sex relationship—we must lovingly but firmly remind you that God’s design for relationships is sacred and unchanging. Scripture is clear that marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman for life (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6), and any intimate relationship outside of this is sinful in His sight. If this applies to your situation, we urge you to repent and turn away from anything that dishonors God, trusting that His ways are perfect and His grace is sufficient to redeem and restore you in purity.
If this is a marriage or a godly courtship with the intention of marriage between a man and a woman, then we pray fervently for reconciliation and healing. The pain and brokenness you describe are real, and God sees it all. He is the God of restoration, the One who binds up the brokenhearted and heals wounds (Psalm 147:3). Your prayer for softened hearts, wisdom, and understanding aligns with Scripture, which calls us to love one another deeply, to bear with one another in patience, and to forgive as Christ has forgiven us (Colossians 3:12-14).
Let us turn to God’s Word for guidance. In Ezekiel 36:26, the Lord promises, *"I will also give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit within you. I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart of flesh."* This is the work only God can do, and we claim this promise over you both. Additionally, Ephesians 4:31-32 instructs, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* This is the path to restoration—laying down pride, anger, and past hurts, and choosing forgiveness and love.
We also encourage you to examine whether both of you are fully surrendered to Christ. A relationship cannot be truly restored unless both individuals are walking in obedience to Him. If there is unrepentant sin, hardness of heart, or a refusal to align with God’s Word, reconciliation may not be possible—or it may not be God’s will. Proverbs 21:2 tells us, *"Every way of a man is right in his own eyes, but Yahweh weighs the hearts."* Seek His will above your own desires, trusting that His plans are good, even when they require surrender or waiting.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious soul who longs for restoration and healing. Lord, You are the God who sees, who knows the depths of every heart, and who holds the power to mend what is broken. We ask that You work mightily in this situation, aligning every desire and action with Your perfect will.
If this relationship is within the bounds of Your holy design—for marriage between a man and a woman—then we pray for reconciliation, unity, and a renewed love that reflects Your heart. Soften the hearts of both individuals, Lord. Break down the walls of pride, bitterness, and misunderstanding. Fill them with Your Spirit, that they may speak with kindness, listen with patience, and act in love. Heal the wounds of the past, and create in them clean hearts and steadfast spirits (Psalm 51:10). Let forgiveness flow freely, as You have forgiven us in Christ.
But Father, if this relationship is not honoring to You—if it involves sin or disobedience to Your Word—we pray for conviction, repentance, and the courage to walk away from anything that dishonors You. Give clarity and strength to choose Your will over personal desires. Remind them that Your ways are higher and Your love is greater than any earthly relationship. Draw them closer to You first, that they may find their fulfillment in Christ alone.
Lord, we rebuked every scheme of the enemy that seeks to bring division, confusion, or bondage. By the power of the name of Jesus, we break every chain of sin, bitterness, and unforgiveness. Let Your light expose every hidden thing, and let Your truth set them free (John 8:32). Give them wisdom to communicate well, to think before they speak, and to act in love.
Father, we trust You with the outcome. If it is Your will to restore this relationship, let it be for Your glory and their good. If it is not, grant them the grace to surrender it to You and to find peace in Your presence. May they seek You above all else, knowing that You are their ultimate source of love, joy, and fulfillment.
We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your faithfulness and Your perfect timing. May Your will be done in this situation, and may both individuals draw nearer to You through it all. In the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord through prayer, Scripture, and godly counsel. Surround yourself with believers who can support and pray for you. Remember that God’s love for you is unwavering, and His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11). Stay rooted in His Word, and trust that He is working all things together for your good and His glory (Romans 8:28).
If you need further guidance or prayer, do not hesitate to reach out. We are here to stand with you in faith, always pointing you to Christ, the author and perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
