We join you in lifting this burden before the Lord, and we are grateful you have come to Him in Jesus’ name, for it is only through Christ that we find true restoration and healing. Your heart’s cry for reconciliation and transformation is heard, and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God’s will above all else.
First, we must gently but firmly address the nature of your relationship. The Word of God is clear that intimacy and the binding commitment of marriage are reserved for a man and a woman united in covenant before the Lord. Living together or engaging in a relationship as "fiancés" without the sanctity of marriage is not aligned with Scripture, for it can lead to temptation and sin. Hebrews 13:4 declares, *"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* If there has been physical intimacy outside of marriage, we urge you both to repent and turn away from this, seeking purity and holiness as you prepare for a godly union. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 reminds us, *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."*
If you are not yet married, we encourage you to pursue a courtship that honors God, with marriage as the goal—if it is His will. Seek wisdom from trusted believers and pastoral guidance to ensure your relationship is built on Christ. If you have already fallen into sin in this area, confess it to the Lord and to one another, and commit to walking in purity from this day forward. 1 John 1:9 assures us, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."*
We also notice the mention of children in your prayer, and we want to emphasize the importance of raising them in a home that reflects God’s design. Children thrive in stability, and a Christ-centered marriage provides the foundation they need. Proverbs 22:6 instructs, *"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."* If this relationship is not yet a marriage, we pray for clarity and conviction—either to move forward in godly marriage or, if that is not God’s will, to release this relationship and trust Him for His perfect plan.
Now, let us pray together for the burdens you have shared, submitting them to the Lord’s will and asking for His healing, wisdom, and provision.
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**Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting our sister and her fiancé to Your throne of grace. Lord, You see the brokenness, the pain, and the longing for restoration. We ask that You first convict their hearts of any sin that stands between them and You—especially in the area of purity and obedience to Your Word. If they have not yet entered into the covenant of marriage, we pray for repentance where needed and a commitment to honor You in their relationship. Father, if it is Your will for them to marry, prepare their hearts and make the path clear. If it is not, give them the strength to surrender this relationship to You and trust in Your perfect plan.
Lord, we ask for healing—healing from past wounds, from stress, trauma, anxiety, and depression. You are the God who binds up the brokenhearted (Psalm 147:3), and we pray You would bring emotional and spiritual wholeness to them both. Touch their minds and hearts, Lord, so they may communicate with wisdom, kindness, and patience. Remove any bitterness, resentment, or unforgiveness, and replace it with Your love and grace.
We pray for the children in this home—may they be drawn to You, Lord, and may they honor and obey their mother as You command (Ephesians 6:1-3). Give her the strength and wisdom to parent them in Your ways, even amid her own struggles.
Father, we lift up the financial needs and the burden of repairing their home. You are Jehovah Jireh, the God who provides (Genesis 22:14). We ask that You open doors for provision, whether through work, wisdom, or unexpected blessings. Help them to steward what You give with gratitude and faith.
For the struggle with PMDD, Lord, we ask for Your healing touch. You are the Great Physician, and we pray You would bring balance, peace, and relief. Guide her to the right resources, whether medical, nutritional, or spiritual, to manage this burden.
Most of all, Lord, we pray for Your will to be done—not their own desires, but Your perfect plan. If this relationship is to be restored, let it be for Your glory and built on Your truth. If there are chains of the enemy at work, we rebuke them in Jesus’ name and declare freedom over their lives. May Your light shine so brightly in them that they reflect Your love to one another and to the world around them.
We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your timing and Your goodness. May Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
In the mighty and holy name of Jesus we pray, Amen.**
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Finally, we encourage you to seek the Lord individually and together through His Word and prayer. Spend time in Scripture daily, especially passages that speak to godly relationships, such as Ephesians 5:22-33, Colossians 3:18-19, and 1 Peter 3:1-7. Surround yourselves with believers who can speak truth and accountability into your lives. And remember, no matter what happens, God’s love for you is steadfast, and His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11). Trust in Him, even when the path is unclear. He is faithful.