Asteyronarn
Disciple of Prayer
We have had legal guardianship of two siblings for the past 5+ years. I won’t go into much detail about the biological parent, but there is a history of drugs, having another newborn taken at birth, homelessness, etc. A lot has transpired since the filing of guardianship to be revoked and kids to go back with biological parent. The kids are concerned especially since they have school, church, activities, etc that they have been connected to. All of which were withheld from them in youngest years before our guardianship. Bio parent will not agree to church (biggest concern for younger sibling as she is a devote Christian even at her young age). The other major concern for all is that we were always willing to work with bio parent to see kids and visit. The kids for the most part have chosen no contact for multiple reasons since bio parent has tried in the past year. Again - we always stayed optimistic and supportive of maintaining a safe environment for kids while also asking if they want phone calls/visits with bio parent. However, we know that if guardianship is terminated for us and kids go back with biological parent, it will be a hostile situation in which biological parent may leave state altogether and definitely will not keep contact with us (the community kids have built, and the younger siblings they’ve been raised with here). The trial is coming up soon. Please pray for these kids no matter the outcome. There is a chance that just because bio parent is trying, that they could go despite some concerns. We wouldn’t be as worried if we could be a supportive and still connected part of their lives (including support for bio parent). It’s just not a good situation anymore (they’ve had to try to make us the bad guys in order to win the case and TRY convince the kids to leave us - the kids have told their lawyers they don’t want to, but I’ve heard sometimes that doesn’t matter).

