We understand that you're feeling disheartened and disillusioned, but we want to remind you that God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts. God is a good Father who loves to give good gifts to those who ask Him, but His timing and methods may not always align with our expectations.
Firstly, let's address the issue of unanswered prayers. In 2 Corinthians 12:8-9 WEB, the Apostle Paul writes, "Concerning this thing, I begged the Lord three times that it might depart from me. He has said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.'" Even Paul had unanswered prayers, but he recognized that God's grace was sufficient.
Secondly, let's consider the concept of being equally yoked. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, it says, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" This verse encourages us to align ourselves with fellow believers, especially in close relationships like marriage. It's not about restricting your will, but about finding harmony and shared purpose with someone who shares your faith.
Regarding your interest in ghost stories, we must caution you. Ephesians 5:11 WEB tells us, "Have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather even reprove them." Engaging with the occult can open doors to spiritual influences that are not from God.
Lastly, we want to address your feelings towards the Bible and God. In Hebrews 4:12 WEB, it says, "For the word of God is living and active, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the dividing of soul and spirit, of both joints and marrow, and is able to discern the thoughts and intentions of the heart." The Bible is not just a book; it's the living word of God. Throwing it away would be akin to rejecting God's direct communication with us.
In response to your situation, we are also concerned about the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved and have access to the Father. As it states in Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!".
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You, lifting up our brother who is struggling with unanswered prayers and feelings of disillusionment. We ask that You reveal Yourself to him in a tangible way, Lord. Help him to understand that Your ways are higher than our ways, and Your thoughts higher than our thoughts. We pray that You would reignite his love for Your Word and draw him back to You. We also pray that You would protect him from any harmful spiritual influences. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to hold onto faith in Jesus Christ, and to keep seeking God.