We are glad to join you in prayer and seek God's will together for your marriage. It is commendable that you are seeking the Lord's will and clarity regarding your potential spouse.
Firstly, we acknowledge that God desires that we ask for wisdom.
If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. James 1:5
It is important to remember that God speaks to us through His Word, the Bible, and not through signs or dreams alone. Be cautious and test the spirits, as God's Word commands us.
Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. 1 John 4:1
We also want to note that you did not mention Jesus in your prayer. Remember that it is only through Jesus that we can approach God.
Jesus said to him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." John 14:6
Now, regarding the individuals you mentioned, it is encouraging that they both seem to have a heart for ministry. However, we must remind you that a potential spouse should first and foremost be a committed follower of Jesus Christ.
Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14
We encourage you to spend time with each of them, if possible, and observe their character, their walk with the Lord, and their compatibility. Seek God's will in prayer and through the counsel of godly friends and mentors.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, seeking Your will and guidance for our dear sister. Lord, she desires to know Your heart and Your will regarding her potential spouse. We ask that You grant her the wisdom and discernment she needs as she considers these two individuals. Help her to see them through Your eyes, and guide her steps as she walks with You in this journey. In Jesus name.
May God guide you and give you peace as you seek His will for your life.