Please pray for me as I have a lot of bitterness building up because I have tried so hard to do good for people in my life and I feel that it has been so taken for granted and unappreciated. Not only that but I have had people return so much evil to me for the good I have tried to do to them.
Kindness taken for granted
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We understand the deep pain and frustration you’re experiencing, and we want you to know that your feelings are valid. It is heartbreaking when kindness is met with ingratitude or even harm, and the bitterness you feel is a natural response to such wounds. However, we must remember that our ultimate calling is not to seek the approval or appreciation of others but to live in obedience to Christ, who Himself was despised and rejected despite His infinite goodness. As it is written in **1 Peter 2:21-23 (WEB)**, *"For to this you were called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow his steps, who didn’t sin, ‘neither was deceit found in his mouth.’ Who, when he was cursed, didn’t curse back. When he suffered, didn’t threaten, but committed himself to him who judges righteously."*
Your struggle is not unseen by God. He knows the intentions of your heart and the sacrifices you’ve made. In **Galatians 6:9 (WEB)**, we are reminded, *"Let’s not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up."* The lack of gratitude from others does not diminish the value of the good you’ve done in the eyes of the Lord. He is your rewarder, and He will never take your labor for granted. Yet, we must also examine our hearts to ensure that our good deeds are done for His glory and not for the praise of people. **Matthew 6:1-4 (WEB)** warns us, *"Be careful that you don’t do your charitable giving before men, to be seen by them, or else you have no reward from your Father who is in heaven... so that your charitable giving may be in secret, then your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly."*
The bitterness you’re feeling is dangerous if left unchecked, for it can take root and defile your heart. **Hebrews 12:15 (WEB)** cautions, *"Looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it."* Bitterness is a poison that harms us far more than those who have wronged us. It distorts our perspective, hardens our hearts, and hinders our relationship with God. Instead, we are called to forgive, just as Christ forgave us. **Ephesians 4:31-32 (WEB)** urges, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."*
Forgiveness does not mean what was done to you was right or that you must trust those who hurt you again. It means releasing the debt they owe you into God’s hands, trusting Him to be your vindicator. **Romans 12:19 (WEB)** declares, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, ‘Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.’"* When we forgive, we free ourselves from the burden of resentment and allow God to work justice in His perfect timing.
We also want to encourage you to guard your heart against the temptation to grow cynical or hardened. **Proverbs 4:23 (WEB)** tells us, *"Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life."* Even in the face of ingratitude, we must continue to walk in love, knowing that our battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces. **Ephesians 6:12 (WEB)** reminds us, *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."*
Lastly, we notice that your request did not invoke the name of Jesus, and we want to gently remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. **John 14:6 (WEB)** declares, *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.’"* And in **Acts 4:12 (WEB)**, we read, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so. He alone can heal your wounds, free you from bitterness, and fill you with His peace. Repent of your sins, believe in Him, and invite Him to reign in your heart. Only then can you experience the fullness of His love and restoration.
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Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, knowing that You see the pain and bitterness that has taken root in their heart. Lord, You know the good they have tried to do, the sacrifices they have made, and the wounds they have received in return. We ask that You would minister to their heart right now, Lord. Pour out Your healing balm upon their hurts and replace their bitterness with Your peace. Help them to release every offense, every ungrateful word, and every act of betrayal into Your hands, trusting You to be their vindicator.
Father, we pray that You would remind them that their labor in You is never in vain. Even when others fail to appreciate their kindness, You see and You reward. Strengthen them to continue doing good, not for the praise of people, but for Your glory alone. Guard their heart from cynicism and hardness, and fill them afresh with Your love. Teach them to forgive as You have forgiven them, and break every chain of resentment that seeks to bind them.
Lord, if there is any area where they have allowed bitterness to defile their heart, we ask for Your conviction and cleansing. Restore their joy and renew their mind with Your truth. Help them to see others through Your eyes, even those who have wronged them. Give them wisdom to set healthy boundaries while still walking in love.
We also pray that if they have not yet fully surrendered to Jesus Christ, that today would be the day of salvation for them. Open their eyes to see their need for Him, and draw them into a deep, personal relationship with You. Let them experience the freedom and peace that comes only through His name.
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Your struggle is not unseen by God. He knows the intentions of your heart and the sacrifices you’ve made. In **Galatians 6:9 (WEB)**, we are reminded, *"Let’s not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up."* The lack of gratitude from others does not diminish the value of the good you’ve done in the eyes of the Lord. He is your rewarder, and He will never take your labor for granted. Yet, we must also examine our hearts to ensure that our good deeds are done for His glory and not for the praise of people. **Matthew 6:1-4 (WEB)** warns us, *"Be careful that you don’t do your charitable giving before men, to be seen by them, or else you have no reward from your Father who is in heaven... so that your charitable giving may be in secret, then your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly."*
The bitterness you’re feeling is dangerous if left unchecked, for it can take root and defile your heart. **Hebrews 12:15 (WEB)** cautions, *"Looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it."* Bitterness is a poison that harms us far more than those who have wronged us. It distorts our perspective, hardens our hearts, and hinders our relationship with God. Instead, we are called to forgive, just as Christ forgave us. **Ephesians 4:31-32 (WEB)** urges, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."*
Forgiveness does not mean what was done to you was right or that you must trust those who hurt you again. It means releasing the debt they owe you into God’s hands, trusting Him to be your vindicator. **Romans 12:19 (WEB)** declares, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, ‘Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.’"* When we forgive, we free ourselves from the burden of resentment and allow God to work justice in His perfect timing.
We also want to encourage you to guard your heart against the temptation to grow cynical or hardened. **Proverbs 4:23 (WEB)** tells us, *"Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life."* Even in the face of ingratitude, we must continue to walk in love, knowing that our battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces. **Ephesians 6:12 (WEB)** reminds us, *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."*
Lastly, we notice that your request did not invoke the name of Jesus, and we want to gently remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. **John 14:6 (WEB)** declares, *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.’"* And in **Acts 4:12 (WEB)**, we read, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so. He alone can heal your wounds, free you from bitterness, and fill you with His peace. Repent of your sins, believe in Him, and invite Him to reign in your heart. Only then can you experience the fullness of His love and restoration.
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Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, knowing that You see the pain and bitterness that has taken root in their heart. Lord, You know the good they have tried to do, the sacrifices they have made, and the wounds they have received in return. We ask that You would minister to their heart right now, Lord. Pour out Your healing balm upon their hurts and replace their bitterness with Your peace. Help them to release every offense, every ungrateful word, and every act of betrayal into Your hands, trusting You to be their vindicator.
Father, we pray that You would remind them that their labor in You is never in vain. Even when others fail to appreciate their kindness, You see and You reward. Strengthen them to continue doing good, not for the praise of people, but for Your glory alone. Guard their heart from cynicism and hardness, and fill them afresh with Your love. Teach them to forgive as You have forgiven them, and break every chain of resentment that seeks to bind them.
Lord, if there is any area where they have allowed bitterness to defile their heart, we ask for Your conviction and cleansing. Restore their joy and renew their mind with Your truth. Help them to see others through Your eyes, even those who have wronged them. Give them wisdom to set healthy boundaries while still walking in love.
We also pray that if they have not yet fully surrendered to Jesus Christ, that today would be the day of salvation for them. Open their eyes to see their need for Him, and draw them into a deep, personal relationship with You. Let them experience the freedom and peace that comes only through His name.
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We're right there with you, friend. It's tough when kindness is met with ingratitude, and it's easy to feel bitter and hurt. But remember, we're called to love and do good, even when it's not reciprocated. Let's keep our hearts soft and our love unyielding, just like Jesus. We're here for you, praying for you in Jesus' name.
EnricoLange
Beloved of All
Praying in Jesus Name.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We want to thank you for allowing us the sacred opportunity to lift you up in prayer during this time of deep hurt and weariness. It has been on our hearts to continue interceding for you, asking the Lord to replace the bitterness with His supernatural peace and to heal the wounds caused by ingratitude and betrayal. We know how painful it can be when kindness is met with indifference or even harm, and we have been praying that God would remind you of His perfect love—a love that is never unappreciated, never wasted, and never returned with evil.
As we wait on the Lord together, we want to encourage you to keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, who understands rejection and betrayal more deeply than any of us ever will. He sees your heart, your sacrifices, and your pain, and He is faithful to restore what has been broken. If the Lord has already begun to soften your heart, lift this burden, or show you His purpose in this season, we would love for you to share a praise report with us so we can rejoice with you. If the weight of this struggle still feels heavy, please don’t hesitate to post an update—we are here to stand with you in prayer for as long as it takes.
May the Lord fill you with His comfort, renew your strength, and surround you with His presence as you seek Him. We are believing with you that He will turn this pain into a testimony of His faithfulness and grace. In Jesus Name.
As we wait on the Lord together, we want to encourage you to keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, who understands rejection and betrayal more deeply than any of us ever will. He sees your heart, your sacrifices, and your pain, and He is faithful to restore what has been broken. If the Lord has already begun to soften your heart, lift this burden, or show you His purpose in this season, we would love for you to share a praise report with us so we can rejoice with you. If the weight of this struggle still feels heavy, please don’t hesitate to post an update—we are here to stand with you in prayer for as long as it takes.
May the Lord fill you with His comfort, renew your strength, and surround you with His presence as you seek Him. We are believing with you that He will turn this pain into a testimony of His faithfulness and grace. In Jesus Name.
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