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We were in a relationship for past 5 years. ### thinks it won't work, decides not to give ### hope, distancing from ###. Kindly pray for ###. ### like to live together In the name of Jesus Christ. Amen
Kindly Pray for our relationship
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We understand the deep longing in your heart for reconciliation and unity, but we must first address some critical concerns in light of Scripture. The relationship you describe does not align with God’s design for marriage and purity. Living together outside of marriage is fornication, which the Bible clearly condemns. *1 Thessalonians 4:3-5* says, *"For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God."*
Additionally, five years is a long time to remain in a relationship without the commitment of marriage. If marriage is not the goal, then the relationship is not honoring God. *1 Corinthians 7:2* tells us, *"But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband."* Courtship should be purposeful, with the intention of marriage between a man and a woman who are both believers in Christ.
We also notice that you have not mentioned whether this person is a believer in Jesus Christ. *2 Corinthians 6:14* warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* If this person does not share your faith in Christ, the relationship cannot be blessed by God, no matter how deeply you care for them.
Most importantly, we must address that while you ended your prayer with *"In the name of Jesus Christ,"* the focus of your request seems to be on your own desires rather than seeking God’s will. True prayer is not about convincing God to fulfill our wishes but aligning our hearts with His perfect plan. *1 John 5:14-15* says, *"This is the confidence that we have in him, that if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. And if we know that he listens to us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions which we have asked of him."*
Let us pray for you now, asking God to realign your heart with His truth and to bring conviction where there is sin. We pray that if this relationship is not of God, He will give you the strength to let go and trust Him. If it is His will for reconciliation, we pray that both of you would repent, turn fully to Christ, and pursue a godly marriage—*not* living together in sin, but honoring Him in purity and commitment.
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**Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious soul who is hurting and longing for reconciliation. Lord, we ask that You open their eyes to see this situation through Your truth, not through worldly desires. Convict their heart if they have been walking in sin, whether through fornication, emotional idolatry, or unequally yoked relationships. Father, if this relationship is not Your will, give them the strength to surrender it to You completely. Break the chains of attachment that are not from You and fill them with Your peace that surpasses understanding.
If it is Your will for restoration, we pray that both individuals would repent, turn to You in full surrender, and pursue a godly marriage—one built on Your Word, not on the world’s standards. Help them to flee from sexual immorality and to honor You in their bodies and their commitments. Lord, we also pray that if this person is not a believer, You would draw them to salvation in Christ. May no believer be bound to an unbeliever, for what fellowship has light with darkness?
Father, we ask that You heal the brokenness in their heart and replace their longing with a deeper desire for You. Remind them that You are their first love, their comforter, and their provider. Let them find their identity in Christ alone, not in a relationship. We rebuke any spirit of fear, despair, or manipulation in this situation and declare that Your perfect love casts out all fear.
We pray all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is worthy of our devotion. Amen.***
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We encourage you to seek God’s face in this matter above all else. Spend time in His Word, praying for His will—not yours—to be done. If you have been walking in sin, repent and turn to Him. He is faithful to forgive and restore. *Proverbs 3:5-6* says, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."*
If you are not already part of a biblical church community, we strongly urge you to find one where you can receive godly counsel and accountability. Surround yourself with believers who will speak truth into your life, even when it is hard to hear. Remember, God’s ways are higher than ours, and His plans for you are good—even when they require surrender and obedience that feel painful in the moment.
Lastly, if you have not fully surrendered your life to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we implore you to do so. There is no other name by which we can be saved (*Acts 4:12*), and without Christ, no relationship—no matter how deep—can bring true fulfillment. If you would like to know more about salvation, we would be honored to share the Gospel with you. Let us know how we can continue to pray for you in this journey.
Additionally, five years is a long time to remain in a relationship without the commitment of marriage. If marriage is not the goal, then the relationship is not honoring God. *1 Corinthians 7:2* tells us, *"But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband."* Courtship should be purposeful, with the intention of marriage between a man and a woman who are both believers in Christ.
We also notice that you have not mentioned whether this person is a believer in Jesus Christ. *2 Corinthians 6:14* warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* If this person does not share your faith in Christ, the relationship cannot be blessed by God, no matter how deeply you care for them.
Most importantly, we must address that while you ended your prayer with *"In the name of Jesus Christ,"* the focus of your request seems to be on your own desires rather than seeking God’s will. True prayer is not about convincing God to fulfill our wishes but aligning our hearts with His perfect plan. *1 John 5:14-15* says, *"This is the confidence that we have in him, that if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. And if we know that he listens to us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions which we have asked of him."*
Let us pray for you now, asking God to realign your heart with His truth and to bring conviction where there is sin. We pray that if this relationship is not of God, He will give you the strength to let go and trust Him. If it is His will for reconciliation, we pray that both of you would repent, turn fully to Christ, and pursue a godly marriage—*not* living together in sin, but honoring Him in purity and commitment.
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**Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious soul who is hurting and longing for reconciliation. Lord, we ask that You open their eyes to see this situation through Your truth, not through worldly desires. Convict their heart if they have been walking in sin, whether through fornication, emotional idolatry, or unequally yoked relationships. Father, if this relationship is not Your will, give them the strength to surrender it to You completely. Break the chains of attachment that are not from You and fill them with Your peace that surpasses understanding.
If it is Your will for restoration, we pray that both individuals would repent, turn to You in full surrender, and pursue a godly marriage—one built on Your Word, not on the world’s standards. Help them to flee from sexual immorality and to honor You in their bodies and their commitments. Lord, we also pray that if this person is not a believer, You would draw them to salvation in Christ. May no believer be bound to an unbeliever, for what fellowship has light with darkness?
Father, we ask that You heal the brokenness in their heart and replace their longing with a deeper desire for You. Remind them that You are their first love, their comforter, and their provider. Let them find their identity in Christ alone, not in a relationship. We rebuke any spirit of fear, despair, or manipulation in this situation and declare that Your perfect love casts out all fear.
We pray all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is worthy of our devotion. Amen.***
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We encourage you to seek God’s face in this matter above all else. Spend time in His Word, praying for His will—not yours—to be done. If you have been walking in sin, repent and turn to Him. He is faithful to forgive and restore. *Proverbs 3:5-6* says, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."*
If you are not already part of a biblical church community, we strongly urge you to find one where you can receive godly counsel and accountability. Surround yourself with believers who will speak truth into your life, even when it is hard to hear. Remember, God’s ways are higher than ours, and His plans for you are good—even when they require surrender and obedience that feel painful in the moment.
Lastly, if you have not fully surrendered your life to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we implore you to do so. There is no other name by which we can be saved (*Acts 4:12*), and without Christ, no relationship—no matter how deep—can bring true fulfillment. If you would like to know more about salvation, we would be honored to share the Gospel with you. Let us know how we can continue to pray for you in this journey.
Dear friend, we hear your heart's cry for your relationship, and we're here to walk alongside you in prayer. We understand that these past five years have been filled with deep emotions and hopes. We want to remind you that God sees your heart, and He cares deeply about your well-being.
In our prayers, we're asking God to give you wisdom and clarity. We're lifting up your relationship, asking God to bless it if it's His will, and to guide you if it's not. We're praying for both of you to have open hearts to hear God's voice and to follow His leading.
We're also asking God to fill you with His love, peace, and strength. We believe that no matter what happens, God will be with you, guiding and supporting you every step of the way. We're trusting in God's perfect plan, knowing that He has your best interests at heart.
Let's continue to pray together, seeking God's will in this situation. We're here for you, and we believe in the power of prayer to make a difference. Let's trust in God's timing and His ways, knowing that He is faithful and true.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
In our prayers, we're asking God to give you wisdom and clarity. We're lifting up your relationship, asking God to bless it if it's His will, and to guide you if it's not. We're praying for both of you to have open hearts to hear God's voice and to follow His leading.
We're also asking God to fill you with His love, peace, and strength. We believe that no matter what happens, God will be with you, guiding and supporting you every step of the way. We're trusting in God's perfect plan, knowing that He has your best interests at heart.
Let's continue to pray together, seeking God's will in this situation. We're here for you, and we believe in the power of prayer to make a difference. Let's trust in God's timing and His ways, knowing that He is faithful and true.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
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Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.
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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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