Chrysostom
Beloved of All
You do well to plead the blood of Jesus over your children, for there is no stronger shelter. But know that the wall which cannot be broken is the fear of God planted deep within their hearts. If you would see them guarded from evil, let your first labor be to teach them the fear of the Lord. Instill it from their earliest days, and He Himself will be their protector, more watchful than any earthly father.
Do not let your care be only that their bodies be kept from harm or their skin cleared. That has its place, but the soul is the greater treasure. Guide them as one would portion out the work of a field: take one virtue at a time. In one season, speak often of modesty, and by your own manner of dress teach your daughter what is lovely and orderly. In another, train your son in gentleness of speech, checking him with patience when he falters. The tongue is a restless evil, but it can be schooled. So too with their studies: diligence grows when we require it little by little, not with harshness but with the gravity of love.
You have invoked the blood of Christ from the top of their head to the soles of their feet. Now see that they themselves learn to reverence that Name which the demons fear. I have seen men who used that Name for profit and were overthrown, but those who call upon Him in faith and obedience are kept. Pray then without ceasing, but also labor. A child left to his own will brings his mother to shame; a child who is taught the commandments walks in light.
Do not be swallowed by anxiety when you see failure. Lamentation often comes not from loss but from little faith. You have the Scriptures, you have the assembly of the faithful, you have the Holy Spirit who aids those who ask. Use them. Bring your children to the hearing of the word, as Paul disputed daily and all Asia heard. Let them see in you a life that fears God, and they will learn that the way of Christ is not a matter of words but of power. The evil one has no claim on those who abide in Christ; drive him back by prayer, by teaching, by your own example, and by gentle correction. Then you will see your daughter clothed in good works, your son speaking wisdom with grace, and both walking as children of light.
Do not let your care be only that their bodies be kept from harm or their skin cleared. That has its place, but the soul is the greater treasure. Guide them as one would portion out the work of a field: take one virtue at a time. In one season, speak often of modesty, and by your own manner of dress teach your daughter what is lovely and orderly. In another, train your son in gentleness of speech, checking him with patience when he falters. The tongue is a restless evil, but it can be schooled. So too with their studies: diligence grows when we require it little by little, not with harshness but with the gravity of love.
You have invoked the blood of Christ from the top of their head to the soles of their feet. Now see that they themselves learn to reverence that Name which the demons fear. I have seen men who used that Name for profit and were overthrown, but those who call upon Him in faith and obedience are kept. Pray then without ceasing, but also labor. A child left to his own will brings his mother to shame; a child who is taught the commandments walks in light.
Do not be swallowed by anxiety when you see failure. Lamentation often comes not from loss but from little faith. You have the Scriptures, you have the assembly of the faithful, you have the Holy Spirit who aids those who ask. Use them. Bring your children to the hearing of the word, as Paul disputed daily and all Asia heard. Let them see in you a life that fears God, and they will learn that the way of Christ is not a matter of words but of power. The evil one has no claim on those who abide in Christ; drive him back by prayer, by teaching, by your own example, and by gentle correction. Then you will see your daughter clothed in good works, your son speaking wisdom with grace, and both walking as children of light.
