We come before you in agreement, lifting this brother up to the Lord Jesus Christ, who alone is our strength, our healer, and our redeemer. Your prayer is filled with such raw honesty and brokenness, and we want you to know that God hears you. He sees your struggles—your physical pain, your marital strife, your fears about work, and your battle with alcohol. Most of all, He sees your heart crying out for change, and that is a prayer He will never ignore.
First, we rejoice that you have called upon the name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. As Scripture declares, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). There is no other name by which we are saved, and it is in His name that we stand before God with confidence. You have done well to seek Him, and we encourage you to continue to cling to Jesus in every area of your life.
Now, let us address the burdens you carry, one by one, with the truth of God’s Word and the power of prayer.
Your marriage is clearly under strain, and we hear the deep sorrow in your words. Marriage is a covenant before God, a sacred bond that requires selflessness, love, and perseverance. You have been married for ### years—a testament to commitment—but now you both are struggling. The drinking, the harsh words, the distance—these are not God’s design for marriage. Ephesians 5:25-28 tells us, *"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for her... Even so husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself."* And to wives, Ephesians 5:22-24 says, *"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord."* This mutual love and respect is what God intends, and it is only possible when both spouses are submitted to Christ.
We must also address the alcohol. The Bible warns us in Proverbs 20:1, *"Wine is a mocker, and beer is a brawler. Whoever is led astray by them is not wise."* And in Ephesians 5:18, we are told, *"Don’t be drunken with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit."* Alcohol has become a stumbling block for both of you, and it is clouding your judgment, your health, and your relationship. We urge you to seek freedom from this bondage. It will require surrender to God, accountability, and possibly professional help, but He will give you the strength to overcome. *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure"* (1 Corinthians 10:13, WEB).
Your physical pain is real, and we do not minimize it. The cyst in your spine, the fear of losing your ability to work—these are heavy burdens. But remember what Jesus said in Matthew 11:28, *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest."* He is your healer. We pray for complete restoration of your body, that the pain would subside, and that you would be able to fulfill your responsibilities without fear. *"By his stripes you were healed"* (1 Peter 2:24, WEB). Trust Him in this, even when it feels impossible.
Your fear about your job and the pipe supports is understandable, but we remind you of Philippians 4:6-7: *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."* You have done your part; now trust God with the outcome. He is able to turn even your mistakes into opportunities for His glory. *"We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose"* (Romans 8:28, WEB).
As for your sadness and lack of fulfillment, it stems from a heart that is weary and a spirit that is thirsting for more of God. You have tried to find satisfaction in your own strength, in work, and even in worldly pleasures like concerts and limousines, but none of these can fill the void that only Jesus can fill. He said in John 10:10, *"The thief only comes to steal, kill, and destroy. I came that they may have life, and may have it abundantly."* True joy and peace are found in Him alone. We encourage you to spend time in His Word daily, to pray without ceasing, and to seek fellowship with other believers who can walk alongside you.
Now, let us pray together for you and your wife:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift this brother and his wife before Your throne of grace. Lord, You see their struggles—the pain, the addiction, the fear, the broken communication, and the weariness. We ask that You would heal their marriage, Lord. Soften their hearts toward one another and restore the love and friendship they once shared. Break the chains of alcohol in their lives, Father. Give them the strength to turn away from it and to be filled instead with Your Spirit.
Lord, we pray for this man’s body. You are Jehovah-Rapha, the God who heals. Touch his spine, Lord. Remove the pain, restore his strength, and let him walk in freedom from this physical burden. Give him the ability to work and provide for his family without fear.
Father, we ask for Your mercy over his job. Let the pipe supports be approved, Lord, and let favor rest upon him with his employers and customers. Remove the anxiety he feels and replace it with Your peace.
Most of all, Lord, we pray that both he and his wife would seek You first. Draw them closer to You, Father. Let them find their joy and identity in Christ alone. Forgive them for their sins, Lord, and cleanse them from all unrighteousness. Restore their family, their health, and their purpose.
We rebuke the spirit of fear, depression, and addiction in Jesus’ name. We declare that this home will be a place of peace, love, and godly leadership. Let this man rise up as the husband and father You have called him to be, and let his wife support and respect him as unto You.
Finally, Lord, we pray for their children. Meet their needs, Father, and let this family be a testimony of Your redemption and grace.
We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."*
Brother, we want to leave you with this encouragement: *"Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness"* (Isaiah 41:10, WEB). God is not done with you. He is not done with your marriage. He is not done with your career. Surrender every area to Him, and watch what He will do.
We also urge you to seek godly counseling, both for your marriage and for the struggles you’re facing personally. You do not have to walk this path alone. The body of Christ is here to support you, and there is no shame in asking for help.
Lastly, we must address the mention of the concert and limousine. While there is nothing inherently wrong with enjoying music or special occasions, we sense a longing in your heart for something more—something only God can provide. Worldly pleasures will always leave us empty if we are not first seeking the Kingdom of God. We pray that this weekend would be a time of reconciliation and joy in the Lord, not just a temporary escape.
Stand firm, brother. Keep seeking Jesus. Keep praying. Keep fighting the good fight of faith. We are standing with you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
