Jesus Christ please help me

Dwsariator

Servant of All
Dear God please help me today get my work done correctly and on time. I have my work up paperwork ready to send to my customer and I need to prepare the proposal for my customer to review next week. Please help me get this done today. Then I need to make up another work up for my boss and his boss to see our true profit margin. There's no way I can get the GM on profits that my boss wants because the GC that we have been working for and now they want us to quote another job at such a low profit margin I prefer you to help me do what I have been asked to do and I prefer not to get this job. It will be so hard and so painful to run this job over the next 5-6 months from a remote place. I live and work from an office in ### and the job site is in ###. Please help me prepare another work up that will satisfy my bosses so they can see our true GM in the way that they want to see it. Please soften the hearts of my bosses and my coworkers and my customers and especially my wife. My wife has ### and when she drinks too much alcohol her mind doesn't work well and she thinks weird things and she says things that are not true and are pretty weird. I sleep in and I live in a different room in our own home to stay away from my wife because of our relationship with each other and our relationship with our ###. I too continue to drink alcohol but I am still able to Go to work and earn an income to be able to support myself and my wife and our adult kid's. I have been doing this for the last 40 years. WOW. Please help me help my wife and please help me keep our marriage and our home and my job. I'm ### years old and I pray that I can work for another 5 years and to be able to retire with my wife in peace and happiness and to be able to love my wife that you gave me a long time ago. I was ### years old looking at my self in the mirror asking you to allow me to have a beautiful wife and beautiful children and a home to live in and you gave me the courage and the strength and the ability to have what I have right now. Amen. Please help me not to give up and give it back to you. Thru Christ all good things are possible. Jesus Christ is my lord and Savior. With your help I can do this. If I didn't believe in you and your son Jesus Christ there's no way that I could believe in my heart that I could do this on my own. No way. But with you and my belief in you I will go into any Battle any time any where. My Arc angel is Saint Michael. I'm on the best team. Just tell me what to do and I will do it. Not for me. Not for my employer. Not for my family or anyone else. Only for you! 🙏
 
We hear your heart, brother, and we lift you up before the throne of grace with urgency and compassion. You are carrying heavy burdens, work pressures, marital strain, and the weight of years of struggle, but you are not alone. The Lord sees your faithfulness in calling on the name of Jesus Christ, and we stand with you in prayer, knowing that He is your strength when you are weak.

First, we rebuke the spirit of overwhelm and anxiety that seeks to paralyze you in your work. The enemy would love nothing more than for you to feel crushed under the weight of unrealistic expectations or the fear of taking on a job that drains your spirit. But Scripture declares, "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light" (Matthew 11:28-30 WEB). We pray that the Lord would give you wisdom in your proposals and clarity in your numbers. May He guide your hands as you prepare the paperwork and grant you favor with your bosses and customers. If this new job is not His will for you, we pray He would close the door decisively and open a better path. If it is His will, we pray He would equip you with supernatural strength, provision, and joy in the midst of the challenge.

We must also address the sin of drunkenness in your home, brother. Both you and your wife are entangled in a cycle of alcohol that is clouding judgment, damaging your marriage, and grieving the Holy Spirit. The Bible is clear: "Don’t be drunken with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit" (Ephesians 5:18 WEB). Drunkenness leads to confusion, strife, and broken fellowship, not just with each other, but with God. We do not say this to condemn you, but to call you to repentance and freedom. The Lord has not given you a spirit of fear or bondage, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7 WEB). We pray that the chains of alcohol would be broken over your lives. May the Lord convict you both gently but firmly, leading you to seek help, whether through Christian counseling, Celebrate Recovery, or a trusted pastor. Your marriage is worth fighting for, and your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20 WEB).

We also rebuke the separation in your marriage. Sleeping in separate rooms is not God’s design for a husband and wife. The Bible says, "For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh" (Ephesians 5:31 WEB). This "one flesh" union is not just physical but emotional and spiritual. We pray that the Lord would soften both of your hearts, that you would seek reconciliation with humility and grace. Your wife needs your leadership, brother, not as a harsh ruler, but as a servant-leader who loves her as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25 WEB). And you need her respect and companionship. We pray for healing in your communication, for truth to replace confusion, and for the love that first united you to be rekindled.

You mentioned Saint Michael as your archangel, but we must gently correct this. While angels are real and minister to believers (Hebrews 1:14 WEB), we are not to pray to them or elevate them above their created purpose. Our prayers are to be directed to God alone, through Jesus Christ, who is our only mediator (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). The name of Jesus is the only name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12 WEB). It is His blood that cleanses us, His Spirit that empowers us, and His Word that guides us. We encourage you to fix your eyes solely on Him.

Now, let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother who is weary and heavy-laden. Lord, You see his heart, his desire to honor You in his work, his marriage, and his life. We ask that You would strengthen him today to complete the tasks before him with excellence and integrity. Give him wisdom in his proposals and favor with his bosses and customers. If this new job is not Your will, close the door, Lord. If it is, equip him with supernatural strength and provision.

Father, we confess the sin of drunkenness in this home. We ask that You would break the chains of alcohol over our brother and his wife. Convict them both of their need for sobriety and healing. Lead them to the help they need, counseling, support groups, or accountability with fellow believers. Restore their minds, Lord, and replace confusion with clarity, strife with peace, and bondage with freedom.

We pray for their marriage, Father. Soften their hearts toward one another. Help our brother to lead his wife with love and humility, and help his wife to respond with respect and grace. Rekindle the love that first brought them together. Heal the wounds of the past and restore their unity as one flesh. Let their home be a place of peace, not separation.

Lord, we thank You for the blessings You have given our brother, a wife, children, a home, and a job. Help him to steward these gifts well. Give him the strength to work faithfully for the next five years and to retire in peace, with his marriage restored and his heart fully surrendered to You.

We rebuke the enemy’s lies that tell him he is alone or that he cannot overcome these challenges. Remind him that greater is He who is in him than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4 WEB). Fill him with Your Holy Spirit, Lord, so that he may walk in power, love, and self-control.

Finally, Father, we ask that You would draw our brother and his wife closer to You. May they seek You first in all things, trusting that You will provide for their every need. Thank You for the gift of salvation through Jesus Christ. May they live each day in the light of that truth, knowing that nothing can separate them from Your love.

We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
 
Brother, we read your prayer and sensed both the strength of your faith and the deep weariness of carrying so much for so long. ### years of showing up, at work, for your family, in the battle, is no small thing, and God sees every ounce of that faithfulness. The daily pressure of getting proposals right, the ache of a marriage strained by years of pain and alcohol, and the longing to simply finish well with your wife in peace, all of it matters to Him.

For the work before you today, we ask Jesus to give you clear thinking, steady hands, and favor with your bosses and customer. You can trust Him with the profit margins and the remote job; He knows what is best for you.

But what struck us most was your admission that you also drink, even as you watch your wife’s drinking rob her of clear thoughts and rob you both of closeness. Sleeping in separate rooms, staying away to survive, that is a lonely road. You don’t have to walk it alone, and you don’t have to fix it all by willpower. No one recovers from addiction in isolation. We’d gently encourage you to look for a few trustworthy men, maybe a recovery group at your church or a local AA meeting, where you can be honest about your own struggle and find support. That single step is not weakness; it’s wisdom, and it can begin to shift the whole dynamic of your home, even if your wife isn’t ready yet. You can’t force her heart to soften, but you can let your own heart get some help.

God gave you the courage to ask for a beautiful family long ago, and He hasn’t changed. He is still in the business of making things new, not just recovering what was lost, but transforming what feels impossible. Your marriage does not have to stay frozen in survival mode. We’re praying with you toward that five-year finish line of peace and love.

Jesus, thank You for this man’s gritty, honest faith. Give him clarity with every spreadsheet and proposal today, and soften the hearts of those he works with. Surround him with safe, sober brothers who will walk with him. Protect his wife’s mind and body, and in Your timing, bring the healing they both need. Renew their marriage, not by human effort alone, but by Your restoring power. Hold him steady when he feels like giving up. In Your name, we pray. Amen.
 
God is your strength in prayer making time for him with daily orayer scriptures. May the Lord help you through this. Believing and praying with faith for support and breakthrough. Lord Yeshuas name.
 
God is your strength in prayer making time for him with daily orayer scriptures. May the Lord help you through this. Believing and praying with faith for support and breakthrough. Lord Yeshuas name.
Thank you so much for your prayers and advice and I too pray for you my friend. Amen 🙏
 
The cry of your heart has come before the throne of the Highest, and He who feeds the young ravens when they call upon Him will not turn a deaf ear to the pleading of a soul that casts itself upon His mercy in Christ Jesus. You have confessed that without Him you can do nothing, and indeed that is the only posture for a sinner seeking grace, emptied of all self-trust, clinging only to the cross. It is well that you acknowledge Jesus Christ as Lord and Saviour, for there is no other name under heaven given among men whereby we must be saved. All your battles, all your daily strivings, must be waged in His strength alone, not with reliance upon any angel or saint, however glorious, but upon Him who is the Captain of our salvation, the Lord of hosts. He is enough; He is all.

Your present trial is twofold, and the Word of God holds a lamp for both paths. As to your labour, remember that the hand of the diligent maketh rich, and it is right to seek the Lord’s help in performing your duties with integrity. Yet beware of fretting because of the low profit margin set before you; if the business brings such pain and trouble, perhaps the Lord is answering your own preference not to secure it. Commit your way unto Him, trust also in Him, and He shall bring it to pass. He can soften the hearts of your employers and customers, or He can open another door. Your part is to do the work honestly as unto the Lord, and leave the results with Him. He who has sustained you these forty years in the marketplace will not desert you now. The wilderness may be dry, but the rock that followed Israel still yields water for the thirsty.

But I must in faithfulness speak to the heavier burden, the sorrow of your home. You speak of the wine cup, and you know that both you and your wife have stumbled at this stone. The Word of God warns that wine is a mocker, strong drink is raging, and whosoever is deceived thereby is not wise. It is a mercy that you still go forth to labour, but do not presume upon that mercy while continuing in a course that dims the soul and opens the door to strange and untrue thoughts. The Spirit of God is grieved when the body, His temple, is clouded with excess. Your wife’s affliction is made worse by drink, and you yourselves are not walking in the fulness of soberness and watchfulness. I do not speak to condemn, for the grace of God can break every chain, but I bid you flee to Christ for deliverance from every besetting sin. Cast yourself upon Him who took our infirmities and bore our sicknesses; He can heal the mind and restore the years the locust hath eaten. Cry to Him day and night until the habit be broken and peace returns to your dwelling.

Your marriage is a covenant made before God, and though you now dwell in separate rooms to avoid strife, it is not the full design of that holy estate. The God who made you one can melt the frost, remove the strange thoughts, and make your latter days brighter than the former. But this will come as you both seek His face with repentance and faith, and as you lead your household in the fear of the Lord. Love her not because she is altogether lovely in herself, but because you vowed to cherish her until death, and because Christ loves His bride despite her spots and wrinkles. Prayer can reach her even when words seem vain; the Lord can put His fear in her heart and turn her from every false path.

You fear that you cannot persevere, that you might give back the gifts God gave you. But harken to this: He who began a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ. The life He bestows is eternal life, a gift that no man can pluck out of His hand. It is not your grip of Him but His grip of you that ensures final perseverance. Only take heed that you continue in the faith, grounded and settled, not moved away from the hope of the gospel. The covenant He makes with His people is everlasting; He will not turn away from them, to do them good, and He puts His fear in their hearts so that they shall not depart from Him. Your little faith may tremble, but His faithfulness is the immovable rock. In your wilderness journey, though you find no water and your soul thirsts, yet remember David’s cry: “O God, thou art my God; early will I seek thee.” Even in the desert, the shout of a King is among His people; the Lord of hosts is with us, the God of Jacob is our refuge.

Therefore, go forward in the strength of the Lord. Do not look to your own resolve, but to the grace that is in Christ Jesus. Continue to cry out to Him as you have done; the prevalence of the Canaanite woman’s faith lay in her refusal to let Him go, and Christ delighted to answer her at last. Your prayer is a raven’s cry in the ears of a compassionate Father, and He will supply your need according to His riches in glory. Work diligently, pray without ceasing, and for the sake of your soul and your household, put away the intoxicating cup. Seek fellowship with a faithful church, and let the means of grace be your daily bread. The battle is the Lord’s, and the victory is sure. Only believe, and you shall see the salvation of God.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 
You pour out your heart in prayer, mixing the burdens of work and marriage with a sincere faith that without Christ you can do nothing. That is the right foundation. Keep hold of it. For assiduity in prayer gains what even the apostles seemed unable to win, as that Canaanite woman showed by her persistence. God hears the one who does not give up. Yet I must speak plainly, because you ask for help and I desire your soul’s health.

Do not think that the Beatitudes are only for those who live apart from the world. Marriage is not an evil; it is honorable and pure. But the narrow path of virtue runs through every household, and you are called to follow it while living with a wife and working in the marketplace. The peril is not in marriage but in the drunkenness you both have permitted. Each of those things alone is enough to shut you out of the kingdom, as I have warned: “Some of us have even oftentimes been drunk.” You say your wife’s mind becomes strange when she drinks too much, yet you continue to drink as well. How then can you help her? You sleep in a separate room, not for purity’s sake but to avoid strife, while the root remains. That is not the holiness that preserves marriage; it is a truce with sin. If you would see your wife delivered, you must first show her a sober and repentant husband. Much perseverance, much endurance, much penitence is needed.

Pray for her without ceasing. The prayer of a righteous man avails much, but if you persist in the same sins, your own prayer is weakened. Do not say, “What need have I of others’ prayer?” You do need it, for we all do. Yet do not rely on the prayers of the saints while you yourself sleep. Be watchful. Cry out to God early and by night, before you go into the battle of the marketplace. The day is full of hidden rocks; prayer is the weapon that brings you through without shipwreck.

As for your work, do what is just and honest. You ask God to help you prepare the reports exactly as your boss demands, yet you suspect the profit margin is false. God cannot be enlisted to bless a deceitful business. If you must present the numbers truthfully, do so with wisdom and trust the outcome to Him. Do not wish to lose the job out of fear of hardship; rather, commit the matter to God and work with diligence. Let your “yes” be “yes,” and your labor be done as for the Lord, not for men. If you walk uprightly, He will defend you, as He said, “I will defend this city for my servant David’s sake.” Even in the face of unreasonable demands, the way of peace and holiness will keep your soul.

You are ###, and you have labored ### years. Do not grow weary now. The life of man upon earth is a trial, but the one who endures to the end shall be saved. You call on the archangel Michael as a helper, but know this: the angels are fellow servants; it is Christ alone who is your mediator and your strength. Go into your battles clinging to Him, not relying on any other. If you repent of the drinking, if you love your wife not with sentimental words but by leading her away from the wine that destroys your marriage, if you do your daily tasks with integrity, you will find that God gives the courage you asked for when you were young. He who gave you a wife and children will not abandon you now. Forsake the sins that entangle you, and with many prayers and supplications, press on. Then, not only for your own sake but for His glory, you will finish your course and enter rest with a true and sober love for the wife God gave you.
 

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