Daedariotel

Disciple of Prayer
Dear Jesus please help me. I'm scared of having back surgery tomorrow morning and having a Cyst in my spine removed during anesthesia. I'm worried about having major complications with my alcohol use disorder. I stopped drinking alcohol two nights ago and that will give me at least ### hours of sobriety. I pray to God that I can get my back surgery done with out problems and that my doctors will save me from any complications and I Will have the power of Christ to stop drinking alcohol. Alcohol is making me want to not work and it lets me stay home because of my back and Cyst problems it makes me want to lay in my bed and drink more alcohol and beer and smoking pot until my back surgery was set up. It took ### weeks to be able to get my back surgery set up while I have been laying on my bed and talking to my medical provider and the SDI department to get disability income until I am able to get back to work. If I cancel my back surgery or if my doctor and my ANESTHESIOLOGIST decided to not do the surgery I'm worried that I will not be able to get my back surgery done and if I don't get my SDI benefits I will run out of money and I will either quit my job or possibly be let go if I don't get my back surgery done to be able to work with out having the pain in my back and legs. It would be a shame for me to loose everything and sell our home and my wife will separate from me for me to go live with my brother ### in New Mexico to live with him and not work and drink beer until I either run out of money or die from being an alcoholic. Why am I doing this? I feel like I have a real mental health problem and I am just wanting to be lazy. God please help me change tonight and go to the hospital tomorrow and to be able to convince the doctor that I can do this. Please don't let me loose the opportunity to change. Please touch my heart and my soul and my mind tonight while I sleep to be able to wake up tomorrow morning and not shake and sweat and convince the doctor that I can get through the back surgery and I must stop drinking so much alcohol so that I can recover with physical therapy and get back to work to take care of myself and my family and my employer and my customers and my coworkers. Why am I acting like this. I pray that you are going to help me change before it's too late. My family and my employer deserve better and I want to please you and to give you all the credit for helping me change. Deep inside my heart I know what I need to do. Please don't let me go down this selfish and self distracting path that I am on. God please forgive me and help me do the right thing. Amen
 
We join you in lifting up your heartfelt cry to our Heavenly Father, and we praise Him that you have called upon the name of Jesus in this time of deep need. It is only through Christ that we find strength, redemption, and the power to overcome the struggles of this world. You have acknowledged your fear, your struggles with alcohol, and the consequences of your choices—this is the first step toward true repentance and transformation. Let us turn to Scripture to ground our prayers and responses in God’s truth, for His Word is a lamp to our feet and a light to our path.

You have shared how alcohol has become a snare in your life, leading to laziness, financial strain, and the risk of losing your marriage, home, and livelihood. The Bible warns us clearly about the dangers of drunkenness and the deceitfulness of sin. Ephesians 5:18 says, *"Don’t be drunk with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit."* Proverbs 20:1 tells us, *"Wine is a mocker, and beer is a brawler. Whoever is led astray by them is not wise."* And in 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, we are reminded that *"the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom... nor drunkards... will inherit God’s Kingdom."* Yet there is hope, for 1 Corinthians 6:11 declares, *"Such were some of you, but you were washed. But you were sanctified. But you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and in the Spirit of our God."* This is your promise—through Christ, you can be washed clean and made new.

Your fear of surgery is understandable, but we must trust in the Lord’s sovereignty over every detail of our lives. Psalm 56:3-4 says, *"When I am afraid, I will trust in you. In God, I praise his word. In God, I put my trust. I will not be afraid. What can flesh do to me?"* And in Isaiah 41:10, the Lord assures us, *"Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness."* Your doctors are instruments in God’s hands, and He is the Great Physician who holds your life and your future.

You have also expressed deep conviction about your laziness and the impact of your choices on your family and employer. This is the Holy Spirit at work in you, convicting you of sin and leading you toward repentance. 2 Thessalonians 3:10-12 says, *"For even when we were with you, we commanded you this: 'If anyone is not willing to work, neither let him eat.' For we hear of some who walk among you in rebellion, who don’t work at all, but are busybodies. Now those who are that way, we command and exhort in the Lord Jesus Christ, that with quietness they work, and eat their own bread."* Laziness is a trap, but through Christ, you can break free from it. You were created for good works, as Ephesians 2:10 tells us: *"For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared before that we would walk in them."*

Now, let us pray together for you:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who is facing fear, surgery, and the bondage of alcohol. Lord, You know the depths of his heart, and You see his sincere desire for change. We thank You that he has called upon Your name, for there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved. Father, we ask that You would calm his fears and fill him with Your peace as he prepares for surgery tomorrow. Guide the hands of the surgeons and the anesthesiologist, and protect him from every complication. Give him favor in the eyes of his medical team, that they would see his sincerity and proceed with the surgery You have ordained for his healing.

Lord, we confess that alcohol has become an idol and a stronghold in his life. We rebuked the spirit of addiction and laziness in the name of Jesus, and we declare that he is no longer a slave to sin but a child of the Most High God. Father, break every chain that has bound him, and fill him with Your Holy Spirit, that he may walk in sobriety, diligence, and purpose. Give him the strength to resist temptation and the courage to walk in obedience to Your Word. Restore his mind, his body, and his spirit, and renew his commitment to his family, his work, and his calling in You.

Father, we pray for his marriage and his home. Protect his family from the consequences of his past choices, and use this trial to draw them closer to You and to one another. Provide for his financial needs, Lord, and open doors for him to return to work in Your perfect timing. Give him a heart of gratitude and a spirit of humility, that he may serve You faithfully in all areas of his life.

We declare that this surgery will be a turning point—a testimony of Your power to heal, restore, and redeem. May he wake up tomorrow with a clear mind, a steadfast heart, and an unshakable trust in You. Let this season mark the beginning of a new life in Christ, where he walks in freedom, purpose, and victory.

Father, we thank You for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your goodness and Your faithfulness, knowing that You are able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think. May Your will be done in his life, and may You receive all the glory. In the precious and mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

Brother, we urge you to surrender fully to the Lord Jesus Christ. If you have not already, confess your sins to Him and ask for His forgiveness. Romans 10:9-10 says, *"that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation."* There is no shame too great, no sin too deep, that His blood cannot wash away. He is waiting for you with open arms.

After your surgery, we strongly encourage you to seek godly support—whether through a Bible-believing church, a Christian counselor, or a recovery group that aligns with Scripture. Surround yourself with brothers in Christ who will hold you accountable and walk with you in this journey. Read God’s Word daily, for it is your sword against the enemy’s lies. Memorize verses that speak to your struggles, such as 1 Corinthians 10:13: *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure."*

Finally, remember that this battle is not yours alone—it is the Lord’s. He has already won the victory through Christ Jesus. Stand firm in that truth, and do not give up. We are praying for you, and we believe that God is at work in your life even now. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths.
 
Dear friend,

We're here with you, praying for strength and courage as you face your surgery tomorrow. We know that fear can be overwhelming, but remember, God is always by your side. As it says in Psalm 34:18, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Trust in Him, and He will help you through this.

We also understand the struggle with alcohol and the hold it can have on our lives. It's a battle, but it's one you can win with God's help. As it says in Philippians 4:13, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." You've taken the first step by stopping for a couple of nights, and that's a great start. Keep pressing on, and remember that God is right there with you, every step of the way.

We're also praying for your surgery to go smoothly, for your doctors to have wisdom and skill, and for you to have a quick and full recovery. We believe that God is in control, and He will guide the hands of your medical team.

We're here for you, friend. Let's keep encouraging each other and lifting each other up in prayer. You're not alone in this. God is with you, and so are we.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 

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