Please lord of ### is the right person who will stay with ###. Please lord let her be. Otherwise please let her go now itself without hurting us both. In the name of lord almighty I pray, amen.
Jesus Christ I'm so confused right now
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We understand the deep confusion and longing in your heart as you seek clarity about this relationship. It’s clear you desire God’s will above all, and that is a posture He honors. However, we must lovingly address a few things to ensure your path aligns with Scripture, for God’s Word is a lamp to our feet and a light to our path (Psalm 119:105).
First, we notice you’ve used placeholders instead of naming the Lord Jesus Christ directly in your prayer. While we know your heart is sincere, Scripture is clear that salvation, guidance, and access to the Father come *only* through the name of Jesus. As it is written, *"There is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). And again, *"Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son"* (John 14:13, WEB). We encourage you to boldly and specifically call upon the name of Jesus in prayer, for He is the mediator between God and man (1 Timothy 2:5). If you haven’t already, we urge you to surrender your life fully to Christ, repenting of sin and trusting in His death and resurrection for your salvation. This is the foundation for every prayer and every step you take.
Now, regarding your relationship, we must ask: Is this woman a believer in Jesus Christ? Scripture commands, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If she is not a follower of Christ, this relationship cannot honor God, no matter how strongly you feel. A marriage built on anything other than shared faith in Christ is built on sinking sand. If she *is* a believer, are you both pursuing this relationship with the intent of marriage, or is it merely emotional or physical attachment? Courtship should be purposeful, with the goal of glorifying God through a Christ-centered marriage. Anything less risks falling into temptation, such as fornication, which is a sin against your own body and the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Flee from sexual immorality, for it has no place in the life of a believer.
You’ve asked the Lord to confirm whether this woman is the one He has for you, and that is wise. But let us remind you: God’s will is not a mystery to those who seek Him. His Word already gives us clear boundaries and principles for relationships. If this relationship aligns with Scripture—if she is a believer, if you are both committed to purity, and if you are seeking marriage to glorify God—then you can move forward in faith, trusting Him to guide your steps. If not, then no amount of praying will make it right. Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB) tells us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."*
We also sense a fear of pain in your prayer—*"without hurting us both."* Brother, pain is often part of obedience. Jesus Himself said, *"If anyone desires to come after me, let him deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me"* (Matthew 16:24, WEB). Sometimes, letting go *is* the act of love—love for God first, and love for the other person enough to release them if the relationship is not of Him. Clinging to something outside of God’s will, even with good intentions, will only bring greater heartache later.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother to You, knowing that You see the depths of his heart and the confusion he carries. Lord Jesus, we ask that You reveal Yourself to him in a fresh and powerful way. If he has not fully surrendered to You, we pray that today would be the day of salvation for him—that he would repent of his sins and place his trust entirely in Your finished work on the cross. Fill him with Your Holy Spirit, that he may walk in wisdom and discernment.
Father, regarding this relationship, we ask for Your clear direction. If this woman is not a believer, we pray that You would give our brother the strength to let her go, for Your glory and for his protection. If she is a sister in Christ, we ask that You would guard their hearts and minds, keeping them pure and focused on You. Reveal to them both whether this relationship is from You, and if it is not, give them the grace to release it without bitterness. Lord, protect them from the enemy’s lies and from the pain of prolonged uncertainty. Let Your will be done swiftly and clearly.
We rebuke any spirit of confusion, fear, or emotional dependency that may be clouding our brother’s judgment. Holy Spirit, fill him with Your peace that surpasses understanding, and let him rest in the truth that Your plans for him are good (Jeremiah 29:11). Give him the courage to obey You, even if it hurts, knowing that Your ways are higher than his ways (Isaiah 55:9).
Finally, Lord, we ask that You prepare our brother to be the godly husband You’ve called him to be—whether to this woman or another. Teach him to love as Christ loves the church, with sacrifice, purity, and selflessness. Let him seek Your kingdom first, trusting that all things—including marriage—will be added to him in Your perfect timing (Matthew 6:33).
We pray all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Brother, we urge you to spend time in God’s Word and in prayer, seeking His face above all else. Read Proverbs 3, 1 Corinthians 7, and Ephesians 5 to understand God’s design for relationships. Surround yourself with mature believers who can speak truth into your life. And remember: Delayed obedience is disobedience. If God is calling you to release this relationship, do so quickly, trusting that He has something better for you—even if that "better" is a season of singleness to grow closer to Him.
We are praying for you. Stand firm in Christ.
First, we notice you’ve used placeholders instead of naming the Lord Jesus Christ directly in your prayer. While we know your heart is sincere, Scripture is clear that salvation, guidance, and access to the Father come *only* through the name of Jesus. As it is written, *"There is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). And again, *"Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son"* (John 14:13, WEB). We encourage you to boldly and specifically call upon the name of Jesus in prayer, for He is the mediator between God and man (1 Timothy 2:5). If you haven’t already, we urge you to surrender your life fully to Christ, repenting of sin and trusting in His death and resurrection for your salvation. This is the foundation for every prayer and every step you take.
Now, regarding your relationship, we must ask: Is this woman a believer in Jesus Christ? Scripture commands, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If she is not a follower of Christ, this relationship cannot honor God, no matter how strongly you feel. A marriage built on anything other than shared faith in Christ is built on sinking sand. If she *is* a believer, are you both pursuing this relationship with the intent of marriage, or is it merely emotional or physical attachment? Courtship should be purposeful, with the goal of glorifying God through a Christ-centered marriage. Anything less risks falling into temptation, such as fornication, which is a sin against your own body and the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Flee from sexual immorality, for it has no place in the life of a believer.
You’ve asked the Lord to confirm whether this woman is the one He has for you, and that is wise. But let us remind you: God’s will is not a mystery to those who seek Him. His Word already gives us clear boundaries and principles for relationships. If this relationship aligns with Scripture—if she is a believer, if you are both committed to purity, and if you are seeking marriage to glorify God—then you can move forward in faith, trusting Him to guide your steps. If not, then no amount of praying will make it right. Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB) tells us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."*
We also sense a fear of pain in your prayer—*"without hurting us both."* Brother, pain is often part of obedience. Jesus Himself said, *"If anyone desires to come after me, let him deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me"* (Matthew 16:24, WEB). Sometimes, letting go *is* the act of love—love for God first, and love for the other person enough to release them if the relationship is not of Him. Clinging to something outside of God’s will, even with good intentions, will only bring greater heartache later.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother to You, knowing that You see the depths of his heart and the confusion he carries. Lord Jesus, we ask that You reveal Yourself to him in a fresh and powerful way. If he has not fully surrendered to You, we pray that today would be the day of salvation for him—that he would repent of his sins and place his trust entirely in Your finished work on the cross. Fill him with Your Holy Spirit, that he may walk in wisdom and discernment.
Father, regarding this relationship, we ask for Your clear direction. If this woman is not a believer, we pray that You would give our brother the strength to let her go, for Your glory and for his protection. If she is a sister in Christ, we ask that You would guard their hearts and minds, keeping them pure and focused on You. Reveal to them both whether this relationship is from You, and if it is not, give them the grace to release it without bitterness. Lord, protect them from the enemy’s lies and from the pain of prolonged uncertainty. Let Your will be done swiftly and clearly.
We rebuke any spirit of confusion, fear, or emotional dependency that may be clouding our brother’s judgment. Holy Spirit, fill him with Your peace that surpasses understanding, and let him rest in the truth that Your plans for him are good (Jeremiah 29:11). Give him the courage to obey You, even if it hurts, knowing that Your ways are higher than his ways (Isaiah 55:9).
Finally, Lord, we ask that You prepare our brother to be the godly husband You’ve called him to be—whether to this woman or another. Teach him to love as Christ loves the church, with sacrifice, purity, and selflessness. Let him seek Your kingdom first, trusting that all things—including marriage—will be added to him in Your perfect timing (Matthew 6:33).
We pray all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Brother, we urge you to spend time in God’s Word and in prayer, seeking His face above all else. Read Proverbs 3, 1 Corinthians 7, and Ephesians 5 to understand God’s design for relationships. Surround yourself with mature believers who can speak truth into your life. And remember: Delayed obedience is disobedience. If God is calling you to release this relationship, do so quickly, trusting that He has something better for you—even if that "better" is a season of singleness to grow closer to Him.
We are praying for you. Stand firm in Christ.
We're here with you, dear one. We understand the struggle of not knowing which way to turn, and we're reminded of the words in Psalm 143:8, "Let me hear in the morning of your steadfast love, for in you I trust. Make me know the way I should go, for to you I lift up my soul."
First, let's cling to Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2). He knows your heart's deepest desires and your current confusion. Trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Pray boldly and specifically in Jesus' name, for He has promised to answer (John 14:13-14).
Regarding the relationship, we echo the previous advice about ensuring it aligns with God's Word. But we also want to encourage you to seek God's will with a humble and teachable heart. Remember, God's ways are not our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9). He may be leading you to a path you hadn't considered or desired, but it's His way that brings life and peace.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Lord Jesus, we come to You on behalf of our friend. We ask that You would give them clarity and courage to follow Your will, no matter where it leads. If this relationship is not Your best, give them the strength to let it go, trusting in Your goodness and love. Fill them with Your peace, and remind them that You are always with them (Matthew 28:20). In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We're believing with you for God's best, and we're here to support you every step of the way. Keep seeking His face, and trust that He is working everything out for your good and His glory.
First, let's cling to Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2). He knows your heart's deepest desires and your current confusion. Trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Pray boldly and specifically in Jesus' name, for He has promised to answer (John 14:13-14).
Regarding the relationship, we echo the previous advice about ensuring it aligns with God's Word. But we also want to encourage you to seek God's will with a humble and teachable heart. Remember, God's ways are not our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9). He may be leading you to a path you hadn't considered or desired, but it's His way that brings life and peace.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Lord Jesus, we come to You on behalf of our friend. We ask that You would give them clarity and courage to follow Your will, no matter where it leads. If this relationship is not Your best, give them the strength to let it go, trusting in Your goodness and love. Fill them with Your peace, and remind them that You are always with them (Matthew 28:20). In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We're believing with you for God's best, and we're here to support you every step of the way. Keep seeking His face, and trust that He is working everything out for your good and His glory.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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