We hear the deep distress and spiritual burden in your cry for help, and we join you in lifting this before the Lord Jesus Christ, who alone is our Advocate, Redeemer, and Provider. Your pain is real—both the tangible struggle with your mother withholding your debit card and the spiritual torment tied to past words, fears of abuse, and the sense of unseen attacks. Let us address these matters with truth, prayer, and the authority of Scripture, for we know that *"the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds"* (2 Corinthians 10:4, WEB).
First, we must anchor ourselves in the truth that your salvation and standing before God are not determined by past sins, spoken words, or the accusations of the enemy. If you have repented of the utterance you regret from five years ago, know this: *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9, WEB). The blood of Jesus Christ has already atoned for that sin—it is *finished*. The enemy may try to dredge up condemnation, but *"there is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus"* (Romans 8:1, WEB). You are forgiven, and you must *reject* the lie that you deserve abuse or punishment for words spoken in the past. Jesus took that punishment on the cross. To believe otherwise is to undermine the sufficiency of His sacrifice.
Regarding the fear of physical abuse or the idea that verbal words from years ago justify harm now—this is not from God. Such thoughts are distortions from the enemy, who seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). The Bible commands us to *"be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour"* (1 Peter 5:8, WEB). Do not entertain these fears as truth. Instead, *"submit therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you"* (James 4:7, WEB). Speak aloud the truth of Scripture over yourself: *"The Lord is my helper. I will not fear. What can man do to me?"* (Hebrews 13:6, WEB).
As for the situation with your mother and your debit card, we urge you to approach this with wisdom, humility, and firmness in the Lord. *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18, WEB). However, this does not mean remaining silent about injustice. Proverbs 31:8-9 (WEB) instructs us to *"Open your mouth for the mute, in the cause of all who are left desolate. Open your mouth, judge righteously, and serve justice to the poor and needy."* If your mother is unjustly withholding what rightfully belongs to you, it is appropriate to address this calmly but directly. You might say, *"Mom, I need to discuss my debit card with you. It belongs to me, and I need access to it for [specific reasons]. Can we talk about how to resolve this?"* If she refuses to engage, you may need to seek wise counsel—perhaps from a pastor, a trusted elder in the church, or even legal advice if necessary. *"The wisdom of the prudent is to think about his way, but the folly of fools is deceit"* (Proverbs 14:8, WEB).
We are concerned by your mention of a "spirit of error" tied to describing the Bible three years ago, particularly regarding Proverbs and sharing a wallet. It is possible that guilt or confusion has led you to assign spiritual significance to coincidences or misunderstandings. The Bible warns us not to *"give place to the devil"* (Ephesians 4:27, WEB) by entertaining superstitious fears or attributing power to inanimate objects like lights. The Holy Spirit convicts of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8), but He does not bring confusion or torment. *"God is not a God of confusion, but of peace"* (1 Corinthians 14:33, WEB). If you sense spiritual oppression, put on the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18) and stand firm in prayer. There is no need to fear invisible spirits when *"he who is in you is greater than he who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4, WEB).
Lastly, we notice that while you invoke the name of Jesus Christ, there is a mix of gratitude and despair in your words. Remember that Jesus is not only your Savior but your *Lord*—the One who holds all authority in heaven and on earth (Matthew 28:18). You do not need to beg Him as though He is distant or reluctant. *"Let’s therefore draw near with boldness to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace for help in time of need"* (Hebrews 4:16, WEB). He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18), and He invites you to cast *all* your anxieties on Him (1 Peter 5:7).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother who is burdened by past words, spiritual oppression, and the unjust withholding of his belongings. Lord, we ask that You break every chain of condemnation and fear that the enemy has tried to place upon him. Remind him, by Your Spirit, that *"as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us"* (Psalm 103:12, WEB). Let him walk in the freedom and forgiveness purchased by the blood of Jesus.
We rebuke every spirit of confusion, torment, and accusation in the name of Jesus. No weapon formed against him shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and every tongue that rises against him in judgment shall be condemned. Lord, give him wisdom and courage to address the situation with his mother in a way that honors You. Soften her heart, Lord, and if there is any unresolved sin or bitterness between them, bring it to light so that repentance and reconciliation may take place. Provide for his needs, Father, whether through restored access to his account or another means—You are Jehovah Jireh, our Provider.
We also pray for his mind, Lord. Guard it with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Remove every superstitious fear and replace it with faith in Your sovereignty. Let him discern between conviction from the Holy Spirit and condemnation from the enemy. Fill him with Your Word, which is a lamp to his feet and a light to his path (Psalm 119:105).
Finally, Father, we ask that You surround him with godly community—a church that will support, disciple, and pray with him. Let him not walk this path alone but find strength in the body of Christ. We declare that *"the Lord will perfect that which concerns him"* (Psalm 138:8, WEB), and we trust You to bring justice, healing, and restoration in every area of his life.
In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Brother, we encourage you to meditate on these truths and to seek out a Bible-believing church where you can find support and discipleship. If you have not already, we urge you to surrender every area of your life to Jesus Christ—including your fears, your relationships, and your finances. He is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Stand firm in Him, and do not let the enemy steal your joy or your peace. You are more than a conqueror through Christ (Romans 8:37), and He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). We are standing with you in prayer.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
