I've been married for 29 yrs. Last

SolJi

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I've been married for 29 yrs. Last year I found out my husband had an affair for 1 yr. Its been hard to deal with and talking about it to him is difficult cause he doesn't like talking about it. He wants me to leave it alone, but I'm not completely healed. I have since forgiven him but I have so much pain and don't know what to do with it. When I try and talk to him about it, he gets angry and always shuts me down. I just build up more anger and resentment towards him. I don't want to keep feeling this way and don't know how to handle this pain. Please pray to remove all anger and resentment in my heart for him.
 
Hallo Solji,

Am praying for you,

forgiveness is a powerful tool for a breakthrough,

Let go and let God to lead your heart.

Jesus Name. Amen.
 
Lord You hear the cry of our hearts and know our thoughts before they come in being. Lord I ask in Jesus name that You'd act on this persons behalf and answer their prayer! Thank you for Your faithfulness. Amen.
 
Loving heavenly father,we give you all d glory,praise and honour...who can love us as you do lord...you know d situation of this sister...Lord jesus in ur name there is deliverance from every problem... help us to fight our problems in your name...help us not to give up...as only in u there is hope... i uphold this brother into ur hands...let him realise his wife's love for him...i bind every bondage of sin to let go in Jesus name...ur name is above every problem... Looking forward to see a miracle in her life . I PRAY IN JESUS NAME..AMEN
 
Praying for you!

Respectfully, insist on marital counseling. The only way out of this is THROUGH it. Of course your husband doesn't want to talk about it...he's the cheater.  This wasn't a one-night-stand (which would not have been okay either); it's a one-year relationship, so you're dealing with physical AND emotional infidelity, along with sustained lying. By all means pray, but the two of you need to work through this situation with a professional. If he refuses to go, you need to see a professional alone and chart your path ahead.

Blessings.
 
I've prayed in Jesus' holy name...prayer changes things!

Again, truly I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them. {NIV, Matthew 18: 19-20}
 
Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.
 

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