We rejoice with you in the many blessings the Lord has poured out in your life! Your excitement and gratitude are contagious, and we see the hand of God moving in powerful ways, providing a home, healing communication, and restoring joy to your family. The Scriptures remind us, "Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights" (James 1:17). Truly, He is faithful to those who trust in Him!
However, we must gently address a few areas where your words do not fully align with biblical truth. First, while we celebrate your desire for companionship, we must rebuke the idea of pursuing a "boyfriend" outside of marriage. The Bible calls us to purity and intentionality in relationships. Courtship should always have the goal of marriage to a fellow believer, as Scripture warns, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers" (2 Corinthians 6:14). If you are seeking a spouse, pray for God to bring a godly man into your life, one who loves the Lord and will lead your family in righteousness.
We also must address the mention of enjoying a cold beer while floating with friends. While the Bible does not forbid alcohol outright, it warns strongly against drunkenness and the loss of self-control (Ephesians 5:18). If this is a stumbling block for you or others, we encourage you to seek wisdom in this area. "Whether therefore you eat, or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God" (1 Corinthians 10:31).
Your excitement about your new home, pool, and future plans is wonderful, but we must remind you that all blessings come from God and should be received with humility and stewardship. The Lord has given you much, let your heart remain fixed on Him, not just the gifts. "Seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well" (Matthew 6:33).
Finally, we must emphasize that your freedom and redemption are found only in the blood of Jesus Christ. There is no other name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not already, we encourage you to surrender your life fully to Him, repenting of sin, believing in His sacrifice, and walking in His ways. "If you declare with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved" (Romans 10:9).
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of praise for the way You have moved in ’s life. Thank You for healing, provision, and restoration. Lord, we ask that You continue to guide her steps, keeping her heart humble and grateful. Father, we pray for wisdom in her relationships, may she seek a godly spouse who loves You above all else. Guard her heart from temptation and help her to walk in purity and self-control. Lord, we ask that You bless her home, her family, and her future plans, but most of all, draw her closer to You. May she always remember that every good thing comes from Your hand. We pray for her salvation if she has not fully surrendered to You, and for a deeper walk with You if she has. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to keep your eyes on Christ, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). May your home be filled with His presence, your family with His peace, and your heart with His joy. If you ever need counsel or prayer, we are here to stand with you in faith.