We hear the pain, frustration, and desperation in your words, and our hearts ache with you. The turmoil you describe, feeling targeted, harassed, and overwhelmed by forces you perceive as evil, is not something to dismiss lightly. The Bible tells us that we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12). Yet even in this, we must remember that our battle is not fought with bitterness, vengeance, or the language of the world, but with the armor of God and the authority of Jesus Christ.
First, we must address the mention of Jesus in your message. While you reference Him, there is a sense of resignation or even anger toward the idea of receiving blessings from Him, including a husband. But Scripture is clear: salvation and every good gift come through Christ alone (James 1:17, Acts 4:12). Jesus is not a distant figure or a tool to be used, He is the Savior who died for your sins, the Redeemer who offers true freedom, and the only One who can break every chain of oppression. If you have not fully surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so. Confess your sins, repent, and invite Him to be the Lord of your life. Only then can you experience the fullness of His protection, peace, and purpose.
The language of rebuke you use is powerful, but it must be grounded in the name of Jesus, not in anger or frustration. Jesus gave us authority to trample on serpents and scorpions and to overcome all the power of the enemy (Luke 10:19), but this authority is exercised in humility, faith, and alignment with God’s will. Rebuking evil is not about personal vengeance, it is about standing on the truth of God’s Word and declaring His victory over darkness. We pray that you would use this authority not out of exhaustion or rage, but out of a place of spiritual strength and dependence on Christ.
We also sense deep pain regarding relationships, past and present. The Bible is clear that sexual immorality, including fornication and adultery, is sin (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, Hebrews 13:4). If there are unresolved sins or wounds from past relationships, we encourage you to bring them before the Lord in repentance and seek His healing. God desires to restore you, not leave you in brokenness. If you have been hurt by others, we pray for justice and healing for your heart. But we also caution against allowing bitterness to take root, for it only harms you (Hebrews 12:15).
Regarding your family’s desire to leave the country, we understand the desire for safety and peace. However, we must remind you that our ultimate refuge is in God, not in a physical location. Psalm 46:1 declares, “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” Wherever you go, God is with you. If you feel led to relocate, seek His wisdom and guidance in prayer, asking Him to direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6). But do not place your hope in escaping a place, place your hope in the One who holds all things in His hands.
For your son, we pray for his protection and spiritual reset. The Bible tells us that children are a heritage from the Lord (Psalm 127:3), and we must cover them in prayer. If he is being influenced by ungodly forces, we stand with you in rebuking those influences in Jesus’ name. But we also encourage you to speak life and truth over him, to model a godly example, and to surround him with believers who can help guide him in the ways of the Lord.
Finally, we must address the tone of your message. While we understand the depth of your pain, the language of hatred, bitterness, and division does not align with the love and grace of Christ. Jesus calls us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). This does not mean we tolerate evil, it means we trust God to bring justice while we walk in His love. We encourage you to release your anger to Him and ask for His peace to guard your heart and mind (Philippians 4:7).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear sister and her family. Lord, we ask that You would surround them with Your protection and peace. Break every chain of oppression, every scheme of the enemy, and every lie that seeks to steal their joy and purpose. We rebuke in the name of Jesus every spirit of harassment, fear, and confusion, and we declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
Father, we ask for Your healing over past wounds, emotional, spiritual, and relational. Where there has been sin, bring repentance and restoration. Where there has been hurt, bring Your comfort and peace. Lord, we pray for this sister’s son, that You would draw him close to You, protect his mind and heart, and reset his spirit according to Your will.
We ask that You would reveal Yourself to her in a fresh and powerful way. Let her know that You are her refuge, her strength, and her deliverer. Help her to release bitterness and anger, and fill her with Your love and grace. If it is Your will for her to relocate, guide her steps and provide for every need. If she is to stay, give her the strength to stand firm in faith.
Lord, we also pray for those who have harmed her. Soften their hearts, turn them from their wicked ways, and draw them to repentance. Let Your justice prevail, but let it be tempered with mercy.
Above all, Father, we ask that You would be glorified in her life. Let her walk in the fullness of Your purpose, covered by the blood of Jesus and empowered by Your Holy Spirit. We declare that she is more than a conqueror through Christ who loves her (Romans 8:37), and we thank You for the victory that is already hers in Him.
In Jesus’ mighty name we pray, Amen.
