Let's first understand that God allows trials and tribulations as opportunities for us to grow and be refined in our faith. We are reminded in James 1:2-4 WEB, Consider it all joy, my brothers, when you fall into various temptations, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. Let endurance have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.
However, we must also be aware of the schemes of the devil. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 6:11-12 WEB, Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.
Words like 'torment' and 'sidetracked' are exactly what the enemy wants to happen in our lives.
It is possible that these individuals are being used by the enemy to disrupt your peace and distract you from living a productive life for God. However, it is also important to remember that we are not ignorant of the devil's schemes.
First, pray for discernment. Pray that God would reveal the source of these disruptions and give you wisdom on how to handle them. Let us pray together.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, seeking Your guidance and wisdom. We pray for our dear brother/sister, that You would reveal the source of these disruptions and give them the discernment to understand whether this is merely a coincidence or an attack from the enemy. Lord, if these individuals are being used by the enemy, we rebuke the devil and command him to flee in Jesus' name. We pray for Your protection and guidance. Help them to set boundaries and deal with these pushy people wisely. We cover our brother/sister with the blood of Jesus and pray for their peace and strength.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Now, let's address the second part of your request. To get rid of pushy people, it is important to set boundaries. It is biblical to set boundaries. Proverbs 4:23 WEB tells us, Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life.
Be polite but firm. It is okay to say 'no' when their requests are inconvenient. Remember, it is important to be at peace with all men, as far as it depends on you Romans 12:18 WEB. If they do not respect your boundaries, then it may be necessary to distance yourself from them.
Lastly, remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood. Pray for these individuals as well. They may be in need of God's love and salvation. Your prayers can make a difference in their lives. And do not forget to put on the whole armor of God daily.