Is being a deadbeat a sin?

I've heard about many others having this problem,and lately I experienced it a few times too. People who, ask for money from you, a presumed "loan", swear by everything they'll pay you back by a certain agreed upon time, then when the time comes, usually don't,or if you remind them, might give you a part payment, then borrow more alittle later, an amount that overrides the part payment.There seems to be an epidemic of this going around,like some worldly trend or something.It's like, everyone thinks it's "cool" to borrow, but when it's time to pay all of a sudden they're hard to find.Is this a sin? I would say on a few fronts. First , dishonesty.They shouldn't make an agreement with someone if they have no intention of keeping it. Besides, something you do to hurt another is a sin, and if the person was counting on the money back by a certain date, and they don't have it because the person "stiffed" them, their unreliability affected someone else. Also, it's disrespectful of the other person, they gain their trust enough to do it for them, instead of showing gratefulness and consideration for the favor, they spit on them by not keeping their word, and letting the other person come up short the amount. So I would say, it's a sin,if they really had no intention of paying back, and said they would, it's a lie,and if they changed their mind once they got their hands on the money, it's still dishonesty. Would you say what they're doing is sinful?{It's also robbery, because they took something that wasn't theirs and didn't return it.}{Oh, also, when the agreed date comes, they "hide out", you have to chase after them for it,after they gave their word.}
 
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Can you please let me know where this verse is in Bible?
Proverbs 3:27-28 New International Version (NIV)
27 Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due,
when it is in your power to act.
28 Do not say to your neighbor,
“Come back tomorrow and I’ll give it to you”—
when you already have it with you.

There is two more verses to clarify the same in the Bible.
 
Proverbs 3:27-28 New International Version (NIV)
27 Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due,
when it is in your power to act.
28 Do not say to your neighbor,
“Come back tomorrow and I’ll give it to you”—
when you already have it with you.

There is two more verses to clarify the same in the Bible.
If I decided to give them, and not as a loan but it was my decision as a gift, then if I wanted it back, I would be the one going back on my word. But that wasn't the conditions. THEY came to me,and agreed to pay back at appointed time, then when the time came didn't even give me the courtesy of explaining anything,I had to be left wondering. The main thing I don't like about their actions is not that I went broke,{didn't} but that they don't keep their agreements after promising.OK, found it!!Check out Romans 13:7-8, about owing noone anything.
 
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If I decided to give them, and not as a loan but it was my decision as a gift, then if I wanted it back, I would be the one going back on my word. But that wasn't the conditions. THEY came to me,and agreed to pay back at appointed time, then when the time came didn't even give me the courtesy of explaining anything,I had to be left wondering. The main thing I don't like about their actions is not that I went broke,{didn't} but that they don't keep their agreements after promising.OK, found it!!Check out Romans 13:7-8, about owing noone anything.

The meaning of that verse is not to be indebted to anybody. Holy Spirit stands in what He says and never keeps changing His words. It is we who misunderstand the word.
I know you are a God' s child and I'm sure that the Lord will lead you in this.
This is not to hurt you or to criticise you. I just quoted the Bible verses about what you had asked.
God bless you dear brother.
Please remember me in your prayers.
Thank you.
 
The meaning of that verse is not to be indebted to anybody. Holy Spirit stands in what He says and never keeps changing His words. It is we who misunderstand the word.
I know you are a God' s child and I'm sure that the Lord will lead you in this.
This is not to hurt you or to criticise you. I just quoted the Bible verses about what you had asked.
God bless you dear brother.
Please remember me in your prayers.
Thank you.
Ok, but then the verses about lying.Agreeing to something, and then not keeping it,and sometimes they know this in advance,but lie to get the money from you.So I asked the question if that was sin on their part. {I think it is.}
 
Ok, but then the verses about lying.Agreeing to something, and then not keeping it,and sometimes they know this in advance,but lie to get the money from you.So I asked the question if that was sin on their part. {I think it is.}

Do you realize that counting the sins of others is wrong, holding grudges etc? You are asking us to sin in agreeing with you! We all have sin Steven but yes if I told you that I would pay you back and I didn't that would be a lie but since we don't know the hearts of anyone who owes you money and since we don't know the circumstances we can't say if it was on purpose or not. All we can do is concentrate on you because you are the one posting. We are not picking on you but rather trying to set you free. Here you loaned money and didn't get it back so wouldn't it have been better to rather give the money as a gift, share Jesus and then not worry about it at all whatsoever?

There are at least many people on here praying for their finances so they can pay their iou's that you could be praying for yet you seem to be posting against them and yes even people who are owed money for their work that you could be praying for :)

Me, I pray for everyone because I owe my life to Jesus because He not only saved me from Hell but He also physically saved me!

What Jesus did for me, Jesus can do for anyone who does His instructions!

I have been told to give up on you by a few on here but you are still here, Jesus didn't give up on me and I won't give up on you! You don't stress me out, you don't annoy me, you don't bother me, you don't excite me! I am unaffected by you Steven! I simply love you as myself and I'm not afraid to tell you that you are wrong or right! I am your friend whether or not you are mine in, because of and through Jesus :)

I think you understand a lot more than you lead on my friend :)
 
Do you realize that counting the sins of others is wrong, holding grudges etc? You are asking us to sin in agreeing with you! We all have sin Steven but yes if I told you that I would pay you back and I didn't that would be a lie but since we don't know the hearts of anyone who owes you money and since we don't know the circumstances we can't say if it was on purpose or not. All we can do is concentrate on you because you are the one posting. We are not picking on you but rather trying to set you free. Here you loaned money and didn't get it back so wouldn't it have been better to rather give the money as a gift, share Jesus and then not worry about it at all whatsoever?

There are at least many people on here praying for their finances so they can pay their iou's that you could be praying for yet you seem to be posting against them and yes even people who are owed money for their work that you could be praying for :)

Me, I pray for everyone because I owe my life to Jesus because He not only saved me from Hell but He also physically saved me!

What Jesus did for me, Jesus can do for anyone who does His instructions!

I have been told to give up on you by a few on here but you are still here, Jesus didn't give up on me and I won't give up on you! You don't stress me out, you don't annoy me, you don't bother me, you don't excite me! I am unaffected by you Steven! I simply love you as myself and I'm not afraid to tell you that you are wrong or right! I am your friend whether or not you are mine in, because of and through Jesus :)

I think you understand a lot more than you lead on my friend :)
Let me question in a different way--asking as a question,not even judging--what about scams--those who KNOWINGLY swindle people out of money,and know beforehand, and do it to many?Would you say that's a wonderful thing to do, and defend them?
 
Ok, but then the verses about lying.Agreeing to something, and then not keeping it,and sometimes they know this in advance,but lie to get the money from you.So I asked the question if that was sin on their part. {I think it is.}

Of course it's a sin on their part but we have to forgive them. You know very well that the Lord expects it from us. They are answerable to God but on our part we are free.

Another thing is, it's written in proverb 3.27 -TO WHOM IT IS DUE. So it's better you assess the person and his situation as the Lord expects wisdom from us. He has asked us to be wise as serpents. Mathew 10.16
 
Of course it's a sin on their part but we have to forgive them. You know very well that the Lord expects it from us. They are answerable to God but on our part we are free.

Another thing is, it's written in proverb 3.27 -TO WHOM IT IS DUE. So it's better you assess the person and his situation as the Lord expects wisdom from us. He has asked us to be wise as serpents. Mathew 10.16
We are all God's children and let the love of Holy Spirit bind us together. In the mighty name of Jesus Amen.
 

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