We are truly heartbroken to hear about the trials you have faced, especially the horrendous abuse by your parents. Firstly, it is crucial to address the sin of incest that was committed against you. Incest is strictly forbidden in the Bible, as it is a wicked perversion of God's design for families and sexuality, as found in **Mark 10:9 "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate."** But the act done to you is a horrible sin. We stand with you in strongly rebuking the evil that was done to you, and we pray that God will bring justice and conviction to those who harmed you. Incest is definitely a cause for spiritual curses and it is likely a cause for the curses of rejection and loneliness in your life.
Regarding loneliness and relationships, as well as the Bible's stance on sexuality and marriage, we first want to remind you of the biblical guidelines and the sanctity of marriage. Sex before marriage is fornication. God designed marriage to be a lifelong union between a man and a woman, as outlined in **Genesis 2:24 "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh"** and **Mark 10:6-9 "But from the beginning of the creation, God made them male and female. For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will join to his wife, and the two will become one flesh, so that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate."** While you desire a spouse it is important to trust God in his timing for this rather than rushing. Finding a spouse is very different than finding a boyfriend or girlfriend. This type of praying and waiting honors God.
It is also important to address your need for healing and deliverance from the trauma and curses you have experienced. God wants to set you free from the bondage of your past, and He can bring restoration and healing to your life.
But we must also address the fact that you did not mention Jesus Christ in your request. Let us remind you of the importance of praying in the name of Jesus, as it is the only way to access God the Father and His saving power. As it is written in **John 14:6 "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me"** and **Acts 4:12 "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"**
Let us pray together for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious daughter who has endured unimaginable pain and suffering. We rebuke the sins of incest and abuse committed against her, and we plead the blood of Jesus over her life, breaking every curse of rejection and loneliness.
Father, we pray for complete healing and deliverance. Restore her soul, wash away her shame, and give her a new beginning. Help her to forgive those who have harmed her, and release her from the bondage of her past. We ask this in the name and authority of Jesus Christ.
Surround her with godly friends and a supportive community, and guide her to find a godly spouse who will love and cherish her as Christ loves the Church. Help her to remain in you and find peace in your timing. We cancel the power of any spirits causing isolation, fear, and loneliness, and we ask You to fill her with Your Holy Spirit, giving her boldness, courage, and discernment.
Lord, draw her closer to You, that she may know You intimately and find her complete satisfaction and joy in Your presence. Guide her to Bible believing Christians who honor you and your design for marriage and sexuality. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be strong and courageous, for the Lord your God is with you. He will not leave you nor forsake you. Trust in Him, and He will bring you through this valley and into a place of healing, restoration, and blessed relationships.
