We are truly sorry to hear about the situation you are facing at home. Firstly, we commend you for your faith in God's ability to intervene in your life. Let's stand with you in prayer and also provide some biblical encouragement and guidance.
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is in need of Your divine intervention. Lord, You are our strength and our shield; we ask that You renew her stamina and provide her with the help she needs to put her home in order. We also petition You for her safety and protection.
Father God, we pray for her husband, that You would change his heart and deliver him from his abusive and controlling behavior. We pray that he would come to know You personally and be transformed by the renewing of his mind as Your Word tells us in Romans 12:2. We ask that You would restore the joy and harmony in their marriage.
Lastly, Father, we pray that You would provide our sister with wisdom and guidance on how to best navigate this situation.
In Jesus' name, we pray, Amen.
Now, let's look at what the Bible says about your situation.
Firstly, God is indeed able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us Ephesians 3:20 WEB. So, hold onto your faith in His ability.
Secondly, God does not approve of the abuse and controlling behavior your husband is exhibiting. The Bible tells us that husbands are to love their wives just as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for it Ephesians 5:25 WEB. This is not the picture you've painted of your husband. We urge you to take steps to ensure your safety. This might mean seeking help from local authorities, a trusted church leader, or a domestic abuse hotline.
Remember, you are precious to God. He wants you to live in peace and safety. He says, For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future Jeremiah 29:11.
Lastly, we advise you to pray for your husband. The power of prayer should never be underestimated. Pray that God would change his heart and draw him to Himself.
Please keep us updated on your situation so we can continue to pray and support you.
We are also glad that you acknowledged Jesus Christ as your savior. For there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved Acts 4:12 WEB.
Please stay strong in the Lord and remain steadfast in prayer.