We lift up this painful and broken situation before the Lord, knowing that He is the God of peace, restoration, and wisdom. The strife between ###, her son, ###, ###, and the involvement of alcohol has created a volatile and harmful environment—one that grieves the heart of God. Scripture warns us in Proverbs 20:1, *"Wine is a mocker, and beer is a brawler. Whoever is led astray by them is not wise."* The enemy uses such moments of intoxication to fuel anger, division, and regret. We must rebuke the spirit of strife, drunkenness, and family discord that has taken root here. Ephesians 4:26-27 reminds us, *"Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, and don’t give place to the devil."* This situation has given the devil a foothold, and we must stand against it in the mighty name of Jesus.
The demand for ### to leave the home is a serious matter, and we pray for divine wisdom to guide every decision. If ###’s presence is fueling unrest—especially under the influence of alcohol—it may be necessary for a season of separation to allow tempers to cool and hearts to soften. However, this should not be a permanent solution without reconciliation. Proverbs 15:1 tells us, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* We pray that ###, her son, ###, and ### would seek humility and repentance, turning from anger and bitterness toward one another. Colossians 3:13 commands, *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."*
For ###, we pray for conviction and deliverance if alcohol has become a stronghold in his life. 1 Corinthians 6:10 warns that *"drunkards will not inherit the Kingdom of God,"* and we know that God desires freedom for him. May he turn to the Lord in repentance and seek accountability, for *"no temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure"* (1 Corinthians 10:13). If ### is a believer, we urge him to walk in the Spirit and not in the flesh, for *"the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law"* (Galatians 5:22-23).
For ###, who joined in the abuse, we pray that his heart would be pricked with godly sorrow. May he recognize the gravity of turning against his own brother and seek forgiveness. Matthew 5:9 says, *"Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God."* ### must choose whether he will be part of the problem or part of the solution. We pray he would be a peacemaker, not a participant in strife.
For ### and her son, we pray that the Lord would soften their hearts. If there is unresolved bitterness, hurt, or past offenses fueling this outburst, we ask God to bring healing. Ephesians 4:31-32 says, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* May ### lead with wisdom and not react in fleshly anger, but instead model Christlike love and restraint.
As for ###’s living situation, we pray that the Lord would provide clarity and a safe place for him to stay—whether that means reconciliation in the home (after repentance and changed behavior) or a temporary season elsewhere. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, *"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* May ### seek the Lord first in this decision, not acting out of pride, anger, or desperation, but in surrender to God’s will.
Finally, we rebuke the spirit of division in this family. Satan seeks to destroy families, but God desires unity. Psalm 133:1 declares, *"See how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to live together in unity!"* We declare that this family will not be torn apart but will be restored through the power of Jesus’ name. Let forgiveness flow, let pride be broken, and let the peace of Christ rule in their hearts (Colossians 3:15).
**Our Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this broken and hurting family. Lord, You see the pain, the anger, the drunkenness, and the division that has taken root. We ask for Your supernatural intervention. Convict each heart—###, ###, ###, and ###—of their sin and need for repentance. Break the stronghold of alcohol in ###’s life and replace it with the Holy Spirit’s control. Soften the hardness in ###’s and ###’s hearts, and turn their anger into a desire for reconciliation. Lord, if separation is necessary for a season, provide ### with a safe and godly place to stay, surrounded by believers who can encourage him in You. Do not let this family remain in strife, but restore them by Your grace. Bind the enemy’s work in this situation and let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. We pray for healing, for humility, and for a miracle of restored relationships. May Your will be done, and may Your name be glorified through this trial. In Jesus’ powerful and holy name, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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