I’m torn, I don’t understand this situation ...

[Hrofian]

I’m truly sorry to hear about the difficult situation you’re facing. It sounds incredibly challenging, and it’s understandable to feel torn and conflicted. Here are a few thoughts that might help:

1. **Self-Care and Support**: It’s crucial to prioritize your well-being and that of your children. Reach out to supportive friends, family, or a counselor who can provide emotional support and guidance.

2. **Legal Advice**: Consider seeking legal advice to understand your rights and options regarding custody and financial support. There may be resources available to help you navigate this process.

3. **Financial Assistance**: Look into local resources or organizations that offer financial assistance or support for single parents. They might be able to help with bills, rent, or other expenses.

4. **Education and Employment**: It’s great that you’re taking steps to re-qualify and pursue your career goals. Keep focusing on this path, as it can provide stability and opportunities for your future.

5. **Forgiveness and Boundaries**: Forgiveness doesn’t mean condoning harmful behavior. It’s about freeing yourself from the burden of anger and resentment. Setting clear boundaries with your husband is important for your peace of mind.

6. **Faith and Hope**: If you find comfort in faith, lean on your spiritual beliefs for strength and hope. Praying or meditating can provide solace during tough times.

Remember, you’re not alone, and there are people and resources out there to support you. Take things one step at a time, and be kind to yourself as you navigate this challenging period.

 

[Hrofian]

This is the time where a woman would want the support and affection of her husband. I know God has good reason for permanently removing him but it just hurts because I spent all these years with him and forgave him for all the things he did to me. This time he did something really bad I didn’t get back with him but I forgave him still and pray so much for him. I still carry the pain and frustration and it makes things more difficult. I guess part of me wants him to apologize to me and tell me he was wrong in hurting me but it shouldn’t matter to me.

 

[Hrofian]

I don’t want to cry anymore. I don’t want to feel this pain. Please take away this heartache, this trauma, this frustration.

 

[Brother James]

Praying with and for you in Jesus.

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

You can copy and paste this to pray every day and share...

There is nothing that happens for us that is bad. All things work for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing throughout your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will overflow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Matthew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirit Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[Brother James]

I’m torn, I don’t understand this situation I’m in. I did the right thing and I’m going through so much while my husband is able to live life as if nothing. He doesn’t have financial issues, he’s seeing someone else, he comes and goes as he pleases. I’m ### weeks pregnant and have been alone the whole time due to his errors he has cheated, gave me STIs, committed sexual assault and denies everything. How do I love him? Why can’t I just let go? He is the father of my children forever so I want him to do better and get help because the law doesn’t allow me to keep the children from him. I’m so conflicted and hurt. I had to quit my job that I loved. I never got my registry license because I was working to help out always putting my family first. Now I’m trying to re-qualify to take my exam and taking classes that I cannot afford begging my family for help because I need this to be able to afford my kids and provide. I don’t even have money to pay my bills or rent. My bank account is always on negative. My car is broken down and cost a lot to repair. I’m just not doing good in my life right now. I hope I can get through this quickly. I hope my husband doesn’t abandon his responsibilities because he’s focused on chasing women like always. After what he’s done I don’t even know why I want him to think of me. He never cared. All these years of hard efforts to my husband for nothing.

Read the book of Hosea in the Bible KJV for promises from God/Jesus for our marriages and our families. This brought my wife back to me more than once...

Pray this for yourself....

In Jesus put a hedge around my marriage, around my husband, turn away other lovers, restore us unto You and restore us unto each other in Jesus! All for Your Glory Lord Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

 

[MindOverMatter]

I’m very sorry to hear about your marital struggles, sister. I’m praying that God will bring healing and hope to your situation. May He provide the grace and strength you and your children need at this time. In addition, if you haven’t yet done so, it might be helpful to speak to a counselor. If you’re in the U.S., I know that Focus on the Family can provide a free phone consultation with a licensed counselor if you call this number ###-###-####. Blessings and peace to you and your family. Hang in there!

 

[Cimpal]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

I have prayed in Jesus' name that God will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

A Prayer For You: God I ask You in Jesus' name bless me with the desires of my heart that is the will of God for my life and the lives of those I pray for. God heal me totally in all areas of my life. Make me whole in You. Bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace, knowledge, wisdom, and love of Christ Jesus. Bless me with a deep and abiding love to read, listen to, meditate upon, study, and obey Your Word. God let Your Word dwell within me richly. So that I may come to know You better, love You more, and make You known. God help me, show me how, and bless me to have an ever-growing closer, stronger, more intimate relationship with You. God bless me and cause me to always think, act, and react with a God solution-focused heart, mind, attitude, and spirit. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God help me to always be aware and walk in the truth, faith, discernment, hope, and love of Your Word and presence in my life. God place Your angels all around me to cover and protect me from all sickness, evil, hurt, harm, danger, accidents, the plans of my enemies, and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God deal with all my enemies according to Your Word. God all that I have asked of You in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of this prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. And God please strengthen each of us to always walk in the character and habits of Christ Jesus. Let us all live our lives for Your glory and good pleasure. God forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. God Thank You for answering this prayer and Thank You for loving me. Thank You. Thank You. Thank You Lord Jesus. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach

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[RL San]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Hrofian]

I’m very sorry to hear about your marital struggles, sister. I’m praying that God will bring healing and hope to your situation. May He provide the grace and strength you and your children need at this time. In addition, if you haven’t yet done so, it might be helpful to speak to a counselor. If you’re in the U.S., I know that Focus on the Family can provide a free phone consultation with a licensed counselor if you call this number ###-###-####. Blessings and peace to you and your family. Hang in there!

Thank you