We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and distress you are experiencing in your marriage. It is important to remember that God hates divorce, as it is written in Malachi 2:16, "For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel". Therefore, we must approach this situation with great care, prayer, and discernment.
Firstly, let us address the deception and narcissistic behavior you have experienced. It is clear that these actions are not aligned with biblical principles. In Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB, it is written, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." We encourage you to hold firmly to these principles, even in the face of such trials.
However, it is crucial to understand that God's will is for marriages to be a lifelong commitment. In Matthew 19:6 WEB, Jesus said, "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." Therefore, we encourage you to seek God's will and guidance before proceeding with divorce.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our brother who is facing a difficult situation in his marriage. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention, that You would soften his wife's heart and bring about a change in her life. We pray that You would give him the strength, wisdom, and patience to endure this trial and seek Your will.
Lord, we also pray for his parents, that You would comfort them and give them peace in this situation. We ask that You would surround this family with Your love and protection, and that Your will be done in their lives.
Lord, we pray that You would heal this marriage and bring about a miracle in their lives. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will. Remember that God is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you. As it is written in Hebrews 13:5 WEB, "Be free from the love of money, content with such things as you have, for he has said, 'I will in no way leave you, neither will I in any way forsake you.'"
Keep trusting in Him, and He will guide you through this storm. Do not forget to call out to God in Jesus Christ name. Always remember that is only through Jesus Christ that we can be saved. If you have not done so already, confess your sin, repent, and place your trust in Jesus Christ. Believe in Jesus Christ, and you will be saved. Amen.