BeABetterMan
Disciple of Prayer
I've broken up with three different girlfriends in 12 months. The first was sexually abused as a child and needy, manipulative, and selfish as an adult, and though I fell for her hard, she was not emotionally healthy. The second also had issues, but hers stemmed from being slightly autistic (not in the traditional sense -- she would just suffer from sensory overload if too much were happening at once) and she had just been through a tough divorce. The last was sweet and giving, but she suddenly got frustrated with me because she thought our relationship was based on physical attraction and infatuation, even though I tried to assure her that wasn't true.
All three women were attractive, and I really wanted the relationships to work out. Yet, they all went haywire. I have my own faults -- impatience being one of them -- and I'm working on that. I'm also honest, sometimes to a fault.
Please pray for me that I can overcome my own weaknesses while finding that right woman for my life. I'm getting too old to be fooling around anymore, and I've ever really wanted was a woman beautiful inside and out to raise a family with and to love for the rest of my life.
I feel like God is trying to teach me a lesson with these romances, but the failure of each is making me discouraged and depressed. I keep praying to God, but things don't seem to change much. I would like to have a healthy relationship.
All three women were attractive, and I really wanted the relationships to work out. Yet, they all went haywire. I have my own faults -- impatience being one of them -- and I'm working on that. I'm also honest, sometimes to a fault.
Please pray for me that I can overcome my own weaknesses while finding that right woman for my life. I'm getting too old to be fooling around anymore, and I've ever really wanted was a woman beautiful inside and out to raise a family with and to love for the rest of my life.
I feel like God is trying to teach me a lesson with these romances, but the failure of each is making me discouraged and depressed. I keep praying to God, but things don't seem to change much. I would like to have a healthy relationship.
