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juj
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Please Lord just guide me and bless me. I love my boyfriend, but we are at odds with one another. I know that he loves me also. There is an age difference between us, me being older. He is very driven when it comes to work, and great with his finances and he can be so loving and kind. We just need to commmunicate and he needs to be a bit more patient with me and meet my needs halfway like he wants me to meet his. I know that he has a hard job and is very tired. I just want him to understand that i need him emotionally like i am there for him. I want him to realize that its not nagging and causing confusion with him when i speak to him how im feeling when he works so hard and i feel so lonely. I want him to understand that he should be meeting me halfway and take how im feeling s important to us. he tells me im pushing him away. i just feel that he is not hearing me and i just want him to hear me and understand without feeling like im finding fault in him. i'm just reaching out to him for some attention. I want him to listen to me as i open up to him about how i'm feeling. i don't want to lay blame as i open up to him. i don't want him to become defensive, but listen an internalize so that he can be willing to make changes for the good. its not just me, he needs to change as well in order for us to grow.
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