Maboisha
Prayer Partner
I'm so confused! I've written a few times about the man I'm in love with. We've had a flirty thing going on since March & have had several conversations & moments that really pointed to us starting a relationship soon! He has said & done several things last week that highly insinuate he's in love with me but maybe he's just scared (which he shouldn't be - I have not exactly been subtle about my feelings, which is highly unlike me)! All of the sudden, yesterday & the day before, he seemed so unresponsive. The day before yesterday, I didn't think too too much of it because he could've been busy. I was kind of bothered though by the fact that he liked 2 of the comments I wrote on his social media posts & loved a couple other people's comments. (That sounds silly but he has never done that before. He always loves my comments.) Most comments (by everyone, including me), he ignored that day. Yesterday, I sent him a message & some selfies showing him I was at the place where we met & I mentioned I visited with a mutual friend who works there. Usually when I tell him I'm there, we have a nice conversation & he
my selfies. This time, he put no reaction to the selfies & responded with 1 quick note to say that friend is awesome. (She's a good bit younger than us & has a boyfriend, but I found that comment to be odd, given that it's all he said.) I'm concerned that I'm scaring him off by doing too much on social media (I love all his posts pretty quickly after he posts them & comment on most), which I was trying to hold back on to some extent before, but thought it was ok after he posted several things online earlier in the week that made it look pretty clear that he's in love with me! There's only 1 other thing I can think of that would make him upset with me, but it's something silly that he knows I had no control over, so I don't think that would be it. My fun day yesterday was kind of brought way down by this! I couldn't fully enjoy the fun activities & I spent some time crying trying to figure out why there was such a flip in his behavior. It could honestly just be that he was busy or had something on his mind & he didn't realize he was being different. He has been known to be in his head before & not be quite himself, so it is possible. It's just concerning to me not knowing. I've prayed & prayed & prayed for the last few months about our whole situation. I know that God will answer my prayers with yes, no, or later & He will do whatever His plan is for me & it'll be what's best for me! I'm just at almost a breaking point as far as I just feel like I need him to hurry up & ask me out officially or break my heart! (I am emotionally in way too deep, which I didn't mean to, so it would be a major heartbreak, but if that's going to happen, I would rather it happen sooner than later! I mean, I know that I'd be ok if that's the case because if he's not the man God has planned for me, the one He does have in store for me must be beyond incredible because this man is beyond my wildest dreams amazing & absolutely perfect for me! I just really feel like he's the one!) Please pray for us both to have clarity, patience, peace, faith, & courage! I ask that you also pray that no matter what, this amazing man will be happy! Thank you so much for your prayers!
my selfies. This time, he put no reaction to the selfies & responded with 1 quick note to say that friend is awesome. (She's a good bit younger than us & has a boyfriend, but I found that comment to be odd, given that it's all he said.) I'm concerned that I'm scaring him off by doing too much on social media (I love all his posts pretty quickly after he posts them & comment on most), which I was trying to hold back on to some extent before, but thought it was ok after he posted several things online earlier in the week that made it look pretty clear that he's in love with me! There's only 1 other thing I can think of that would make him upset with me, but it's something silly that he knows I had no control over, so I don't think that would be it. My fun day yesterday was kind of brought way down by this! I couldn't fully enjoy the fun activities & I spent some time crying trying to figure out why there was such a flip in his behavior. It could honestly just be that he was busy or had something on his mind & he didn't realize he was being different. He has been known to be in his head before & not be quite himself, so it is possible. It's just concerning to me not knowing. I've prayed & prayed & prayed for the last few months about our whole situation. I know that God will answer my prayers with yes, no, or later & He will do whatever His plan is for me & it'll be what's best for me! I'm just at almost a breaking point as far as I just feel like I need him to hurry up & ask me out officially or break my heart! (I am emotionally in way too deep, which I didn't mean to, so it would be a major heartbreak, but if that's going to happen, I would rather it happen sooner than later! I mean, I know that I'd be ok if that's the case because if he's not the man God has planned for me, the one He does have in store for me must be beyond incredible because this man is beyond my wildest dreams amazing & absolutely perfect for me! I just really feel like he's the one!) Please pray for us both to have clarity, patience, peace, faith, & courage! I ask that you also pray that no matter what, this amazing man will be happy! Thank you so much for your prayers!
