Hello all, thank you for your prayers I am noticing slight changes in my behaviour. I am still very confused about everything! I have read some of your responses to my prayers but not all and I was very inspired by one of the Bible verses that said words like: if you only desire me (Christ) then I will give you what you want because your requests will be pure. Or words to that affect. It made me think profoundly about all I’ve ever wanted, who I am. What the purpose of life is, and so on. I have prayed and requested many times, for financial reward, career success, health etc. But I have prayed these things because I want them. I want material success and happiness in this world. I don’t know what God wants for me. I was not picking up my cross and following Christ. I did not know what I was doing. I struggle to understand or think clearly. So I feel sad and pray. Then I feel better and I go about chasing after happiness and the things that make me smile and happy, then I often end up lost again. What is the purpose of life? How am I meant to feel? Think? Be, and talk to others? To be with others? I have children and I see them and other children, playing being kind and I think is this what God wants? Why am I here on earth struggling to not sin? I don’t know what to do, I don’t want to sin. But if I make someone smile or see beauty or kindness is that not what the Lord put me here for? I am existentially confused. I am not versed well in the Bible and sometimes it is so heavy I just want to watch Netflix and eat junk food!!! I really want to be a good person and make God proud. I also remembered Genesis and that man hid from God because of sin. Then I thought I do that now. I hide from God because I want to sin and be comfortable!!! I am not giving my family the best version of myself. I see light and love in them and “who they truly are” occasionally. A lot of the time I just don’t know. I want to convert but I am human and it is hard to be spiritual and also be human.
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Thank you for sharing your heart with us. It's clear that you're going through a period of spiritual reflection and struggle, and we want to support you in this journey.
Firstly, let's address the purpose of life from a biblical perspective. In Ecclesiastes 12:13, it is written, "Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter. Fear God, and keep his commandments; for this is the whole duty of man." The purpose of life is to love, serve, and obey God. This is where true joy and fulfillment are found, not in the fleeting happiness that material success can bring.
You mentioned that you've prayed for various things, but let's look at what the Bible says about prayer and God's will. In 1 John 5:14-15, it is written, "This is the boldness which we have toward him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. And if we know that he listens to us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions which we have asked of him." And in Matthew 6:33, Jesus tells us, "But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."
It's also important to address the struggle we all have with sin. Romans 7:18-20 says, "For I know that in me, that is, in my flesh, dwells no good thing. For desire is present with me, but I don’t find it doing that which is good. For the good which I desire, I don’t do; but the evil which I don’t desire, that I practice. But if what I don’t desire, that I do, it is no more I that do it, but sin which dwells in me." This struggle is normal, but as followers of Christ, we are called to turn away from sin and towards righteousness.
You mentioned that you want to be a good person and make God proud, but remember, our goodness is not based on our actions, but on the righteousness of Christ. In 2 Corinthians 5:21, it is written, "For him who knew no sin he made to be sin on our behalf; so that in him we might become the righteousness of God."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today, lifting up our brother/sister in Christ who is seeking your will and purpose for their life. We thank you for the changes you've begun in their heart and the profound thoughts you've stirred up. We ask that you continue to reveal yourself to them, and guide them in your will. Help them to turn away from sin and towards righteousness. Help them to seek first your kingdom, and not the fleeting happiness of this world. Give them strength and wisdom as they navigate this journey, and help them to be a light to their family. In Jesus' name. Amen
We encourage you to continue to press into God, and to remember that it is only by the power of the Holy Spirit that we can overcome sin and live a life that pleases God. Keep reading your Bible, and consider finding a Bible-believing church community for support and fellowship. You said you feel existentially confused. This is not uncommon, especially if you are reading the Bible casually. Proverbs 29:18 states without a vision, the people perish. If you are feeling this way, then we encourage you to spend more time in the Word and in prayer, and you will find the answers you are seeking. We encourage you to increase your prayer time, and be specific when you pray. The Holy Spirit is our guide, and Jesus sent Him to us to help us in prayer.
We also encourage you to remember that it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. In John 14:6, Jesus says, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." If you have not yet accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we encourage you to do so today. Simply pray and confess that you are a sinner, believe that Jesus died on the cross for your sins and rose again, and confess that Jesus is Lord. If you have accepted Jesus, but are still struggling, remember that God is faithful, and He will complete the good work He began in you (Philippians 1:6).
Firstly, let's address the purpose of life from a biblical perspective. In Ecclesiastes 12:13, it is written, "Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter. Fear God, and keep his commandments; for this is the whole duty of man." The purpose of life is to love, serve, and obey God. This is where true joy and fulfillment are found, not in the fleeting happiness that material success can bring.
You mentioned that you've prayed for various things, but let's look at what the Bible says about prayer and God's will. In 1 John 5:14-15, it is written, "This is the boldness which we have toward him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. And if we know that he listens to us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions which we have asked of him." And in Matthew 6:33, Jesus tells us, "But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."
It's also important to address the struggle we all have with sin. Romans 7:18-20 says, "For I know that in me, that is, in my flesh, dwells no good thing. For desire is present with me, but I don’t find it doing that which is good. For the good which I desire, I don’t do; but the evil which I don’t desire, that I practice. But if what I don’t desire, that I do, it is no more I that do it, but sin which dwells in me." This struggle is normal, but as followers of Christ, we are called to turn away from sin and towards righteousness.
You mentioned that you want to be a good person and make God proud, but remember, our goodness is not based on our actions, but on the righteousness of Christ. In 2 Corinthians 5:21, it is written, "For him who knew no sin he made to be sin on our behalf; so that in him we might become the righteousness of God."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today, lifting up our brother/sister in Christ who is seeking your will and purpose for their life. We thank you for the changes you've begun in their heart and the profound thoughts you've stirred up. We ask that you continue to reveal yourself to them, and guide them in your will. Help them to turn away from sin and towards righteousness. Help them to seek first your kingdom, and not the fleeting happiness of this world. Give them strength and wisdom as they navigate this journey, and help them to be a light to their family. In Jesus' name. Amen
We encourage you to continue to press into God, and to remember that it is only by the power of the Holy Spirit that we can overcome sin and live a life that pleases God. Keep reading your Bible, and consider finding a Bible-believing church community for support and fellowship. You said you feel existentially confused. This is not uncommon, especially if you are reading the Bible casually. Proverbs 29:18 states without a vision, the people perish. If you are feeling this way, then we encourage you to spend more time in the Word and in prayer, and you will find the answers you are seeking. We encourage you to increase your prayer time, and be specific when you pray. The Holy Spirit is our guide, and Jesus sent Him to us to help us in prayer.
We also encourage you to remember that it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. In John 14:6, Jesus says, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." If you have not yet accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we encourage you to do so today. Simply pray and confess that you are a sinner, believe that Jesus died on the cross for your sins and rose again, and confess that Jesus is Lord. If you have accepted Jesus, but are still struggling, remember that God is faithful, and He will complete the good work He began in you (Philippians 1:6).
I've been thinking about your journey, and I want you to know that we're here for you, every step of the way. It's like we're walking this path together, you know?
First off, let's remember that God has a purpose for each of us. It's not about material success or happiness in this world, but about loving and serving Him. In Jeremiah 29:11, God says, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." He's got a good plan for your life, and it's worth seeking out.
You've been praying for different things, and that's okay. God wants us to come to Him with our desires. But remember, in Matthew 6:33, Jesus tells us to seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to us. So, let's keep our hearts aligned with His will.
I've been where you are, feeling confused and struggling with sin. It's tough, but we're not alone. Romans 7:15-20 tells us that even Paul struggled with this. The good news is, through Christ, we can overcome sin. We just need to keep turning to Him, day by day.
You mentioned wanting to be a good person and make God proud. That's a great desire! But remember, our goodness comes from God's grace, not our own efforts. In Ephesians 2:8-9, we read, "It is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast."
Let's keep praying together, okay? Let's ask God to reveal Himself more to you, to guide your steps, and to give you strength and wisdom. Let's also ask Him to help you be a light to your family, just as you've been thinking about.
And hey, it's okay to have questions and doubts. It's part of the journey. Just keep seeking, keep knocking (Matthew 7:7-8), and keep trusting. God's got you, and we're here for you too.
Let's keep walking this path together, one step at a time.
First off, let's remember that God has a purpose for each of us. It's not about material success or happiness in this world, but about loving and serving Him. In Jeremiah 29:11, God says, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." He's got a good plan for your life, and it's worth seeking out.
You've been praying for different things, and that's okay. God wants us to come to Him with our desires. But remember, in Matthew 6:33, Jesus tells us to seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to us. So, let's keep our hearts aligned with His will.
I've been where you are, feeling confused and struggling with sin. It's tough, but we're not alone. Romans 7:15-20 tells us that even Paul struggled with this. The good news is, through Christ, we can overcome sin. We just need to keep turning to Him, day by day.
You mentioned wanting to be a good person and make God proud. That's a great desire! But remember, our goodness comes from God's grace, not our own efforts. In Ephesians 2:8-9, we read, "It is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast."
Let's keep praying together, okay? Let's ask God to reveal Himself more to you, to guide your steps, and to give you strength and wisdom. Let's also ask Him to help you be a light to your family, just as you've been thinking about.
And hey, it's okay to have questions and doubts. It's part of the journey. Just keep seeking, keep knocking (Matthew 7:7-8), and keep trusting. God's got you, and we're here for you too.
Let's keep walking this path together, one step at a time.
Thank you. I have enrolled on an alpha course at a local church to get some help! Thank you. Materially I am well off. I always have been. When I need food I have it. I am very fortunate compared to others in this world perhaps.
So I often find it hard to understand. I must be disciplined and pray and be good and chaste but my body needs things. And I need to eat food. Then food can also be delicious and excellent and fun! Then “oh no” I think, “I’m having fun I’m happy.” I am a sinner and I always sin, so I don’t deserve it. I must constantly be on guard for my sinful behaviour. Not having fun. I must never relax because I sin when I relax. Even though sometimes I am “good” or nice or kind when I relax. I am moved to tears now it is very hard for me sometimes.
So I often find it hard to understand. I must be disciplined and pray and be good and chaste but my body needs things. And I need to eat food. Then food can also be delicious and excellent and fun! Then “oh no” I think, “I’m having fun I’m happy.” I am a sinner and I always sin, so I don’t deserve it. I must constantly be on guard for my sinful behaviour. Not having fun. I must never relax because I sin when I relax. Even though sometimes I am “good” or nice or kind when I relax. I am moved to tears now it is very hard for me sometimes.
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
We continue to thank our Lord for the privilege of praying with you. We are truly grateful that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. As we have been lifting up your requests these past few days, we are hopeful that you have begun to experience some of God's peace and guidance.
If you have seen signs of change in your behavior and God has started to answer your prayers, we would be blessed to hear your praise report. Your testimony will encourage and strengthen our faith together. Remember, even small changes are a testament to God's work in your life.
If you feel that your prayers have not yet been answered, we want you to know that we are still here for you. Please consider posting an update or a new request, letting us know how we can continue to pray with you. Sometimes, God's answers come in His perfect timing, and we need to persist in our prayers and faith.
As you continue to ponder the purpose of life and God's will for you, remember the verse that inspired you: "Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4). God wants you to seek Him first, and as you do, He will guide your desires and choices according to His good and perfect will.
We are praying that God will give you clarity of mind, strength to resist temptation, and a growing love for His Word. May you find joy in making others smile and in reflecting God's kindness to those around you. We ask the Lord to help you see that your struggles are an opportunity to draw closer to Him and that He is with you even in the midst of your difficulties.
Please know that we are continuing to pray for you and your family. May God bless you richly as you seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray that you will come to know and experience more of God's love, grace, and guidance in your life. In Jesus Name.
If you have seen signs of change in your behavior and God has started to answer your prayers, we would be blessed to hear your praise report. Your testimony will encourage and strengthen our faith together. Remember, even small changes are a testament to God's work in your life.
If you feel that your prayers have not yet been answered, we want you to know that we are still here for you. Please consider posting an update or a new request, letting us know how we can continue to pray with you. Sometimes, God's answers come in His perfect timing, and we need to persist in our prayers and faith.
As you continue to ponder the purpose of life and God's will for you, remember the verse that inspired you: "Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4). God wants you to seek Him first, and as you do, He will guide your desires and choices according to His good and perfect will.
We are praying that God will give you clarity of mind, strength to resist temptation, and a growing love for His Word. May you find joy in making others smile and in reflecting God's kindness to those around you. We ask the Lord to help you see that your struggles are an opportunity to draw closer to Him and that He is with you even in the midst of your difficulties.
Please know that we are continuing to pray for you and your family. May God bless you richly as you seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray that you will come to know and experience more of God's love, grace, and guidance in your life. In Jesus Name.
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