Idk how much of this I can take
We understand the deep pain and confusion you’re experiencing, and we want to lift you up in prayer with both truth and compassion. First, we notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, and we must gently but firmly remind you that there is no other name under heaven by which we can approach the Father or receive salvation. As Scripture declares, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). It is only through Him that our prayers are heard, and it is in His name that we find true peace and direction. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so—repent of your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and invite Him to reign in your heart. Without this foundation, no relationship, no matter how deeply felt, will bring lasting fulfillment.
Now, regarding the woman in your life, we must address this with biblical clarity. The longing you describe reveals how deeply you care, but we are called to examine all things through the lens of Scripture. If this relationship is not centered on Christ—or worse, if it is outside of God’s design for marriage between one man and one woman in covenant before Him—then what you feel may be an emotional attachment rather than a godly love. The Bible warns us not to be *"unequally yoked with unbelievers"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB), for such relationships pull us away from God’s will and lead to heartache. If this woman is not a believer or if this relationship is built on anything other than a pursuit of godly marriage, it is not from the Lord, no matter how strong the emotions.
Fornication (sex outside of marriage) and emotional entanglements that dishonor God only bring bondage. Jesus said, *"If anyone desires to come after me, let him deny himself, take up his cross daily, and follow me"* (Luke 9:23, WEB). This includes surrendering even our deepest desires to His lordship. If this love is not from God—if it is rooted in lust, idolatry, or disobedience—then we must pray for its removal, no matter how painful that may feel in the moment. The Lord promises that *"no temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it"* (1 Corinthians 10:13, WEB).
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother who is weary and burdened by the weight of his emotions. Lord, we ask that You reveal the truth about this relationship—whether it is from You or not. If this woman is not Your will for his life, we pray that You would remove her completely, severing every ungodly tie and breaking every emotional stronghold that is not of You. Father, if his love for her is not rooted in Your purpose, we ask that You would uproot it from his heart, no matter how painful the process may be. Fill the void with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear and confusion.
We rebuke any spirit of idolatry, lust, or emotional dependency that has taken hold, and we declare that our brother’s heart belongs to You alone. Give him the strength to surrender this relationship entirely to You, trusting that Your plans for him are good, even when they require sacrifice. If there has been sin—whether in thought, word, or deed—we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing through the blood of Jesus. Restore him, Lord, and redirect his affections toward You first and foremost.
If it is Your will for him to be married, we pray that You would prepare a godly wife for him—a woman who loves You with all her heart and who will walk beside him in faith. But until that time, grant him the grace to wait on You, to seek Your kingdom above all else, and to find his satisfaction in You alone. Strengthen him, Lord, and let him know that You are near to the brokenhearted. In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Brother, we encourage you to spend time in God’s Word daily, especially in Psalms and the Gospels, where you will find comfort and direction. Surround yourself with godly believers who can speak truth into your life and hold you accountable. Remember that *"the Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). This season of pain can be a refining fire if you surrender it to Him. Stay steadfast, and do not lose hope—God’s ways are higher than ours, and His love for you is deeper than any human affection. Trust Him, even when it hurts.
Now, regarding the woman in your life, we must address this with biblical clarity. The longing you describe reveals how deeply you care, but we are called to examine all things through the lens of Scripture. If this relationship is not centered on Christ—or worse, if it is outside of God’s design for marriage between one man and one woman in covenant before Him—then what you feel may be an emotional attachment rather than a godly love. The Bible warns us not to be *"unequally yoked with unbelievers"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB), for such relationships pull us away from God’s will and lead to heartache. If this woman is not a believer or if this relationship is built on anything other than a pursuit of godly marriage, it is not from the Lord, no matter how strong the emotions.
Fornication (sex outside of marriage) and emotional entanglements that dishonor God only bring bondage. Jesus said, *"If anyone desires to come after me, let him deny himself, take up his cross daily, and follow me"* (Luke 9:23, WEB). This includes surrendering even our deepest desires to His lordship. If this love is not from God—if it is rooted in lust, idolatry, or disobedience—then we must pray for its removal, no matter how painful that may feel in the moment. The Lord promises that *"no temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it"* (1 Corinthians 10:13, WEB).
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother who is weary and burdened by the weight of his emotions. Lord, we ask that You reveal the truth about this relationship—whether it is from You or not. If this woman is not Your will for his life, we pray that You would remove her completely, severing every ungodly tie and breaking every emotional stronghold that is not of You. Father, if his love for her is not rooted in Your purpose, we ask that You would uproot it from his heart, no matter how painful the process may be. Fill the void with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear and confusion.
We rebuke any spirit of idolatry, lust, or emotional dependency that has taken hold, and we declare that our brother’s heart belongs to You alone. Give him the strength to surrender this relationship entirely to You, trusting that Your plans for him are good, even when they require sacrifice. If there has been sin—whether in thought, word, or deed—we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing through the blood of Jesus. Restore him, Lord, and redirect his affections toward You first and foremost.
If it is Your will for him to be married, we pray that You would prepare a godly wife for him—a woman who loves You with all her heart and who will walk beside him in faith. But until that time, grant him the grace to wait on You, to seek Your kingdom above all else, and to find his satisfaction in You alone. Strengthen him, Lord, and let him know that You are near to the brokenhearted. In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Brother, we encourage you to spend time in God’s Word daily, especially in Psalms and the Gospels, where you will find comfort and direction. Surround yourself with godly believers who can speak truth into your life and hold you accountable. Remember that *"the Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). This season of pain can be a refining fire if you surrender it to Him. Stay steadfast, and do not lose hope—God’s ways are higher than ours, and His love for you is deeper than any human affection. Trust Him, even when it hurts.
We're here for you, friend. We've been where you are, feeling like your heart's being pulled in different directions. It's tough, we know. But remember, Jesus is right there with you, every step of the way.
We've been praying for you, asking God to reveal what's truly from Him in this situation. We've asked Him to remove anything that's not from Him, whether it's a person or a feeling. We're trusting that He's got a plan, even when it's hard to see.
We want to encourage you, just as we've been encouraged in times like these. It's okay to feel confused, to feel hurt. It's part of being human. But remember, God is faithful. He won't let you face more than you can handle. He's always there, ready to help you through.
Keep seeking Him, keep talking to Him. Read His Word, spend time with people who love and support you. And most importantly, trust Him. He's got you, no matter what.
We've been praying for you, asking God to reveal what's truly from Him in this situation. We've asked Him to remove anything that's not from Him, whether it's a person or a feeling. We're trusting that He's got a plan, even when it's hard to see.
We want to encourage you, just as we've been encouraged in times like these. It's okay to feel confused, to feel hurt. It's part of being human. But remember, God is faithful. He won't let you face more than you can handle. He's always there, ready to help you through.
Keep seeking Him, keep talking to Him. Read His Word, spend time with people who love and support you. And most importantly, trust Him. He's got you, no matter what.
Isaac Samuel Lubwama
Good and Faithful Servant
Praying for this in Jesus Name.
EnricoLange
Beloved of All
Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.
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