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Pankaj
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I was in a relationship with my girlfriend Jyoti for last past 3 years with whom I got married last month. Our relation has been a special one despite some ups and downs. I love and care for her so much that I can’t pen in words. She is a good girl but she gives up under pressure and takes one sided decisions. Last year, when we were working together, she broke off relation with me and left the organization. I was on the verge of a nervous break-down and tried hard to convince her but she was unmoved. I lost my love, job and senses and then I was forced to turn to Lord Jesus. I prayed a lot for us and eventually she realized her mistake and came back in my life which I unconditionally accepted. Things were going really good until this June when her family came to know about our relation. She was confined to her house and pressurized to get marry elsewhere. However, she either wanted me or none because she used to say that she has a close shave with death when she broke off with me and was forced to live all alone. She left everything and came to my house twice but I could not take any step due to certain reasons. However, she again came to me on 10th Sept and this time I gladly accepted her. We got married on 13th Sept and future looked bright. We had some arguments because she wanted me to forgive her parents. I consider myself in no authority to forgive anyone and assured her that elders will sort out everything. But she kept pressurizing me to open contacts with her family to which I was little circumspect viewing their negative influence on our relation of late. She was finding hard to adjust with my mother because of cultural and communication gap. I assured her things will be fine soon. On 30th Sept, she was very disturbed and complained about my mother’s behavior to which I told her I won’t say anything to my mother because she is not well. I left the house for market to meet my friends and when I came back she left our home uninformed. I filled a missing complaint in police to which her family alleged torture by my mother. It is been two weeks that we are not in contact and I am missing her a lot. Lord Jesus, I ask forgiveness for my sins and mistakes and have forgiven my wife. Holy Bible says man and woman are one and no one should separate them. Rabbi, please heal my wife’s emotions and assure her of my love and feelings. May God bless all, Amen!!!
Pankaj Panghal
Pankaj Panghal
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