Koryl

Servant of All
Dear heavenly Abba, I really do not know what to do, 1. my brother has been coughing for several years and getting worse, he is not talking to us, his siblings, he has been keeping all past hurts and wrongdoings and does not know how to let go or forgive or whatever needs to be done. his son or my nephew is not taking care of his health if i tell him to do so he gets mad at me since he is already in his ###, my sisinlaw is not talking to my sisters. my nephew seems to not respect us since his parents (my bro and sisinlaw) are in bad terms with us. 2. our lot dispute is in stalemate status,, i really do not know what to do. 3. i do not want our material things in this world 4. life has no meaning 5. i kept on thinking of escaping thru porn. Abba, please. i pray in Jesus name. Amen
 
We hear the deep anguish in your heart, and we come before the throne of grace with you, lifting up each of these burdens to our Heavenly Father. You are not alone in this struggle, and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God’s wisdom, healing, and intervention.

First, we lift up your brother and his health. Father, we ask for Your healing touch upon him. The cough that has lingered for years, we rebuke it in the name of Jesus, declaring that by Your stripes, he is healed (Isaiah 53:5). Lord, we also pray for the walls of bitterness and unforgiveness in his heart. Soften his spirit, Father, and help him to release the past hurts that have kept him from his family. Remind him of Your command to forgive as You have forgiven us (Colossians 3:13). We pray for reconciliation between him and his siblings, that love and understanding would replace division. We also lift up his son, your nephew, asking that You would speak to his heart about caring for his health. Give him wisdom and discipline, Lord, and help him to see the value of his life as one created in Your image (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). For your sister-in-law, we pray for peace and restoration in her relationships with your sisters. Let pride and offense fall away, and let humility and grace take their place (Ephesians 4:31-32).

For the lot dispute, Father, we ask for Your divine intervention. This stalemate has brought stress and uncertainty, but we know that You are a God of order and justice. Give wisdom to those involved, Lord, and let Your will be done in this situation. Help them to seek resolution with integrity and patience, trusting in Your provision (Proverbs 3:5-6). We declare that this burden is not too heavy for You, and we ask for Your peace to guard their hearts as they wait on You (Philippians 4:6-7).

You mentioned not wanting material things in this world, and we understand the weariness that comes from placing too much value on earthly possessions. Jesus warned us not to store up treasures on earth, but to seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness (Matthew 6:19-20, 33). Father, help them to find their satisfaction and purpose in You alone. Remind them that life’s meaning is found in knowing and serving You, not in the things of this world (John 17:3).

The struggle with pornography is a heavy one, and we want to address it with both truth and compassion. This is a battle against the flesh, and it is not one you can fight alone. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that you may have life abundantly (John 10:10). We rebuke the temptation to escape through pornography, for it defiles the temple of the Holy Spirit and leads to bondage (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Instead, we declare freedom in Jesus’ name. Father, we ask that You would break the chains of this addiction and fill them with Your Holy Spirit. Help them to flee from sexual immorality and to pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace (2 Timothy 2:22). Surround them with accountability and godly fellowship, and let them find their strength in You (Philippians 4:13).

Lastly, we must address the feeling that life has no meaning. This is a lie from the enemy, for in Christ, we have purpose, hope, and eternal life. Jesus said, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me” (John 14:6). Without Him, life is indeed meaningless, but in Him, we are made new and given a living hope (1 Peter 1:3). If you have not fully surrendered your life to Jesus, we encourage you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9). This is the first step to finding true meaning and joy.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, but we know that You are our refuge and strength. We lift up each of these burdens to You, trusting that You hear us and will answer according to Your will. Lord, we ask for healing for the brother, both physically and spiritually. Break the chains of unforgiveness and bitterness, and restore relationships within this family. Give wisdom and resolution to the lot dispute, and let Your peace reign in their hearts. Help them to let go of the love of material things and to find their treasure in You alone. Father, we rebuke the temptation of pornography and ask for Your deliverance. Fill them with Your Spirit and lead them into freedom. Remind them of their worth and purpose in Christ, and let them find true meaning in serving You. We declare that no weapon formed against this family shall prosper, and we stand on Your promises of hope and restoration (Isaiah 54:17). In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to seek godly counsel and community, for you were not meant to walk this journey alone. The enemy wants to isolate you, but God calls us to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2). Find a local church or a trusted Christian friend who can walk with you, pray with you, and hold you accountable. Remember, God is faithful, and He will complete the good work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6). Keep pressing into Him, and do not lose heart.
 
We can feel the weight you’re carrying in every line, a brother who is sick and distant, a family torn, a legal battle stuck, and a deep ache that whispers life no longer means anything. And yet you prayed. That you chose to cry out to God instead of staying silent says something true about your heart, even when you feel nothing. We are here with you, and we are praying.

For your brother’s worsening cough: please, gently urge him to see a doctor. A years-long cough that is getting worse needs medical attention, not silence. Even if he does not welcome your concern right now, you will know you loved him well by speaking up.

For your own soul, we want to name that feeling like life has no meaning and being drawn toward pornography are not just spiritual struggles, they can be signs of something deeper weighing on your mind. We would encourage you to take a brave step and talk with a pastor, a Christian counselor, or your doctor. You are not weak for reaching out; you are wise. There are people trained to walk with you through this heaviness and help you find steadier ground.

The family rifts and the lot dispute feel like too much to untangle alone. Consider whether a trusted third party, a mediator, a wise elder, could help you and your family take one small step forward without expecting everything to be fixed at once.

What we hear in your surrender is not failure but the honesty that makes real change possible. You do not have to find all the answers today.

Lord Jesus, we lift this aching heart to You. Please bring healing to this brother’s body and open a door for his care. In the tangled family hurt, grant moments of surprising grace. For the legal stalemate, guide the next right step. And for this dear one who feels empty, sustain them with just enough hope for today and shield them from the pull of what they do not want. Bring them a safe person to walk alongside them soon. In Your name we pray, Amen.
 
Amen may Lord Yeshua and Father God teach us to lean into him to trust in him to pray and worship instead of relying on sexusl bandage and porn. Further justifying judgements and trials for you and your family. And porn makes us more cruel. Less gentle. Because of the flesh. In the holy spirit we are much more loving. Gentle. And full of compassion but pornoghraghy is carnal. Rough. Especially if your married than your cheating on your spouse. May God give you eyes to see how lust is both a sin against your beloved and a sin against the holy spirit. Lord Yeshuas name amen.
 
Thou sayest, “I surrender,” and that is well, for the Lord is near unto the broken heart. Yet mark this: to surrender to despair is no surrender to God, it is a surrender to the enemy of thy soul. Despair is a high insult to God, for it sets up the devil and crowns him in Christ’s stead, as though thy sin were greater than the mercy of heaven. God is not lost, though thou feelest lost. Thy word of despair is not warranted; it degrades thee below the brute beast that struggles on though cut in halves. Cast it from thee!

Thou criest concerning thy brother’s unforgiveness, the coughing that wastes his frame, the cold silence between kin. Here is a tangle indeed, but not beyond the reach of Him who maketh the lion lie down with the kid. Pray for thy brother, not merely for his body, but for his soul. His refusal to forgive is a worse sickness than any cough; it is the soul shutting itself to the balm of Gilead. Remember, there is forgiveness with God, that He may be feared. If the Eternal holds out pardon to thee for ten thousand talents, canst thou not forgive a hundred pence? Let that whisper, there is forgiveness, break the stony heart, first in thine own bosom, and then plead it over thy brother’s darkened spirit.

As for the lot dispute, the stalemate, let it be. These earthly portions are but toys in the nursery of time. If thou gain the whole field and lose thy soul, what profit is it? Thou sayest, I do not want our material things. That is a grace, if thou meanest it; see that thou settest thy affection on things above, where Christ is. Thy true inheritance is not a plot of ground but the paradise of God.

Thou speakest of life having no meaning, and a foul temptation to escape through the filth of the eye. Flee from that pit! It is but a quicker way to despair’s dungeon. Porn is a thief that steals the soul’s strength while whispering false comfort. Turn from it as from a serpent. Thy meaning is not found in the mire of lust; it is found at the cross. There is forgiveness for that sin, as for all manner of blasphemy, but thou must bring it to the light and forsake it. Christ’s blood cleanseth even from that stain. I bless God for the five years of despair I once endured, for it drove me to cling to the hem of His garment as never before. Self-despair is common-sense, for there is nothing in thyself to rely upon; but then look to Jesus, the author and finisher of faith.

Let this blessed whisper drive away despair: there is forgiveness. It is a hammer to break the gates of brass. What though Giant Despair shuts thee in Doubting Castle? Thou hast a key called Promise in thy bosom; use it! God’s word says, “There is forgiveness,” not for others only, but for thee. I mind me of a poor fallen woman who thought her father would never receive her again, but the letter that came back from him bore that one word, “IMMEDIATE.” Such is the heart of thy heavenly Father. Come now, with all thy burdens, thy brother’s bitterness, thy nephew’s disrespect, thy weariness, thy secret shame. None ever perished who cast himself wholly upon the mercy of God in Christ. Smooth out those wrinkles of despair, and believe. Prayerless souls are Christless souls; but thou prayest, therefore hope. He hath not brought thee to thy knees to laugh at thy tears. There is forgiveness now. Rise, go to thy Father, and sin no more.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 

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